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What are your WORST qualities?

InfiniteIntrigue

New member
Joined
Aug 4, 2009
Messages
215
MBTI Type
INTJ
Enneagram
1w2
Instinctual Variant
sp
I like people to adhere to my moral standards.
I am judgemental.
I don't like people who drink too much / do drugs.
I put things off.
I nitpick too much.
 

BlahBlahNounBlah

New member
Joined
Dec 16, 2008
Messages
1,458
MBTI Type
ENTP
Enneagram
7w6
- Unreliable

- Escapist

- Procrastinate some decisions, rush too quickly into others

- Bored with details and practicalities and follow through

- Forgetful

- Easily distracted

- Messy

- Critical, but I don't think this is bad
 

wren

New member
Joined
Jul 3, 2009
Messages
384
MBTI Type
infj
Enneagram
4
my worst characteristics are too numerous to list on a 'quick reply' but i will try:

as others may well see me:

domineering
inconsistent
impatient
hot/cold
timid
brash
fickle
demanding
pretentious
arrogant
selfconscious
unconfidant
overconfidant
tense
nervous
full/empty
extreme

poor qualities i see in relation to myself:

unmotivated
whiney
unloving
abusive
hateful
inconsistent
dour
killjoy
selfsabotaging
 

Oom

Your time is gonna come.
Joined
Mar 29, 2009
Messages
510
MBTI Type
IsfP
Enneagram
5w4
My mind is a brain salad. I can't make a train of thought last longer than a few minutes.
 

LotsOfHeart

New member
Joined
Feb 14, 2009
Messages
298
MBTI Type
INFJ
Enneagram
4
Messy

I have a lot of trouble going to bed at night, so getting up early in the morning on a consistent basis is a challenge and I sleep in like a bastard whenever I can get away with it.

I procrastinate like I'm getting paid to do it sometimes.

Too solitary.

Have trouble expressing my feelings even though I experience them so strongly.

Socially awkward.

Don't think I'm difficult to understand, but others do.

Sometimes very sensitive to criticism.

Man, I didn't realize there was so much that was wrong with me!
 

Virtual ghost

Complex paradigm
Joined
Jun 6, 2008
Messages
19,769
Big 5 sumed it quite nicely and to be honest I consider many of those things to be my strenghts.
But general impresion is what actually counts here.


withdrawn, not wild and crazy, private, loner, not relationship obsessed, not swayed by emotions, insensitive to the needs of others, unhelpful, interested in intellectual pursuits, avoidant, does not put the needs of others ahead of self, thinks before acting, very scientific, not upset by the misfortune of strangers, avoids small talk, values solitude, private, does not get worked up about most things, fearless, unaffected by the suffering of others, calm in crisis, not easily excited, won't do much to avoid rejection, not known for generosity, not easily confused, cold, not prone to complimenting others, dislikes most people but tries to get along to minimize hostility, hard to get to know, more dominant than submissive, not easily hurt, driven by reason, influenced more by self than others, rarely worried, hard to impress, not that interested in relationships, hard to influence, not concerned about failing when trying something new, self confident, knows why they do things, not easily moved to tears, not prone to jealousy, not guided by moods
 

tastes_like_purple

New member
Joined
May 9, 2009
Messages
200
MBTI Type
XXXX
Enneagram
4
- I feel like i'm two different people sometimes? I know its not really a quality but i'm just putting it out there
- I'm extremely unorganised
- I go through random phases where i don't care what the consequences of my actions are
- I'm very sensitive and i hate it, its a downfall and something i can't control
- I am incapable of looking past peoples good points, i can see badness but i always turn a blind eye toward it
- I often change how i act depending on who i'm with, leading back to the two different people thing
- I'm not academic at all, i struggle with most subjects.
- I have a limited attension span
- I feel very deeply. When im sad im borderline depressed.
- I'm obsessed with my image and how i come off across to people
- No motivation or ambition
- I think too much about things i regret, i dwell on everything
- I get bored in relationships fast
- I'm almost too nice
- I find it hard to talk about feelings


Yeah so i'm feeling pretty crappy right about now.
Thought i'd have a rant about myself maybe even try and type myself properly
because i'm not sure if im an Enfp anymore *sigh*
 

INTP

Active member
Joined
Jul 31, 2009
Messages
7,803
MBTI Type
intp
Enneagram
5w4
Instinctual Variant
sx
i tend to think if i should act or how should i act so long that its too late to act enymore
 

Nonsensical

New member
Joined
Aug 2, 2008
Messages
4,006
MBTI Type
ENFP
Enneagram
7
Jealousy, Paranoia, and Vulnerability to losing my center.
 

Thursday

Earth Exalted
Joined
Mar 14, 2008
Messages
3,960
MBTI Type
ENTJ
Enneagram
8w9
Instinctual Variant
sp/sx
I can be

Arrogantly Indifferent
Haughty/conceited
Inhuman and too cerebral
Laconic and non-verbal about what is bothering me
 
Joined
Dec 13, 2009
Messages
30
MBTI Type
IXFX
Enneagram
2
- indecisive
- procrastinator
- shy/quiet
- dislike of conflict unless it's for a good reason imo (which in that case I probably WILL take a side instead of sitting on the fence)
- some think I'm too intellectual (but I don't consider myself smarter than anyone else)
- unassertive
- lazy
- inferiority complex tendencies
- sometimes manipulative without realizing it
- conscientious, meticulous and organized on some things, damn lazy and careless on other things
- overly empathetic
- perfectionist tendencies
- overly idealistic
- on the other hand, I can actually be too much of a realist as well
- I'm a total weirdo, but I don't consider this to be negative :)
 

HollyGolightly

New member
Joined
Nov 29, 2009
Messages
293
MBTI Type
INFJ
Enneagram
1w2
Instinctual Variant
sp/so
Perfectionist, nervous, fearful, pessimistic, insecure, bashful, secretive, doubtful, suspicious, awkward, hides behind humour.
 

King sns

New member
Joined
Nov 4, 2008
Messages
6,714
MBTI Type
enfp
Enneagram
6w7
Instinctual Variant
sp/sx
lazy, tired, pale, short tempered, apathetic/unenthusiastic, proud, overindulgent, selfish, anxious, procrastinate,...
and last but not least, passive aggressive.
Eh, i'm sure I could come up with plenty more.
 

Alwar

The Architect
Joined
Jun 19, 2009
Messages
922
MBTI Type
INTP
Too self-critical, can detach to the point where I neglect myself. Have trouble accepting praise, help or gifts.
 

wren

New member
Joined
Jul 3, 2009
Messages
384
MBTI Type
infj
Enneagram
4
obssessive and (only slightly) compulsive
negligent
prideful
resentful
withholding
angry
gossipy
 

Penda

New member
Joined
Oct 27, 2008
Messages
68
MBTI Type
INFJ
An inability to admit bad qualities.





Actually, my absolute worst qualities seem to be an inability to let go of things, cynicism, perfectionism, misanthropy, and authoritarianism. But I have many good qualities, honest :huh:
 
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