I was going to post this in relationships but then I thought it was perhaps more appropriate to general psychology.
What do you think is going on when someone repeats your own words back to you? Either online or offline, I've encountered it in both settings, one of the instances in which it happened the individual was pretty sketchy and shady (to put it mildly) and I believe it was mainly in order to avoid revealing anything about themselves, while seeming to engage in conversation/dialogue.
I've spoken to at least one person who was psychologically trained who has said they dont believe there is any purpose to analyzing people like this as they are just predatory or dangerous types who the best you can hope for is to reduce or prevent the harm they may do to others.
However, I wonder if there's more than one sort of this kind of thing. Also if its a way to spot an AI or bot when it occurs online. There is also the possibility that certain ideas or phrases or wording just gets passed on as memes, become fashionable or begin trending. There are a lot of online cultures which do their communicating in memes so I figure its possible that memes or trends could be an explanation.
There's also the possibility that someone who is using multiple accounts is regurgitating what has been said to one account when using another account, if so, do you think that's something which could become transferable to offline behaviour?
Its weird when I have a conversation some place else, other than here, but online, only to encounter the same phrases and content here on this forum. I've even contacted mods or other posters on occasion to ask if they've noticed this or if anything is known about a particular account.
Or it could be as simple as this is some kind of NLP or PUA trope or tactic? Personally I'm always surprised and disappointed by the extent to which people are just attempting to manipulate others, even distinguish themselves as talented at manipulation, rather than being a good communicator or persuasive, in fact, for a lot of people I've met the two things are totally conflated and undifferentiated. There was a time I thought this was a maturity thing, some of the examples that would have sprung to mind of individuals who did act out the in manner I'm describing were totally broke and I would have imagined were not representative but its begun to trend I think.
It is something that I've tried notice more about others when I think its a possibility.
What do you think is going on when someone repeats your own words back to you? Either online or offline, I've encountered it in both settings, one of the instances in which it happened the individual was pretty sketchy and shady (to put it mildly) and I believe it was mainly in order to avoid revealing anything about themselves, while seeming to engage in conversation/dialogue.
I've spoken to at least one person who was psychologically trained who has said they dont believe there is any purpose to analyzing people like this as they are just predatory or dangerous types who the best you can hope for is to reduce or prevent the harm they may do to others.
However, I wonder if there's more than one sort of this kind of thing. Also if its a way to spot an AI or bot when it occurs online. There is also the possibility that certain ideas or phrases or wording just gets passed on as memes, become fashionable or begin trending. There are a lot of online cultures which do their communicating in memes so I figure its possible that memes or trends could be an explanation.
There's also the possibility that someone who is using multiple accounts is regurgitating what has been said to one account when using another account, if so, do you think that's something which could become transferable to offline behaviour?
Its weird when I have a conversation some place else, other than here, but online, only to encounter the same phrases and content here on this forum. I've even contacted mods or other posters on occasion to ask if they've noticed this or if anything is known about a particular account.
Or it could be as simple as this is some kind of NLP or PUA trope or tactic? Personally I'm always surprised and disappointed by the extent to which people are just attempting to manipulate others, even distinguish themselves as talented at manipulation, rather than being a good communicator or persuasive, in fact, for a lot of people I've met the two things are totally conflated and undifferentiated. There was a time I thought this was a maturity thing, some of the examples that would have sprung to mind of individuals who did act out the in manner I'm describing were totally broke and I would have imagined were not representative but its begun to trend I think.
It is something that I've tried notice more about others when I think its a possibility.