My thread got no love *sob*
No, I can understand why. I probably wouldn't answer me either... but I'm going to answer myself. That is, I'm going to record my observations, because I'm bored and I feel like it.
So... definitely INTP. Being an 8 adds leadership and drive, but he's still a total Perceiver, with all the indecisiveness/ disorganization that inevitably follows. No surprise, neither of us likes making decisions.
Um the T vs F things... actually, in writing he's more affectionate than I am. I think it's an Fe vs Fi things. i'm pretty sure I feel a bit more than he does, but I keep most of it under wraps.
Both of us being strong Ns adds to interesting conversations. We notice/don't notice a lot of the same things.
I/E differences aren't huge issues because I don't have a strong preference for Extraversion, but he's definitely more shy around groups.
The 4/8 thing don't really apply. I read more into things and am hideously self-conscious, but what else is new. I think he has a 4 in his tri-type somewhere, and I have an 8 in mine. Sx/sp and sp/sx are pretty wonderful together.