And, though I was going to post this in the rant thread, there are people who have no control over many things because they are perhaps autistic. There is no medication or therapy for autism. People who have Asperger syndrome are soooooo misunderstood and some (actually a lot) of the people on this forum seem to think that everyone should just pull themselves up by their bootstraps and get over it, become a better person, change their lives, etc. That is absolutely impossible for some people. Got that, you holier than thou critics?