Um, guys? The t-shirt remark was tongue-in-cheek.
I would wager that you don't have many male friends. And it isn't that you're necessarily looking for "intuitive" men, but rather
good men who would take the time to get to know you, rather than just rush into the whole dating scenario. You're just sort of assuming that you'd get along more with the intuitive ones. While there is
some truth that the more intuitive guys are more likely to understand you and your quirks, that doesn't imply that they'd get along with you.
I would suggest that you take the time to get to know guys without "dating" them. In my personal opinion, the "dating" scenario just isn't well-suited to discerning what Ni-doms need to know about a potential partner. We tend to be attracted to people that we don't really get along with - not because we're stupid or wired wrong, but just simple statistics: we're the rare ducks among the MBTI types, so most other people don't share our cognitive approach and they don't have many people in their lives who are Ni doms.
What's worse for an Ni-dom female, in my observations, is that the reverse wrong-attractiion effect occurs, too. If she is especially attractive, she'll end up with a lot of suitors who simply won't be able to understand her very well, not on her level: these will be the guys whose overall style is to be proactive and ask girls out, especially the pretty ones. The kind of "intuitive" (I use the word loosely, not technically) temperament you're looking for, especially the more reserved kind of man who is not in the mood to "play games", isn't going to be one of the guys that approaches you in a bar to ask for your number.
Both of these effects will tend to conspire to make it difficult for you to get to know men.
What I would suggest is that instead of trying to meet guys on dating terms, meet them on friendly terms. Meet your female friends' male friends. Join some sort of hobby/interest group that isn't primarily made up of women and get to know the guys there. I'd actually suggest this for all MBTI types, not just Ni doms: all dating is essentially "blind". The expectations these days are set up not around getting to know the other person, but around the assumption that the other person is
supposed to be a romantic interest. All of those expectations actually work against getting to know the other person very well.