If you please. I will list her good qualities & bad points. I dont know if personal appearance has much to do with Type but i thought a mental picture might help? Erm...If it doesnt, just ignore those bits. Here goes:-
She's in her early 60s, dresses smart, looks good for her age.
Holds grudges & has a very long memory.
Re the above; when in conflict she doesnt usually confront those who have displeased her with something they did way back in the past but she does pass on her thoughts to me & other close & trusted members of family.
Is pleasant, polite & talkative in company of strangers.
Is almost always late getting to places; a lot of which is due to circumstances beyond her control, but she is terrible for deciding what to wear; "Does this go with this, does this look a bit shabby, what earrings shall i wear" etc.
Re the above; i tell her nobody really cares if your ensemble is matching & she says "Well, i do".
She is critical & nit picky eg she'll see what someone has NOT done rather than what they have.
She speaks as she finds.
Quite often she'll get up on her soapbox re subjects she's passionate about.
She's always trying to figure people out & one of her favourite sayings is "it's a funny old world".
She's sociable in company but fairly quiet & laid back when you get her on her own.
She is a very good cook, & (was) a very good sketcher (i've seen her drawings from art class from many years ago).
Re the above; i can back up the good cook bit as that's part of her business.
Was in a 20+ yr physcologically (mainly) & physically abusive relationship which she spent trying to understand why her partner was like he was, taking him back after his most violent outburst before finally getting a divorce over a year ago.
Does not want a relationship (see above!).
Has a lack of confidence in many things & i'm beginning to understand that it might be the reason she used to get so frustrated with me when i was young cos maybe she was seeing herself in me?
Has for most of her working life been self-employed; for most of it as a store detective.
She has great attention to detail eg when i was a kid & i used to sneak into her bedroom to play with her makeup she'd know i'd been in there no matter how painstakingly i'd put things back where they were in the first place.
When a newsreader is on telly she'll comment about their appearance not about the news they're reading.
When there is conflict she is more likely to remain silent as she finds she can't get out what she wants to say (but does think of what she could have said days later!).
She tends to hold her emotions in & prefers not to cry even in front of those close to her (she tends to fight it back if she starts).
She has a very good singing voice & could play piano by ear (chords, notes, the lot) when she was a child.
Her paperwork is all over the place but she knows where to find things.
When she has a plan she'll discuss it with those she trusts & she will follow through with it.
She wanted to be a fashion designer when she left school.
She has been married 3 times & for the last 2 i'd say she was the emotionally stronger in the relationships (she is a strong woman anyway).
Retail therapy; clothes shopping, especially when stressed.
She's in her early 60s, dresses smart, looks good for her age.
Holds grudges & has a very long memory.
Re the above; when in conflict she doesnt usually confront those who have displeased her with something they did way back in the past but she does pass on her thoughts to me & other close & trusted members of family.
Is pleasant, polite & talkative in company of strangers.
Is almost always late getting to places; a lot of which is due to circumstances beyond her control, but she is terrible for deciding what to wear; "Does this go with this, does this look a bit shabby, what earrings shall i wear" etc.
Re the above; i tell her nobody really cares if your ensemble is matching & she says "Well, i do".
She is critical & nit picky eg she'll see what someone has NOT done rather than what they have.
She speaks as she finds.
Quite often she'll get up on her soapbox re subjects she's passionate about.
She's always trying to figure people out & one of her favourite sayings is "it's a funny old world".
She's sociable in company but fairly quiet & laid back when you get her on her own.
She is a very good cook, & (was) a very good sketcher (i've seen her drawings from art class from many years ago).
Re the above; i can back up the good cook bit as that's part of her business.
Was in a 20+ yr physcologically (mainly) & physically abusive relationship which she spent trying to understand why her partner was like he was, taking him back after his most violent outburst before finally getting a divorce over a year ago.
Does not want a relationship (see above!).
Has a lack of confidence in many things & i'm beginning to understand that it might be the reason she used to get so frustrated with me when i was young cos maybe she was seeing herself in me?
Has for most of her working life been self-employed; for most of it as a store detective.
She has great attention to detail eg when i was a kid & i used to sneak into her bedroom to play with her makeup she'd know i'd been in there no matter how painstakingly i'd put things back where they were in the first place.
When a newsreader is on telly she'll comment about their appearance not about the news they're reading.
When there is conflict she is more likely to remain silent as she finds she can't get out what she wants to say (but does think of what she could have said days later!).
She tends to hold her emotions in & prefers not to cry even in front of those close to her (she tends to fight it back if she starts).
She has a very good singing voice & could play piano by ear (chords, notes, the lot) when she was a child.
Her paperwork is all over the place but she knows where to find things.
When she has a plan she'll discuss it with those she trusts & she will follow through with it.
She wanted to be a fashion designer when she left school.
She has been married 3 times & for the last 2 i'd say she was the emotionally stronger in the relationships (she is a strong woman anyway).
Retail therapy; clothes shopping, especially when stressed.
