What do you see as the difference between the two? Is one a subset of the other, or do they intersect somehow?What are your thoughts?
Which do you think affects your life, your actions more?
What affects my life more...
Well.. character is what we can control.. it's the image we portray, it's the consciousness we can affect onto others.
Where, IMO, personality is subconscious.. it's also that place where our deepest and darkest fears and hurts live. For me, it's a fundamental fear of being alone, of not being loved by others. But in that basic fear comes my greatest gift within my personality. The gift of deep compassion and generosity.
That being said. Those basic traits of my personality drive my character. If I'm in an unhealthy state, I subconsciously try and manipulate and make people "need" me and my help to continue to feed my need for love. To quell that basic fear.
To the world, my character is outwardly selfless, giving, and altruistic. Where, in reality, it's the opposite. I'm doing things to satisfy my own superego's consistent demand to get love at any cost.
But, when you are capable of self love (my own personal journey here), then you truly personify and exemplify the best in human nature.. Again, outwardly, my character hasn't changed... but my personalities demands (super ego) have shifted inwards, not outwards. In Enneagram speak, why I "grow" moving towards a type 4, which is more individualistic.
I believe that it is possible for personality to mask character. I think that personality is formed and character is nurtured. They do overlap and intertwine at times, but personality doesn't always reflect character, at least not at first. Still, I am curious as to how others see it. Personally, I think it's nice to be around a person with both a well-rooted character and an enjoyable personality but if I had to choose between the two, I'd choose good character over delightful personality any time. What good does it do if a person is "nice"to you or funny or sweet if they would stab you in the back for personal gain? I'd rather be able to trust someone than like them. I would choose honest and gruff over sweet and deceptive.
There was a shift in the 1920s regarding personality vs character. If you read Victorian-era literature, it emphasizes "good character" as requisite for being a worthwhile human being. During the 1920s, as advertising and big business began to take off, it became important to have a "good personality", and this persists in American culture to this day. My class seemed to feel this was a serious--and superficial--downgrading from something of a higher nature.
We discussed this in an American culture class once.
Personality is your way of interfacing with the world. Character refers to inner qualities regarding your moral fiber and other traits that define you when push comes to shove.
There was a shift in the 1920s regarding personality vs character. If you read Victorian-era literature, it emphasizes "good character" as requisite for being a worthwhile human being. During the 1920s, as advertising and big business began to take off, it became important to have a "good personality", and this persists in American culture to this day. My class seemed to feel this was a serious--and superficial--downgrading from something of a higher nature.
Going by this definition, I'd say my personality indeed has been instrumental in much of my ability to get ahead, or not get ahead, as the case may be. My "character" was never under discussion. I guess it's deeper, more hidden, and ultimately less important in this modern world. This is a shame, because I think it's probably a better indicator of who and what we really are than the gyrations we undergo to get along with the outer world.
We discussed this in an American culture class once.
Personality is your way of interfacing with the world. Character refers to inner qualities regarding your moral fiber and other traits that define you when push comes to shove.
There was a shift in the 1920s regarding personality vs character. If you read Victorian-era literature, it emphasizes "good character" as requisite for being a worthwhile human being. During the 1920s, as advertising and big business began to take off, it became important to have a "good personality", and this persists in American culture to this day. My class seemed to feel this was a serious--and superficial--downgrading from something of a higher nature.
Going by this definition, I'd say my personality indeed has been instrumental in much of my ability to get ahead, or not get ahead, as the case may be. My "character" was never under discussion. I guess it's deeper, more hidden, and ultimately less important in this modern world. This is a shame, because I think it's probably a better indicator of who and what we really are than the gyrations we undergo to get along with the outer world.
Since it seems like you're welcoming all thoughts, I take that tack.
I have a hard time seeing the difference between the two. If stories I read a lot when I was younger are to be believed, Character is more your conscious actions whereas Personality is more conditioning and internal perceptions. What you choose to do, your alignment, what makes you feel like you have a place in existence is your Character.
Personality is feelings. It's more personal. It's more reaction than action. But I'm guessing.
(I really dislike these kinds of questions, now that I think about it. It always seems like there two concepts should be treated as interchangeable rather than distinct. Why differentiate? There's arguments on either side for the denotation of each word in either direction, as far as I can tell. )
But for me, I just take it as external and internal properties being given two names. Character is being known for never cheating in a competition. Personality is not giving a damn whether other people cheat or not, as long as they don't involve you. Personality could also be judging everyone who does cheat for doing so. Personality could also be wishing that you were brave enough to cheat as well, but you're just convinced that you'll be the one to get caught. Personality could also be being good at manipulating cheaters into getting caught, so as to make things easier for themselves without cheating directly. All those Personalities don't cheat, tho, so that's part of their Character.
Eh, I'm starting to bore myself with my example. But really, is there even a difference in their common usage? Should there be?
...And by the way, that Evolutionary Biology example sounds like some sexist nonsense. That author might have done themselves a favor not engaging such a topic in their book's discussion.