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    Quote Originally Posted by EJCC View Post
    This is interesting - I do only really see myself when I look ahead. I would say that being surrounded by loved ones is a high priority, but that's a pretty vague vision. Who will those loved ones be? I dunno. But I hope I have them and feel loved and safe around them.
    Took the words out of my mouth again. I am the cake, family & loved ones are the icing. You build from bottom up.
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    Tbh...I'm still not 100% sold on my stacking. I can relate to a LOT of what those who type as soc-last are saying. Yet when I examine other social-lasts in my life, I'd say that the things I dislike about those particular stackings...don't sound like my experience.

    The fact is, my stacking is my values system. It's more individual things about my general instincts that I hate. Like the parts of my dominant that cause me distress and self esteem issues (eg, desirability), my way of always feeling like an outsider, and my inability to sensibly plan my life. All 3 of my instincts are totally warped and non-functional idk. It blends together as this harmonious "my life is shit" symphony lol.

    Of all the problems I have, I'd say most aren't related to the instincts though. There's a lot I dislike, but most of the instinctual stuff (except for issues of the dominant) isn't at the top of the list.

    Sorry I know that's unhelpful. I may be able to formulate a better response MONTHS later after mulling it over.
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    There's a lot of flaws. While I enjoy romance and I try to be friendly towards others, I just have trouble getting close to others. It makes me feel...vulnerable. My So instinct is interested in getting to know different people, but once they get close it feels awkward. People call me private a lot, and they're not wrong. It's funny cause my Fi and I think my so too make me like talking about myself. But yeah, most of my personal life is private. I think romance is different because it's like having one best friend, plus I think the SP likes cuddles. I also have some hypochondriac tendencies, and I can be a hoarder too with things like old homework and food wrappers(hey, I got a box of Japanese snacks). Being an I with two withdrawn fixes plus the SP, I am highly introverted and spend most of my days avoiding humans.

    I'm a foodie though, pretty stereotypically SP. I can cook pretty well and I like new foods, plus I love comfort food and hot drinks. I can lay on the couch for hours watching TV wrapped up under a blanket. I don't ask for help much, which is blessing and a curse. I don't bother people much and I like to figure out things on my own, but it gets me in trouble if I wait too long. My So instinct shows up more on the forum I think because I'm less shy here and am interested in all the different personalities. I secretly want to be forum famous too.
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    I'm sp/sx.
    I like everything about this stacking. I feel no need to change.

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    Sp blind. Do not want. But have. So Make the best of it.

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    Sp/sx. Sx has a habit of stifling and wrecking what I'm trying to build and maintain in the self preservation sense by making me feel like a crackhead going through withdrawals on a frequent basis. I'll get the urge to do dumb and reckless things for the high. It's distracting and I wonder why that instinct was even tacked on to my stack since both sx and so seem unnecessary for my survival. Other than that I like having extreme independence in every sense and when I do fulfill my sx it's great. Also I love bring free from and oblivious to the complications of the social realm.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bismuth Blitz View Post
    There's a lot of flaws. While I enjoy romance and I try to be friendly towards others, I just have trouble getting close to others. It makes me feel...vulnerable. My So instinct is interested in getting to know different people, but once they get close it feels awkward. People call me private a lot, and they're not wrong. It's funny cause my Fi and I think my so too make me like talking about myself. But yeah, most of my personal life is private.
    I thought I was the only one.

    It confused me as to why before, but after looking into things more I wonder if it's because the closer a relationship is, the more nuanced and specific things are, and that I'm not comfortable/not used to such things? It's like Terry is no longer just 'That Guy From The Arcade'. I go into 100% observer mode, wondering why the person is there and what they want (not out of paranoia, just confusion).

    I know you're just talking about closeness in general here, not sx, but a thought struck me. From my sx-blind POV, people with sx in them seem to 'know' that there's 'something there' and what they're there for (provided they've already 'picked' you / are already closing in on you), and sx folks on the forum did mention things like looking for the person which 'draws them the most'. I don't really experience that form of sx magnetism, so I don't see it even if the sx might see lots. It's like they know what to ask, what to do, what they want, even if they won't say it out loud depending on their personality.

    I don't know if I would say I like or dislike this. I suppose the confusion and miscommunications are a trouble in the sense of being bothersome, but not necessarily something I dislike (which I guess is a sx last thing to say). Also can't say I like or dislike something that when I miss, I don't even notice.
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