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what is the psychology behind people that hurts or bullies others?

chado

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im not talking about people who hurts others in retaliation or to take revenge oreven someone who is holding a grudge form soemthing someone did to them no,
im talking about people that hurts others for no reason,or to gain,or for power or ego,like bullies
lets take abully why is somene hurting another with a group of people to the point that the other persons whole manhood is crushed?and they still find it funny why would someone constantly keep hurting someone over and over again what is it that they find in this person,is it a lack of power on there part,jelousy,projected ego's as in they getting bullied cant take it now they roject that on someone els
i know this one bully who would hurt the same kid over and over again when i was in high school,i just could not understand it,the kid was a great artist and realy talented like a genuis the kid was also normal in every way he was just a little shy other wise he was not even a nerd,but this one kid just kept on bullying him,he would talk to the girls he spoke to as to say ill take that girl off you,and he just loved hurting this kid,what ould the motive be?is it entertainment?is it lack of power,did he just take advatage because of the kids wekaness?for entertainment?whats the root behidn this?
my theory is because this kid was so shy the bully 'could'do it'because he can' because the kid was afraid of him he just exploited this and hurt him for his own laughter and entertainment?
 

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What I have noticed, is that people can separate their consciousness from being inside their body, or outside of it.

As an artistic genius, and shy at that, he was probably projecting much of his consciousness outside of his body.

This gave to the bully the impression that the kid was weak, and small-minded, despite clear contrary evidence.

You may ask why the bully would attack someone at all, and why the kid would allow it despite his genius.

Well, the answer is, to a fairly accurate degree, that Sadism is in fact a legitimate ethical philosophy.

The cliche of "pain is weakness leaving the body" has a fair amount of truth to it.

Also, "manhood" sounds suspiciously similar to "ego", and "extinguishment of the ego" is a primary goal in various meditative practices.

It would not surprise me if the kid himself was drawing the attacks, keeping them at a sustainable level, for the sake of purification.

It would not surprise me if the bullies themselves got absolutely fucked up. Lol.


This song probably explains it in greater detail, or maybe it doesn't, either way it's a good song:

 

chado

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What I have noticed, is that people can separate their consciousness from being inside their body, or outside of it.

As an artistic genius, and shy at that, he was probably projecting much of his consciousness outside of his body.

This gave to the bully the impression that the kid was weak, and small-minded, despite clear contrary evidence.

You may ask why the bully would attack someone at all, and why the kid would allow it despite his genius.

Well, the answer is, to a fairly accurate degree, that Sadism is in fact a legitimate ethical philosophy.

The cliche of "pain is weakness leaving the body" has a fair amount of truth to it.

Also, "manhood" sounds suspiciously similar to "ego", and "extinguishment of the ego" is a primary goal in various meditative practices.

It would not surprise me if the kid himself was drawing the attacks, keeping them at a sustainable level, for the sake of purification.

It would not surprise me if the bullies themselves got absolutely fucked up. Lol.


This song probably explains it in greater detail, or maybe it doesn't, either way it's a good song:


hey whats your mbti type?
 

geedoenfj

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I'm not a psychiatrist but I believe every bully has an incredibly low self esteem, they're hiding it with a fragile appearance of power, they attack others becaus they feel intimidated by the world, and they know how to choose their victims..
 

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lol you know the myers briggs type,theres 16 types which one are you.?

But how can I type myself when I am all I have ever known?

I must have outside opinions to know myself. Who knows my type?

I must ask the crowd. We must cast a vote.

:mad:

(I don't really know if MBTI types are even a real thing, or care too much what my type is, it's just fun to think about and experiment with)
 

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I believe that in a high school environment, bullying is usually about dominance and making your place in the pack clear to others. Thus I both was bullied and a bully myself.

I went to an all-boys private school, and it is absolutely the dog-eat-dog type of world that movies imagine. There are two sorts of bullies: those who bully so they don't get ganged up on, and those who do so because they enjoy seeing others suffer.

The first, well, a lot of boys fall into that category. The best way to stop that kind of bullying is to socialise the boys with girls as soon as they hit puberty, so they compete for the girls instead of beating each other up. The second type of bully is much less common and incurable, because he will always have some tendencies towards psychopathy. I went to high school with a guy like that and I'm pleased to say that he has turned out to be a total failure.

My background has taught me that at heart, we are still animals, and the utopia promised in some quarters is impossible. You have to be ruthless and decisive to get ahead, as quick to hate as you are to love.
 

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I'm not a psychiatrist but I believe every bully has an incredibly low self esteem, they're hiding it with a fragile appearance of power, they attack others becaus they feel intimidated by the world, and they know how to choose their victims..

people always say bullies lack self easteem or are realy inscecure ect,i dot actualy so,alot of the bullies iv seen in my school were actualy A grade students getting the heighest marks in grades,very scocial like by all the teachers,infact the bullies that iv seen would put down the victom just for funs sake,they would actualy make the victom look like the one with low self easteem,and actualy the victom i know dropped out of high school and ended up on drugs while the bullies succeeded in life
 

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people always say bullies lack self easteem or are realy inscecure ect,i dot actualy so,alot of the bullies iv seen in my school were actualy A grade students getting the heighest marks in grades,very scocial like by all the teachers,infact the bullies that iv seen would put down the victom just for funs sake,they would actualy make the victom look like the one with low self easteem,and actualy the victom i know dropped out of high school and ended up on drugs while the bullies succeeded in life

I knew A bully at primary school who was the smartest, with higher grades, rediculously rich family, incredibly lovable parents, charisma, good looking, she literally had everything, then I happened to see her like 20 years later, she was the most miserable woman, her family cut her off, she's lonely, she has the nicest and most handsome husband, whenever she goes people pray for her to get out of the room, and incredibly jealous of others, complaining all the time how others have things that she lacks, (she knows people don't like her) when I knew her more I realized how low her self esteem is, it's not about what you got, it's about appreciating what you have, they lack that my friend :)
 

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I knew A bully at primary school who was the smartest, with higher grades, rediculously rich family, incredibly lovable parents, charisma, good looking, she literally had everything, then I happened to see her like 20 years later, she was the most miserable woman, her family cut her off, she's lonely, she has the nicest and most handsome husband, whenever she goes people pray for her to get out of the room, and incredibly jealous of others, complaining all the time how others have things that she lacks, (she knows people don't like her) when I knew her more I realized how low her self esteem is, it's not about what you got, it's about appreciating what you have, they lack that my friend :)

hey nice !!
 
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