SP:
- Touch my shit without asking, and you're on my list for at least two hours.
- All about "balling on a budget"; to maximize enjoyment with minimal cost is important to me. That's why I frequently bargain-hunt for things like books, food, etc. I'm not a penny-pincher, but if I spend more than I need to, it's something I think about (for like 30 minutes, then I say whatever and enjoy it anyhow).
- I appreciate personal space greatly; I spend time at home or in isolation for a little bit when I need to recharge from my responsibilities.
- I love being in my PJs; even working from home, unless I'm in a meeting, I'm in PJs.
- I alternate wildly between being health-conscious about eating and eating everything I find tasty.
- Exercise can sometimes be monotonous; I prefer to get my calories burnt by playing basketball (though I'm not great at it).
SO
- I frequently reflect on my place and role within groups, both friend and professional groups. For better or worse, I think about if I'm contributing to that group and seen as a valuable member (e.g. I quit a research project at university because I overcommitted myself this past academic year; I was prompted to after my teammates noted I wasn't as communicative as before, and it was a source of shame for me.)
- I'm generally pretty aware of power dynamics; in more casual settings, I'll try to subvert or challenge someone who's seen as the center of attention or authority in the conversation.
- I LOVE learning about history, particularly the social dynamics that exist within and between different groups, etc.
- While not an expert, I consider myself very attentive to politics and power dynamics nationally and globally and think about how I fit within that framework.
- In leadership or any team roles, I see my role as being the communicator who makes sure everyone's on the same page.
- I was (and still am, to an extent) averse to organized religion because of its rigid social structure, and actively rebelled against/avoided it.
- One of the reasons I love watching team sports over individual sports is to see how different individuals and their dynamics contribute to the success of a team (most evident in basketball, imo).
- I get along with most people across my different social circles.
SX
- I desire an intimate, romantic relationship; but, my expectations have frequently not met reality. I burn out quickly on dates if I don't feel like I'm connecting with the person instantly. Consequently, ya boi is still single lmao.
- Nothing feels better, in my opinion, than a deep conversation with a friend. Some deep topics are more impersonal, like politics, while others are more intimate, like our personal growth as individuals or talking through a difficult situation in life.
- I try to make myself appear attractive (partly because of being made fun of for my weight as a kid), as narcissistic as that sounds; I'd like to think I tailor my appearance to look simple, but stylish.
- While I can feel anger acutely, I don't think I have the hot temper associated with this variant. I only get visibly angry if someone expresses a viewpoint I find abhorrent or bigoted.
EDIT: Wow, that was more verbose than I expected.