GirlFromMars
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This is a bit of a n00b question, but bare with me. I want to know the real difference between Judging and Percieving. I know the whole more orderly and structured Vs more disorganized, but how deep, and in what areas does it go? I'm not very organized when it comes to things like my desk, and I leave most things until the last minute (calling places/people I need to call, homework when I was in school etc.)
But when it comes to other things I'm organized, and really need structure, to the point I'm kinda obsessive about it. For an example, I plan what I want/need to do in my head, and would rather plan it out than leave it. I ask people what the plans are, because it makes me feel uncomfortable not knowing, and I can't just relax. I seem to be planned internally, but not-so-planned externally. The odd thing is my (J)boyfriend is the opposite in that way - he's more orderly on the outside than me, but more easy-going and relaxed with the things I'm less relaxed about. But I guess other functions, and other things come into play there.
So what is the best way to really sort this out?
But when it comes to other things I'm organized, and really need structure, to the point I'm kinda obsessive about it. For an example, I plan what I want/need to do in my head, and would rather plan it out than leave it. I ask people what the plans are, because it makes me feel uncomfortable not knowing, and I can't just relax. I seem to be planned internally, but not-so-planned externally. The odd thing is my (J)boyfriend is the opposite in that way - he's more orderly on the outside than me, but more easy-going and relaxed with the things I'm less relaxed about. But I guess other functions, and other things come into play there.
So what is the best way to really sort this out?