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What am I supposed to do

Justarandomperson

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So, there's this male ExxP (I'm guessing either ENTP or ESTP but I'm not exactly sure) and he seems to have a crush on me, a female INTJ. I honestly haven't noticed but other people told me about it. Basically we're kind of friends although we only know each other since like 5 weeks and his a good friend, one of the real ones. But I don't know if I have a crush on him too, I like him, as a friend. But I don't really know, I try to not think about it but this situation really confuses me, he makes me feel safe and like I can trust him but I don't want to feel that way!
 

StrawberryBoots

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Dec 29, 2016
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Well, until he proposes or tries to get you in a lip-lock, I wouldn't worry. One can't have too many real friends.

:)
 

Coriolis

Si vis pacem, para bellum
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Apr 18, 2010
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MBTI Type
INTJ
Enneagram
5w6
Instinctual Variant
sp/sx
So, there's this male ExxP (I'm guessing either ENTP or ESTP but I'm not exactly sure) and he seems to have a crush on me, a female INTJ. I honestly haven't noticed but other people told me about it. Basically we're kind of friends although we only know each other since like 5 weeks and his a good friend, one of the real ones. But I don't know if I have a crush on him too, I like him, as a friend. But I don't really know, I try to not think about it but this situation really confuses me, he makes me feel safe and like I can trust him but I don't want to feel that way!
No need to borrow trouble. Sounds like your impression is based primarily on heresay. I would just keep doing what you are doing, and weighing your own observations and interactions with him above anything else. Treat him as a friend. Talk, have coffee together, whatever you do with a friend, and see what happens.
 
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