So I have information to go on to know if I'm interested. I'm very happy if someone I'm interested in advances, but if it's someone I'm not interested in, I sort of sigh in my mind and check a clock.
Look into it. Succumb to it. oooOOOOoooOOoooooo.
In most cases that someone could advance on me, I've already observed everyone.
However, when someone unfamiliar to me advances, that's already unnerving (I am polite but very distant toward strangers). I don't like being taken aside by people I haven't examined. Once that's happened though, I do try to assess them as fast as I can, and things basically go up or down from there. The less intrigue or endearment that is accomplished in a given amount of time, the more I ask myself "how do I get out of this?". A stranger also has to go much slower than someone I'm already interested in, because I'm still bunkered in and trying to scope them out.
So a stranger still has better chances than someone I've observered and written off, but they have a tough task, I tell you...
You won't last forever.
Does it? It certainly doesn't seem to be how everyone approaches the situation. I feel like most males are far more outwardly aggressive than me.
The first version of that song I heard was the Annie Lenox cover from Medusa, that's the one I always think of.
ha! You don't have to be the typical aggressive male but you do have to let the woman know you're interested.
I LOVE her version. That's why it has "boy" instead of the Bob Marley "girl"...
Yes most males are more aggressive than the INTP's I know. The INTP's I know except for one have all have gone for more aggressive type woman... Only one INTP of my acquaintance made the first move...they've been married for 21 years. I suppose I'll never have an INTP because I am not an aggressive woman...I'll let you know you have a chance but...step up to the plate..be a man and make a move.
Yes most males are more aggressive than the INTP's I know. The INTP's I know except for one have all have gone for more aggressive type woman... Only one INTP of my acquaintance made the first move...they've been married for 21 years. I suppose I'll never have an INTP because I am not an aggressive woman...I'll let you know you have a chance but...step up to the plate..be a man and make a move.
). As long as they reciprocate interest, and don't just leave me to chase them, I wouldn't have much of an issue being forward. But I've been called aggressive by more than one person.
