Could you fall in love with an INTJ?

[ReflecTcelfeR]

I love my partners dead.

 

[Thalassa]

Everything you've outlined in the OP is exactly the problem. I think I'd be perfectly capable of loving an INTJ, but I have my doubts that they're capable of loving me in return.

If I'm honest, I've always bonded with other feelers better. I think it would be theoretically ideal to be with an NT - balance on the T/F and shared N - but I'm honestly not sure it would work.

 

[XYZ]

I've never been physically attracted to INTJ, but they are cool interesting people.

ENTP's are the most compatible with INTJ's.

 

[Kristiana]

Being an INTJ myself I've noticed that in any type of relationship I've ever had
I have not been able (or willing) to give back as much intensity as I've received.

What I want to know is how many of you would be willing to stay in a relationship where the other person doesn't show any signs of love towards you?
BASED ON THE OPINIONS OF OTHERS ( YOU) ON HUMAN TOLERANCE NOT ME.

I don't think the trait in question is an INTJ trait. I am INTJ, married to an INTJ man. We are extremely loving, intense, and affectionate in how we relate to each other, and we have been from literally the first day we met (we got married 8 months after we met, haha).

I also have several INTJ friends in relationships. They also tend to be very affectionate and loving toward their SOs.

So, my take: If you have a hard time being warm and affectionate toward someone, either that someone is not the right person for you, OR you may have other issues that may best be discussed with a counselor (no I'm not being obnoxious here, I really think that insight into such issues is a good thing).