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Were you an observer or interacter?

Observer or interactor

  • SJ-Observer

    Votes: 1 1.2%
  • SJ-Ineteractor

    Votes: 2 2.4%
  • SP-Observer

    Votes: 7 8.4%
  • SP-Interactor

    Votes: 2 2.4%
  • NF-Observer

    Votes: 33 39.8%
  • NF-Interactor

    Votes: 8 9.6%
  • NT-Observer

    Votes: 30 36.1%
  • NT-Interacto

    Votes: 8 9.6%
  • E

    Votes: 10 12.0%
  • I

    Votes: 27 32.5%

  • Total voters
    83

norepinephrine

New member
Joined
Jun 10, 2008
Messages
402
MBTI Type
INTP
NT observer (and spy). I used to find a corner to curl up in while the adults were talking. After a time they'd forget I was there.

And that's when the conversation would get interesting.

As a matter of fact, it's still that way. The faculty around here will get into these conversations about other faculty (uni politics + egos = nasty backbiting) and sometimes I just want to say "People - do I look like a piece of furniture?" Fortunately (for them) I'm ethical enough to let it die there.
 

BlackCat

Shaman
Joined
Nov 19, 2008
Messages
7,038
MBTI Type
ESFP
Enneagram
9w8
Instinctual Variant
sx/sp
INFP, observer. Always have been. I like to observe people's patterns in order to get comfortable with them before I talk to them.
 

Mitzy

brat
Joined
Oct 2, 2008
Messages
687
MBTI Type
ENTP
depended on the situation...
most of the time i was just interactive but in a bad way >:] mwahaha
 

nightning

ish red no longer *sad*
Joined
Apr 23, 2007
Messages
3,741
MBTI Type
INfj
I observed... then I zoned out into daydream land when I was a kid.
 

Just another ISTJ

New member
Joined
Jan 22, 2009
Messages
117
MBTI Type
IsTj
Enneagram
1w9
I often just sat back and watched when I was in a group, but if it was a one on one interaction, I would well, interact.

I still do this for the most part.
 

Typology

New member
Joined
Nov 21, 2008
Messages
167
MBTI Type
epyT
Enneagram
...
When the conversation or interaction has nothing to do with me, I observe the HELL out of it. It's generally amusing and interesting at the same time!
 

FantailedWall

New member
Joined
Nov 25, 2008
Messages
247
MBTI Type
ENfP
Enneagram
4w5
Both. But mostly interacter.

I became much more observe-y the older I got (though maintaining the need of lots of INTERACTION)
 

Cirrus

New member
Joined
Jan 21, 2009
Messages
12
MBTI Type
INFJ
NF - Observer.

This is one of the only things I'm sure about with myself. XD Usually I will notice everything in a room, be the first to react to everything, and perceive everything.

People usually think I'm quiet because I'm shy - I'm not, I just observe my surroundings constantly.
 

Morpeko

Noble Wolf
Joined
Sep 20, 2017
Messages
5,413
MBTI Type
LEFV
Enneagram
461
Instinctual Variant
sx/sp
Definitely an observer when I was younger. I preferred watching, reading, and learning when I was a young child over doing anything myself. Not sure what happened.

I'm currently a fairly balanced mixture of both, though with preference toward interaction.
 

Siúil a Rúin

when the colors fade
Joined
Apr 23, 2007
Messages
14,038
MBTI Type
ISFP
Enneagram
496
Instinctual Variant
sp/sx
Socially I've been observer including answering questions. I did jump right in with gymnastics.
 

Luminous

༻✧✧༺
Joined
Oct 25, 2017
Messages
10,170
MBTI Type
Iᑎᖴᑭ
Enneagram
952
Instinctual Variant
sx/sp
I was very much an observer. Until I was in my 20s. And even now, is not always easy for me to act rather than observe.
 
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