[sx] Sx-doms...come to me ;)

[Moiety]

Oh..I just mean the reasons you'd be interested in talking with someone aren't shallow..your intentions would be that it would lead to something meaningful..so..why is it a problem or why would it be ugly or distasteful to you?

Because no one chases a pretty face across the room because they want to marry her some day.

Also, if I still don't know this person I'm choosing based on "not so holy" criteria like attractiveness level. That doesn't really jive with me. There is some not-so-attractive woman on that room that could be much more right for me.

Besides I think it's rude for people approach other people in order to date each other. It's like...the nerve on a person to assume the other person even wants to talk to him/her. I'd also not like to be approached myself by people so I don't wish that upon others either, so I don't do it.

If a fat ugly person approached me I say no, but if it was some hot chick I could be "open to it"? So arbitrary and unfair it makes me sick. It seems so contrived and unbeautiful.

 

[Totenkindly]

If a fat ugly person approached me I say no, but if it was some hot chick I could be "open to it"? So arbitrary and unfair it makes me sick. It seems so contrived and unbeautiful.

So do you ever date fat ugly people whose personality you like, after you get to know them?

Looks are looks to me.
Just like money is money.
I'm not going to be prejudiced against beautiful people just as I shouldn't be prejudiced against rich people; it's no different than being prejudiced just because someone might seem ugly or poor.

The bottom line is that in the end, looks can't carry a relationship. Money can't either. And sometimes you can enjoy someone's personality but things won't 'click' for you based on the total package. I think we have to take people as a whole. If you want an LTR, you have to be attracted to them on some level.

So.....are you attracted to them or not, and is the attraction superficial or more meaningful? Is it something that will endure? Can it balance out other factors? People are notoriously bad at making themselves be attracted to someone they are not ultimately attracted to.

 

[Lady_X]

Because no one chases a pretty face across the room because they want to marry her some day.

Also, if I still don't know this person I'm choosing based on "not so holy" criteria like attractiveness level. That doesn't really jive with me. There is some not-so-attractive woman on that room that could be much more right for me.

Besides I think it's rude for people approach other people in order to date each other. It's like...the nerve on a person to assume the other person even wants to talk to him/her. I'd also not like to be approached myself by people so I don't wish that upon others either, so I don't do it.

If a fat ugly person approached me I say no, but if it was some hot chick I could be "open to it"? So arbitrary and unfair it makes me sick. It seems so contrived and unbeautiful.

to the bolded...wth? why not? sure they do...i mean...not oh look at her i want to marry her but the general idea is that the possibility is there...these sorts of things need to follow a natural progression that start with attraction...attraction isn't solely superficial...it can be about observing someone with others...thinking she's sweet...has a warm smile...or you like her no bs personality...or the way she carries herself...whatever...you like something and you talk...it's not ugly...it's how you meet people...even the people that want long meaningful relationships based on compatibility and character.

 

[runvardh]

I try to avoid the pretty face unless she says something at least half intelligent, then I give chase.

 

[Moiety]

to the bolded...wth? why not? sure they do...i mean...not oh look at her i want to marry her but the general idea is that the possibility is there...these sorts of things need to follow a natural progression that start with attraction...attraction isn't solely superficial...it can be about observing someone with others...thinking she's sweet...has a warm smile...or you like her no bs personality...or the way she carries herself...whatever...you like something and you talk...it's not ugly...it's how you meet people...even the people that want long meaningful relationships based on compatibility and character.

Thanks for ignoring all the rest I wrote

And to the bolded, it's not the main goal of people no. By that token with everyone of the opposite sex one ever talks there's the possibility it might lead to a serious relationship you never know. Someone you might start by only considering friends might end up your wife. But that's the goal of why you approach someone.

 

[brainheart]

On the test I had a perfect tie between sexual and social. So I guess I'm sexcial. Or socxual.

 

[Loliz]

I'm a sx/sp.

6w7.

It has made problems.!

 

[Nonsensical]

wow, this thread Sx!

 

[rav3n]

8w7 sx dom, sx/sp/so. No surprise!

 

[King sns]

I think I'm an Sx dom- Not really sure what that means for me though.

 

[Amargith]

It means you've got the Queen Bee gene...Ready, set, hunt! Douse them in pheromones and hunt them like the prey they are

 

[Redbone]

Hmm...I'm one.

Causes frequent episodes of rapid thawing, floods, and freezing back up again.

 

[rav3n]

Hmm...I'm one.

Causes frequent episodes of rapid thawing, floods, and freezing back up again.

YES!

 

[MacGuffin]

Hmm...I'm one.

Causes frequent episodes of rapid thawing, floods, and freezing back up again.

You forgot the forest fires, hurricanes, and droughts.

 

[Ginkgo]

Sexual dominant?

Present.

 

[Redbone]

You forgot the forest fires, hurricanes, and droughts.

Yeah. I did.

I also forgot that it's like building bridges, then looking in horror at what you have created...blowing it up and then looking in horror at what you destroyed.

 

[ICUP]

 

[Kasper]

Dear sx doms,

You still scare me.

Back off. Thnx.

<3
Kasper

 

[skylights]

Dear sx doms,

You still scare me.

Back off. Thnx.

<3
Kasper

dear kasper,

i'm blaming it on the sx/sps.

us sx/sos are sneakier.



hey, want to go skydiving?

 

[Kasper]

Oooooh you're the devil, I love it!! I see the trap but would still fall for it every time! <3