are there promiscious aspies out there?

[jcloudz]

this is a something i have been wondering for a bit as of late? if your an aspie, do you tend to have tons of promiscuous sex?

 

[AphroditeGoneAwry]

No. Quite the opposite

 

[jcloudz]

another thing i wondered. how aspergers effects the sex drive? and how people with aspergers selection and choice in a mate is effected with aspergers?

 

[cafe]

If I really wanted to know the answer to that, I'd check out Wrong Planet. They have a relationship forum.

I don't know of any promiscuous aspies and I probably know more aspies than the average person.

 

[jcloudz]

If I really wanted to know the answer to that, I'd check out Wrong Planet. They have a relationship forum.

I don't know of any promiscuous aspies and I probably know more aspies than the average person.

thanks cafe

 

[Such Irony]

No. Quite the opposite

I would guess this the case with most aspies. I think it would be possible to have some aspies that were promiscuous. Especially if its from not grasping the acceptable social cues involves in sexual relations and therefore overdoing it sexually.

 

[AphroditeGoneAwry]

Promiscuity has more to do with deficient upbringing. A lack of love, etc.

 

[_eric_]

I have asperger's (professionally diagnosed) and I would never have any kind of sex outside of marriage, I have zero interest in that.

another thing i wondered. how aspergers effects the sex drive? and how people with aspergers selection and choice in a mate is effected with aspergers?

I think my sex drive is average, though I am still a virgin, so I can't say that with any first-hand experience to back it up haha. If I was married, I think I'd want to do it once a day, maybe twice...who knows, maybe I'll get to find out someday. One thing is for sure though, I would never get tired of it lol! Not sure how to answer your second question, I can't think of any specific correlation.

Promiscuity has more to do with deficient upbringing. A lack of love, etc.

Yeah, that is one possibility, out of at least several I can think of.

 

[Ism]

I know this one guy who may or may not have had Asperger's. He flirted with a lot of girls (wasn't successful), but he was never the, uh, player type, so to speak. As far as I know, he has a girlfriend now, but probably won't do anything until, like, marriage, or something.

 

[xennui]

I dunno, I've met a few promiscuous gay guys who I'm pretty sure were Aspie. There's a lot less social skill needed when it's two guys, and for any Aspie's who aren't majorly turned off by physical interaction, well, you really can just go up and say "I like you, let's have sex." Boom.

One guy I met it wasn't working out too well for He was too socially awkward to click with any decent crowd and in the 20 minutes that I drank a beer with him and gave his dick a few tugs, he told me all the great things his "friends" had done from giving him alcohol poisoning to covering his face with magic marker.