Recently I upped my training--a lot, which is one of the reasons I've been so scarce on here. It's hard to be online while you're kicking a bag or practicing with a steel whip in your spare time.
As a result, I dropped from about 21% body fat to about 18%.
And nearly everyday somebody now comments that I am too "skinny."
Yet, I look in the mirror and think my body looks amazing. I love what I see. I'm happy with it. I love seeing the toned muscles in my arms and I love seeing the definition in my abs and hips. I love how I look in my clothes [especially jeans] and I totally rock a bikini. I just want to keep this body for as long as I possibly can. Yet, when I go out, someone inevitably says, "You're too skinny."
Do they not see what I see?
Anyway, I normally don't talk about my height, weight and measurements but for the sake of this discussion I will. I am 5'2" and weigh around 110-112 lbs. I have an hour glass figure with measurements being 35-24-35. According the health/weight charts, I'm ideal. I have a perfect hip-waist ratio, a fantastic BMI and an athletic body fat percentage; I literally have the measurements of a movie star now. So, what gives?
Why do people constantly talk about having a "fit" body and then when I get one, those same people tell me that I look "thin" "sick" and "frail." I'm none of those things. I'm strong, agile and fast. Some people even want to know what I'm trying to prove by being so serious about the martial arts. I tell them that I love what I do and I'm not trying to prove anything. I run a martial arts school. Shouldn't I look the part? It seems like people should be glad for someone when that person achieves a fitness goal, but often, they're not. Maybe strangers are but the people you know often seem upset that you attain a goal and then they say that they're worried about you.
Anyway, I don't want to dismiss their concerns but I really don't like how everybody keeps trying to fatten me up. There's nothing wrong with me, is there? I just wanted to vent, so I thought I'd vent on here amongst strangers. haha.