Fluffywolf
Nips away your dignity
- Joined
- Mar 31, 2009
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- MBTI Type
- INTP
- Enneagram
- 9
- Instinctual Variant
- sp/sx
I can be vain because I care about how I appear to others, but that doesn't mean I'm a narcissist.
If you care about how you appear to others and thus act unlike yourself in order to present yourself as more or better than you really are, you're narcissistic. Assigning some biased values to your opinion about narcissism and thinking it's not narcissism is only going to work in your own mind. That said it doesn't mean it is a problem.
I think narcissism isn't neccesarily bad, it all depends on how you put it in perspective and how you deal with it. But then, that also may just me being all narcissistic.