Siúil a Rúin
when the colors fade
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- Apr 23, 2007
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I have noticed a variety of posters that describe a wish for less negativity whether this is directed at a particular personality type, MBTI function, vulnerable poster, or whomever. It seems to be a relatively common sentiment, prevalent enough to make me wonder. For each poster that dislikes some aspect of conflict or negativity, we see a poster who probably prefers a more positive approach and peacefulness.
Most everyone can see how to establish a negative vibe by entering into flame wars, group smack-downs, complaining, stereotyping, venting, etc. How does a person make an environment more positive? Is it based on strategies in how to react to negativity? Are there thread topics likely to generate a happier mood? Does it help to overlook negativity? Does it help to step in and stop it before it spirals to a point of damage? For any poster who wishes for something positive that you don't encounter I have a question. How might one go about making that wish a reality?
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Most everyone can see how to establish a negative vibe by entering into flame wars, group smack-downs, complaining, stereotyping, venting, etc. How does a person make an environment more positive? Is it based on strategies in how to react to negativity? Are there thread topics likely to generate a happier mood? Does it help to overlook negativity? Does it help to step in and stop it before it spirals to a point of damage? For any poster who wishes for something positive that you don't encounter I have a question. How might one go about making that wish a reality?
Comments can apply to forums or irl.