You're far from fat.
In the northern/west of Europe, yes, you'd be considered bigger than average. But who gives a rats ass, you look fantastic AND healthy.
Most European females lack curves, even the clothes they sell are made for scrawny/ass-less surfboards.
You look like a woman. Parents will always find something to pick at, just mark this as one of those things, set it aside, and light it on fire.
My point is: Embrace your curves lady, its rare to come by!
Kat, your family is CRAAA-AAAA-ZZEEEEE!!!
Whose family isn't?
90% of the people on here have crazy families. She just has to find a way to deal with them that will suit her, without putting her in an uncomfortable position.
Fuck moving out if you're worried about that. Get a job, save up, don't buy useless shiz. When you're a lot more financially independent, do whatever you like.
I say withdraw more, keep to yourself, get a part-time job, don't listen to what they say, take advantage of having a place to stay/eat for free while you can focus on finishing college. Emotional abuse sucks, but you CAN block it out if you truly stop caring about what they say/think of you.
It would suck more if you move out and you actually end up in financial trouble that you can't get out of. I'm not trying to worry you more, I'm just saying that for now, finishing school and being able to focus on it 100% should be your priority, without worrying about how you're going to make next months rent, cellphone bill, electricity bills, food, water,etc...
If you believe you're capable of working, completely supporting yourself, WHILE going to school, then by all means, I think you should do that.
Doesn't Holland have a student-finance program like Sweden? I'm not sure....
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