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which Type is the "natural bad boy" with girls?

which type is the "natural magnet" with girls?

  • ISTJ

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • ESTJ

    Votes: 6 4.6%
  • ISFJ

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • ESFJ

    Votes: 3 2.3%
  • ISTP

    Votes: 30 23.1%
  • ESTP

    Votes: 76 58.5%
  • ISFP

    Votes: 8 6.2%
  • ESFP

    Votes: 27 20.8%
  • INTJ

    Votes: 3 2.3%
  • ENTJ

    Votes: 17 13.1%
  • INTP

    Votes: 2 1.5%
  • ENTP

    Votes: 22 16.9%
  • INFJ

    Votes: 5 3.8%
  • ENFJ

    Votes: 7 5.4%
  • INFP

    Votes: 1 0.8%
  • ENFP

    Votes: 14 10.8%

  • Total voters
    130

niki

New member
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MBTI Type
INFP
I mean in term of dating/relationship with girls,
which mbti type seems to have high correlation with being a "natural" with girls, without exerting even any energy to meet-up, pick-up line, dating, and even making out & 'doing' it?
in other words, the "natural bad boy" , or "dangerous guy" , that many (if not all?..) girls seems to be interested & hooked at.

my guess is, an ESFP ?
true, or false?

what do u guys think?
 

BerberElla

12 and a half weeks
Joined
Sep 25, 2008
Messages
2,725
MBTI Type
infp
ExxP. Hate to paint you all with the same brush, but you know it's you lol and by extension me :laugh:.

Maybe ones with a bit of F wouldn't be as bad, ie more of a cheeky jack the lad, than an outright bad boy.

Still though, that's just a guess.
 

Amargith

Hotel California
Joined
Nov 5, 2008
Messages
14,717
MBTI Type
ENFP
Enneagram
4dw
Instinctual Variant
sx/so
I like STP for the bad boy type, at least the real primal vibe.

ENTJ for the resistance-is-futile vibe

ENFJ for charismatic, sweep me off my feet overload

:blush:
 

The Outsider

New member
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Messages
2,418
MBTI Type
intp
Enneagram
5w4
Instinctual Variant
sx
I'm gonna go with ESTP, based on my best friend.
 

NewEra

New member
Joined
Dec 21, 2008
Messages
3,104
MBTI Type
I
ESTP. There's no question about it. This one ESTP friend I know bangs a different chick each week.
 

Udog

Seriously Delirious
Joined
Aug 2, 2008
Messages
5,290
MBTI Type
INfp
Enneagram
9w1
Instinctual Variant
sp/sx
ESTP and ENTP naturally fall into the role. The need for exploration combined with a curious, detached, and effective Fe-tert make them the types where women often get burned but are compelled to come back for more.

Oh, I just noticed your poll question doesn't match the Thread topic question. Heh.
 

Halla74

Artisan Conquerer
Joined
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Messages
6,898
MBTI Type
ESTP
Enneagram
7w8
Instinctual Variant
sx/so
I'm 100% ESTP and have loved the company of women my whole life. :D

I never had any issues communicating with girls, have not once been hindered by shyness in asking a girl out on a date, and always been comfortable with physical affection. If you can manage walking up to someone and getting them to laugh then that's all you need to prime a conversation most of the time. Within a few minutes you can tell if the right vibe is there and if you should pursue things further.

Thankfully, I have a deep love and great respect for my Mother, which I feel is the foundation of me being loving and respectful toward women. I never saw life as a huge sexual rampage, thus my "numbers" are low, but the quality of the girls I've spent time with has been top notch. They've all been very pretty, nice, and enjoyable to be around.

I've been told time and again that I am flirtatious, even by my wife, but she knows I'm just extremely social and extroverted, and understands I mean nothing by it because her Dad (ESTJ) is the same way. If I didn't have a conscience about sexuality then I'm pretty sure I would have several illegitimate children dispersed throughout the U.S. :doh:

One of my best friends, Jack, is an ESFP, and he is a total flirt. He is terribly funny, and that seems to be useful for him too when talking to women.
 

Amargith

Hotel California
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Nov 5, 2008
Messages
14,717
MBTI Type
ENFP
Enneagram
4dw
Instinctual Variant
sx/so
Then you're the diamond in the rough many women are looking for. It's often hard to find bad boys that are worth keeping as they are so acutely aware of the effect they have on women that it often corrupts them morally.
 

Laurie

Was E.laur
Joined
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Messages
6,072
MBTI Type
ENFP
Enneagram
7w6
My ENTP female friend dated around and would just not date someone after a first date if she knew they weren't right for her. She had no trouble, nowadays friends mention dating her and she doesn't even remember they went on a date.
 

ajblaise

Minister of Propagandhi
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MBTI Type
INTP
It's often hard to find bad boys that are worth keeping as they are so acutely aware of the effect they have on women that it often corrupts them morally.

INTx bad boys aren't aware of this!
 

Amargith

Hotel California
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sx/so
Agreed :devil:

INTs tend to have the same potential for being a bad boys, they just aren't aware of it and they don't project it. You only find out after you get to know them. Quite fun, that ;)
 

Ulaes

loopy
Joined
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Messages
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MBTI Type
crak
Enneagram
sax
ESTP and ENTP naturally fall into the role. The need for exploration combined with a curious, detached, and effective Fe-tert make them the types where women often get burned but are compelled to come back for more.

i dont know about entps, they seem awkward socially to me for crying out loud. they called annoying a lot.
the esfps can attract and charm anyone but i think seduction has a T element.
of the SPs: either E
SJs: ESFJ
NFs: ENFJ
NTs: ha! (but if any, one of the Es, obviously)
 

BlackCat

Shaman
Joined
Nov 19, 2008
Messages
7,038
MBTI Type
ESFP
Enneagram
9w8
Instinctual Variant
sx/sp
EXXP. Namely EXTP.
 

Saslou

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Messages
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MBTI Type
ESFJ
ESTP as the natural bad boy although they do have a good side ;)
 

Moiety

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5,996
MBTI Type
ISFJ
ESXP. But from the people I know I'd say ESFP.
 

Asterion

Ruler of the Stars
Joined
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Messages
2,331
MBTI Type
INTP
Enneagram
5
Instinctual Variant
sp/sx
ENTPs can play the bad boy role, but not as well as ESXPs, ESFPs have a bit more sentimentality though, they don't quite do it in a bad boy kind of way really.

ESTP>ESFP>ENTP=ISTP>ISFP
Where does ENTJ go!?!

Types like ENFJ etc. don't really fall into the bad boy category do they?

For ESTP, Think Charlie Sheen :D
 

Amargith

Hotel California
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MBTI Type
ENFP
Enneagram
4dw
Instinctual Variant
sx/so
ENTPs can play the bad boy role, but not as well as ESXPs, ESFPs have a bit more sentimentality though, they don't quite do it in a bad boy kind of way really.

ESTP>ESFP>ENTP=ISTP>ISFP
Where does ENTJ go!?!

Types like ENFJ etc. don't really fall into the bad boy category do they?

For ESTP, Think Charlie Sheen :D


Clearly, you haven't met my ex :D

An ENFJ on a powertrip tends to be very aware that he can use his voice to get people (and girls) to do whatever. The charm and decisive nature of an ENFJ can very much allow for a bad boy attitude ;)
 
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