For me it's about half and half.

I hate a lot of things in people. Of course, I have some of these things: I am stubborn, I am secretly judgmental, I can be very stupid (if you disagree, then I must say that I objectively make poor decisions often), I am hypocritical, I am irrational, I am needy.

But there are a lot of things that I do hate and I honestly don't think I am any of them. At least, I really hope not. I don't think I'm shallow, or as fake as some other people. I don't think I am racist, transphobic, or a bigot. I'm sure a lot of us have said and done things in bad taste, including myself, but I do try my best to learn from past mistakes.