Pain and pleasure

[Mustafa]

In psychology, pain causes activity - and I believe numbs the brain - and pleasure causes passivity. And I believe pleasure opens up the brain. I believe it is not possible to be active and, yet, open because it contradicts nature.

There got to be mutual attraction. But I as INFP sympathize with people who suffer, and am attracted to darkness. Which can be unbearable, but yet still, i push myself. Internets' interface provides more safety from the chaos of emotions. But like [MENTION=6336]AphroditeGoneAwry[/MENTION] i can't reject anyone, especially if they need help. I'll struggel at least.

What do you think can be done by you to be more accomodating?

 

[Roars]

err, what. being compassionate, trying to look at others from their perspective

 

[KitchenFly]

Well if you mean accommodating in the context of authentically being of service to someone who is in pain as in, just broke there leg or arm or maybe in mild shock after a serious incident. Then mirroring to then Space via Presence while connecting with them one to one in a respective manner.

If you mean pain as in long term pain from an illness or medical condition then I think it's to difficult because it seems to require more of a hart and head centre like approach.. I don't have the patience as a INFP Sx/Sp to be there long term for people. I believe if someone is that dependant then they should be in a care facility that is designed to care for the needs of people suffering.

I believe people need to develop there own coping mechanisms and do so unless there agenda is to manipulate for attention.

If in the rear case someone a good person was deserving of care then I would focus my energy to give support but a care plan must be I place and pain medications in general seem to do the trick for most who suffer and if not then they need specialist help from a pain clinic.


Suffering is a strange thing. My house mate suffers migraines and nausea frequently each week because she is on HRT pills to maintain her youth or looks or what ever, I tell her your migraines and nausea are from the HRT pills that your been taking for manny years now. She wants to avoid hot flushes and what ever else spunky chicks suffer while going though that stuff.

Well she can suffer in silence in her own room it's not my problem I told her but if she wants to be run by her 7w6 mind set attitude and phycology then she can suffer if she chooses to ignore her Gut Centre's and what it has to offer.

The pain equals migraines and nausea.

The pleasure equals vanities needs met.

Yesterday she applied a colour rinse hair treatment, my god she looks so good but I still praise her and state to her, until she is prepared to were the burka I'm not taking her out to dinner or shopping.