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[sx] sx - do you give confusing signals?

pinkgraffiti

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Yes. I get annoyed that often people think i'm flirting with them, when I'm just being friendly. Especially with men it's complicated because then they start calling me and being stalkerish... this forces me to have to be less friendly and more defensive, which sucks.
 

Julius_Van_Der_Beak

Up the Wolves
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Probably. I think I'd go crazy if I worried about it too much, though.
 

small.wonder

So she did.
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Interesting! I was just talking to a friend about the problem I've always had with this topic!

I've actually adopted a policy of only allowing friendships of depth with men I'm attracted to (in addition to female friends) because I'm sick of being accused of seeming interested in people I'm absolutely not interested in.

Funny enough (and on the flipside) though, I struggle with approaching/talking to men I am attracted to when they are engaged in social interaction. If they are standing alone it's the easiest thing, but for some reason I can't show interest in front of random other people. I think its that the Sx/So vibe only flows when I'm at ease and comfortable in a situation, and I get a little Sp influence when I'm around someone I'm strongly drawn to-- I feel like I've read something about that here somewhere...anyone know?
 
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