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    Default Sexual / Intimate First Support Group

    Taking the idea from the Social Last Support Group, this can be a place for Sx doms to share and vent.

    I'll start by saying it's a relief to find that there are others who share similar experiences and struggles. When I was young, I thought everyone felt the same way. After finding out they don't, it was too easy to think that there's something wrong with the way I am, with the intensity, the need.
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    do go on

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    i might be too jaded at this point to even know what to say about it...

    too many attempts to jump-start connections over the years, and things just typically fizzling or being held at arms length. If you're non-invasive by nature in addition to SX leanings, then it's hard to get one's needs met.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Totenkindly View Post
    i might be too jaded at this point to even know what to say about it...

    too many attempts to jump-start connections over the years, and things just typically fizzling or being held at arms length. If you're non-invasive by nature in addition to SX leanings, then it's hard to get one's needs met.
    Care to elaborate on the "attempts to jump-start connections"?

    I am not well-versed in instinctual variants, but I have been thinking about this quite a bit lately. How common is it to be SX-first?

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    The "anti-social" social type is often given as an example of how one might not realize for a while how much their life actually does revolve around their dominant, even if their particular issues toward it involve obsessing over their distance from it. Anyway, checking in as the equivalent Sx-dom.

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    neat thread,^_^
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    HI I CAN'T KEEP FRIENDS CUZ THEY FEEL ITS TOO FAST
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    My gf is nearly the same typing as me, except for being sx first. It's completely intriguing how alien that feels to me in some places. I always have the sense that I'm like a tree (sp-first), and I have to draw energy from what I'm attached to to keep stable and engaged. She feels to me like she's a humming bird and has to move constantly from nectar laden flower to flower to keep healthy. Occasionally the difference is alienating, until I decide to just chill out, like a good tree.

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    **In a deserted wasteland, during a pitch-black night, he sees some campfire**
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    الخَيلُ وَاللَيلُ وَالبَيداءُ تَعرِفُني *** وَالسَيفُ وَالرُمحُ وَالقِرطاسُ وَالقَلَمُ
    Swift steeds, dreary nights, and the desolate wasteland, all know me full well
    As do the sword, the spear, the paper and the pen.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Qlip View Post
    My gf is nearly the same typing as me, except for being sx first. It's completely intriguing how alien that feels to me in some places. I always have the sense that I'm like a tree (sp-first), and I have to draw energy from what I'm attached to to keep stable and engaged. She feels to me like she's a humming bird and has to move constantly from nectar laden flower to flower to keep healthy. Occasionally the difference is alienating, until I decide to just chill out, like a good tree.

    I’m interested in understanding this hummingbird analogy better...


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