"rude" to a uni lecturer?

[theablekingedgar]

There was this uni lecturer I was rude to, but I don't care really. if she's as smart as she claims then she should acknowledge her own actions and part in this.

I did an extra credit for my course, and after it ended we were handed certificates.
The lecturer gave brief words of encouragement to each student and then when she came to me she said that I would be a "credit to any employer and that I was a 'smart-arse' and that I should go far". But this was way more long-winded than what she said to the others. It's clear she had some agenda against me since she probably had thought that I answered some questions well so she thought she wanted to bully me. People have done this before, and why? because they think i'm easy, but not anymore.

So about a week later, she said hello to me in the corridor, and then I blanked her and said "leave me be" and then laughed. She then gives me bad scorns when she sees me, but then I don't care really. She laid down the gauntlet and wished to move on. I'm a human and don't deserve to be bullied. nobody does. anybody who disagrees with that sh0ould burn in Hell. There's no reason I should be excluded arbitrarily from a common moral.
So I don't care if I was rude to her, she fully warranted it. She chose me to single out and embarass and for no real reason. so whatever...

 

[skimpit]

How was she mean to you?

I don't think she was that rude... and if she was, isn't it something you can just let go? You'll be out of her class one day.

 

[theablekingedgar]

How was she mean to you?

I don't think she was that rude... and if she was, isn't it something you can just let go? You'll be out of her class one day.

I don't let others fuck with me. So I don't care if she's upset.

 

[citizen cane]

Sounds more like you're insecure rather than she was being rude.

 

[theablekingedgar]

Sounds more like you're insecure rather than she was being rude.

maybe, but i don't care what she does either way now.

 

[Coriolis]

So I don't care if I was rude to her, she fully warranted it. She chose me to single out and embarass and for no real reason. so whatever...

What did your rudeness get you? If instead you had been courteous but honest and explained that what she said bothered you and why, you might have gained an apology and a change in her behavior toward you. But perhaps you didn't want that.

 

[theablekingedgar]

What did your rudeness get you? If instead you had been courteous but honest and explained that what she said bothered you and why, you might have gained an apology and a change in her behavior toward you. But perhaps you didn't want that.

it was apparent she had some agenda, so i foiled it.

 

[citizen cane]

Sounds more like you're insecure rather than she was being rude.

Okay, insecure and paranoid.

 

[Doctor Cringelord]

 

[theablekingedgar]

Okay, insecure and paranoid.

usually when people in the past have said that, it's a signal they want to bully m and fuck around with me, so I'm on guard.

 

[miss deceit]

Please tell me you're trolling, please.

 

[citizen cane]

usually when people in the past have said that, it's a signal they want to bully m and fuck around with me, so I'm on guard.

On guard against what?

 

[Maou]

Teachers should appreciate and value uppity students, it shows enthusiasm and willingness to challenge and ultimately learn. They probably liked you.

 

[Firebird 8118]

usually when people in the past have said that, it's a signal they want to bully m and fuck around with me, so I'm on guard.

... Yeah, that’s called being paranoid sweetie.

 

[theablekingedgar]

... Yeah, that’s called being paranoid sweetie.

we'll agree to disagree.

 

[Firebird 8118]

we'll agree to disagree.

Just try and let your guard down a little, we don’t bite.

 

[theablekingedgar]

On guard against what?

against bullying. nobody should be bullied. who then says anybody should be?

 

[Red Memories]

There was this uni lecturer I was rude to, but I don't care really. if she's as smart as she claims then she should acknowledge her own actions and part in this.

I did an extra credit for my course, and after it ended we were handed certificates.
The lecturer gave brief words of encouragement to each student and then when she came to me she said that I would be a "credit to any employer and that I was a 'smart-arse' and that I should go far". But this was way more long-winded than what she said to the others. It's clear she had some agenda against me since she probably had thought that I answered some questions well so she thought she wanted to bully me. People have done this before, and why? because they think i'm easy, but not anymore.

So about a week later, she said hello to me in the corridor, and then I blanked her and said "leave me be" and then laughed. She then gives me bad scorns when she sees me, but then I don't care really. She laid down the gauntlet and wished to move on. I'm a human and don't deserve to be bullied. nobody does. anybody who disagrees with that sh0ould burn in Hell. There's no reason I should be excluded arbitrarily from a common moral.
So I don't care if I was rude to her, she fully warranted it. She chose me to single out and embarass and for no real reason. so whatever...

I am failing to see how she insulted you actually. I have actually been humiliated in front of my student body by a teacher and it was awful, I have felt that pain, but this doesn't seem to be humiliation. She suggested you'd go far and be an asset.

I'm not sure what you want us to say?

 

[Firebird 8118]

against bullying. nobody should be bullied. who then says anybody should be?

I’ve known cap for years, kid. He’s one of the least bullying people you’ll ever come across. Besides, no one in this thread is actively bullying you. Chill.

 

[Lord Lavender]

Dupe of Wailing Spector or Warrior?