violet_crown
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- sx/sp
It seems odd to me that it could be related to typology. I wouldn't have given it any real thought if I hadn't first encountered this detail in that original description. I'm not sure I can speculate. The closest I can come up with is that there is a greater likelihood of common 'language' between N-types and that language simply extending to the realm of sex. But this hasn't always been true, and compatibility is more intricate than that line of speculation.
Do you have a speculation?
Also, I should clarify that it wasn't being said that intuitives necessarily have more sex. The intimation (in the forums) was that N-types like/need/prefer 'more sex', a lot of it, that in relationships their libidos are greater .... greater than what, is anyone's guess. At the time I did not belong to any typology forum so I was unable to address it then and there.
I'd agree with your assessment that sex drive is probably not type related, but if there is any correlation there, it would probably be more a function of love languages or whatever the person's enneagram instinctual variant happened to be.
I've primarily dated intuitives, and I will say that folks who were Ni/Se have had a much stronger libido than those who were Ne/Si. NPs seem to need more downtime or they get overwhelmed and withdraw, so it's important to check in with them to see where they're at. With NJs, bless our hearts, if we're going, we're pretty much good to go until they can't go anymore lol.