Ghost
Megustalations
- Joined
- Jul 10, 2013
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- MBTI Type
- INFP
- Enneagram
- 5w4
- Instinctual Variant
- sp/so
I'm doing more of the whole talking-to-people thing, which has been going okay. Some people ask me what I'm thinking about. They seem ask because of my facial expression. Usually I'm just absorbing things, taking it all in. It only looks like I have an opinion, but I don't. When I'm asked, I'd like to respond with, "Nothing" but that seems awkward. Like yesterday, someone asked during a job interview. So I think about what I could have thought about if I'd been thinking and go with that for my answer.
That all got me wondering: why do people ask what you're thinking? Is it a prompt to keep the conversation going? Curiosity? If you do it, then what are some reasons why? If people ask you that question, what are the circumstances and what do you respond with?
(I realize this is weird because I'm asking people who ask "What are you thinking?" what they're thinking. Pure madness.)
The only person I ask is my dad, and that's mainly because I want to see if he's as strange on the inside as he appears on the outside. I assume most people aren't doing it for that reason, though.
That all got me wondering: why do people ask what you're thinking? Is it a prompt to keep the conversation going? Curiosity? If you do it, then what are some reasons why? If people ask you that question, what are the circumstances and what do you respond with?
(I realize this is weird because I'm asking people who ask "What are you thinking?" what they're thinking. Pure madness.)
The only person I ask is my dad, and that's mainly because I want to see if he's as strange on the inside as he appears on the outside. I assume most people aren't doing it for that reason, though.