Annoying people of your type

[IDreamtIWasABee]

I dislike self-loathing INFPs. Own it, people. It's a bit of a mindfuck, but lots of people in the real world like INFPs. If you work with people, whatever your job, regulars will start coming up to you and unburdening themselves like you're a bartender. "Nonjudgmental" empathy is valued.

And I know it sometimes seems like we can barely make the bed without getting our feelings hurt, but our hypersensitivity is shallow; mastered Fi isn't vulnerable in any deep way, which is why INFPs sulk and skip from relationship to relationship, job to job, and never seem the worse for wear even if every one of those efforts fails in the most banal, soul-eroding ways imaginable. Mastered Fi is as robust as the T-1000's body: unless you burn those ideas and ethics and feewings like a fucking tick, it just...re-forms into the same enchanting asshole.

I understand it, though. INFPs embody everything Faustian Man does not. When the culture idealizes everything you have no talent for/interest in, it's easy to start believing you suck.

Disordered INFPs are an ordeal to interact with.

 

[Smilephantomhive]

I read this as how to annoy people of your type and was going to make helpful suggestions.

Well if you have interesting ideas then go ahead.

 

[Forever]

sheltered or overly naive INFPs can annoy me. so can enneagram 4s who haven't discovered how full of shit they are yet.

Careful, don't make them think they are the shit. Lol especially those with a 3 wing

 

[geedoenfj]

I don't know any people of my type in real life, and didn't dislike any of them online yet [emoji39]

 

[prplchknz]

I read this as how to annoy people of your type and was going to make helpful suggestions.

please do.

 

[geedoenfj]

I think most people think that ENTPs are either really cool or really annoying. I don't know how many I've actually met or known well enough to know whether I liked them or not I procrastinate a bit and catch myself arguing/being overly sarcastic for no reason at all, so I guess that could annoy people if every other ENTP is like that

I love the sense of humor of ENTPs they're so fun to be around, but I personally think they can be very self absorbed and sometimes need to learn to put themselves in shoes of other people..

 

[Ribonuke]

I'm personally VERY annoyed by people of my own type; they're competition. I get annoyed by them the same reason a tiger would feel threatened or irritated by another tiger hunting in their territory. Also, I unfortunately run into this trend where I'll find ESTPs ruining their reputation by actively try to start conflict; I've noticed they tend to thrive better in conflict scenarios than a lot of other types, and therefore can use their success navigating said conflicts as a way of feeling superior. It's a childish gambit at best; at its worst, it can start social wars.

 

[Tilt]

I typically clash with mother hen, papa bear ENFJ types.

 

[Lady Lazarus]

I am the annoying person of my type.

 

[Bush]

All of them.

 

[Smilephantomhive]

I am the annoying person of my type.

At least you admitted it lol

 

[prplchknz]

annoying people is easy and it's not type related. people get annoyed at you for just existening sometimes, and your like fine! i won't then they get mad cuz your dead and blame themselves or don't but they still don't like it. humans are odd and annoying little things.

 

[Dyslexxie]

No way, I absolutely adore ENTPs - the girls are strong and bold, and the men are very alpha - what isn't there to love? The only issue I've ever had with some ENTPs (and I'm sure others have had with me) is that everything has to become a dick measuring contest.

 

[magpie]

I'm mostly around ESFPs, ENFPs, and ISFPs, but occasionally I'll come across another INFP who's decided they want to do some sort of performing art. I have no issue with INFPs when I encounter them in real life but I love hanging out with ESFPs the most. They're so much fun. They're not fun to work with though. I prefer working with ISFPs.

 

[geedoenfj]

Thinking again I might have known an unhealthy ENFJ female at school, I don't dislike her as much as feeling pity for her..

 

[Forever]

I can't say... lol.

 

[citizen cane]

In my experience, most of them.

 

[Fury]

Irl the ENFP's I know have a "special snowflake-y" type of attitude that's kinda annoying, but I can deal with it.

 

[/DG/]

I am an annoying person of my type.

Annoying people of the world--unite!

Or don't...that might not be a great idea...

 

[Dr Mobius]

I often find the confluence of factors in younger ENTPs irritating. The whole act big to overcome insecure egos. A psyche resting on a clever retort, or twist of reasoning is a fragile volatile lattice.

Or the bullshitters; don't get me wrong I find it amusing. But one must always be careful not to start believing their own brand; that way lies Ne's bullshit mountain.

This seems a tad negative as I usually enjoy other ENTPs.