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Not fulfilling type ideals to the max

Ghost of the dead horse

filling some space
Joined
Sep 7, 2007
Messages
3,553
MBTI Type
ENTJ
Here I am, ENTJ who's not leading anything, who's success is low, trying so hard.. I own my clothes and debt. I'll probably work everything out just okay in the end, in few years.. perhaps everything will even be great. I'm just a far cry from some power-figure, rich oligarch or something like that.

So, how does it go for ENFJ who don't melt faces with their social prowess?
INTP who isn't the shining light of knowledge?
ESTP who's really not that high with street smarts?

Don't get me wrong, I enjoy my life - love, even. I'm happy. I think about success a lot and I wish for it. I speak about it a lot, too, and I strive for it. Just that, objectively speaking, my life story just isn't incredible enough to celebrate right now.

Perhaps I'm not an average ENTJ either. Perhaps I'm this and that, perhaps a below-average ENTJ when ENTJ qualities are concerned :D

So, what's it like not to fulfill the real, or imagined type ideals? Stories, please.
 

Liminality

New member
Joined
Aug 29, 2009
Messages
217
MBTI Type
ISFx
Enneagram
6w7
I'll forever be looking for a portal into my own fantasy world, I'll say that much.
 

Quinlan

Intriguing....
Joined
Apr 6, 2008
Messages
3,004
MBTI Type
ISFP
Enneagram
9w1
I'm not an artist or musician. :(
 

Matthew_Z

That chalkboard guy
Joined
Jun 15, 2009
Messages
1,256
MBTI Type
xxxx
I haven't written a book on Advanced Mathematics

...yet.
 

Wild horses

New member
Joined
Oct 25, 2008
Messages
1,916
MBTI Type
ENFP
Thing is... My stereotype is so easy to follow that I do it with ease... basicaly screw up life... I think that if you stereotype requires more work it is easier to contradict it... Mine is like a default setting :D:D:D

One thing about me that does go against the grain though is the emotional stuff. Contrary to the stereotype... I'm not all hallmark cards and kleenex tissues at the ready... In fact I am probably less emotional than your average NT :D
 

The_Liquid_Laser

Glowy Goopy Goodness
Joined
Jul 11, 2007
Messages
3,376
MBTI Type
ENTP
I'm still working on developing that flux capacitor. ;)


Thing is... My stereotype is so easy to follow that I do it with ease... basicaly screw up life... I think that if you stereotype requires more work it is easier to contradict it... Mine is like a default setting :D:D:D

:rofl1:
 

Moiety

New member
Joined
Aug 3, 2008
Messages
5,996
MBTI Type
ISFJ
I really don't get all this crap about motivating others or being inventive. I'm as lazy as they come.
 

Wild horses

New member
Joined
Oct 25, 2008
Messages
1,916
MBTI Type
ENFP
+1
Geez I forgot about the whole motivating thing Sy... I can barely motivate myself
 

Orangey

Blah
Joined
Jun 26, 2008
Messages
6,354
MBTI Type
ESTP
Enneagram
6w5
Yeah, I certainly don't measure up to the INTP genius stereotype. I'm not secretly brilliant. And I haven't done any real math for at least 3 years.
 

Valuable_Money

New member
Joined
Jun 19, 2009
Messages
679
MBTI Type
ENTP
Enneagram
5w6
Most ENTJs are really pizza boys who obsessivly fantasize over being rich(Although to be fair they did make it to manager in only 3 months).

Most INTJs are pasty faced nerds who spend their nights planing world domination om their heads.

Most INTPs are pasty faced nerds.

Most ENTPs are Cosmo Kramer esque weirdos.
 

Matthew_Z

That chalkboard guy
Joined
Jun 15, 2009
Messages
1,256
MBTI Type
xxxx
Yeah, I certainly don't measure up to the INTP genius stereotype. I'm not secretly brilliant. And I haven't done any real math for at least 3 years.
We're analysts, silly.

Something you've just proved by your analysis of your own failures.
 

FDG

pathwise dependent
Joined
Aug 13, 2007
Messages
5,903
MBTI Type
ENTJ
Enneagram
7w8
Most ENTJs are really pizza boys who obsessivly fantasize over being rich(Although to be fair they did make it to manager in only 3 months).

Most INTJs are pasty faced nerds who spend their nights planing world domination om their heads.

Most INTPs are pasty faced nerds.

Most ENTPs are Cosmo Kramer esque weirdos.

Lol, yes, perfect.
 
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