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Hello there,
I'm landing here right now 'cause I think some Intj could help me clarifying some few points.
I'm a teacher this year of my own mother tongue for some italian pupils, bilingual, often clever, but who have difficulties at home,
+ the fact that their parents only speak italian so they feel very often misunderstood and rebellious.
With me they generally feel welcome, are willing to express themselves more and more, and in general I am very happy to have them around.
The good point for me is that I naturally understand their tendency to feel rebellious and unsatisfied with their situation,
even if, let's be honest,they are super lucky to have such a destiny. They'll probably realise that later....
So my question is : I have among them 2 intj (1 am not sure, 1 may be isfp 'cause he seems to have an artistic soul).
So I would need to understand stuffs about those young extraterrestres as I observe than even if they too seem more at ease,
I can feel the shyness and I would like to improve myself facing them.
Even if very young they have the will to understand different subjects. Sometimes I feel they know more than others, they can show themselves overly shy and reserved.
With one I feel okay. But the other feels anything from me like an intrusion.
So as a result, as I want him to feel confortable with me, I feel unconfortable myself. I take more time to explain a tiny problem.
And I know that is wrong as I must find the middle road.
Could some Intj help me by telling me what a good teacher is for them ? Or for a young intj ?
I think those pupils are more challenging, they are definitely more mature. I need a good deal of humility to say " I don't know", because in front of their many questions,
I sometimes hear myself saying so and I am okay with it, I often laugh at their perspicacity and at least I never feel bored with them !!
They in their own way are teaching me so many stuffs about myself.
Is it quite frequent for intjs/infps to be dyslexic more than others ?
If there is a study about mbti on this subject...
I'm landing here right now 'cause I think some Intj could help me clarifying some few points.
I'm a teacher this year of my own mother tongue for some italian pupils, bilingual, often clever, but who have difficulties at home,
+ the fact that their parents only speak italian so they feel very often misunderstood and rebellious.
With me they generally feel welcome, are willing to express themselves more and more, and in general I am very happy to have them around.
The good point for me is that I naturally understand their tendency to feel rebellious and unsatisfied with their situation,
even if, let's be honest,they are super lucky to have such a destiny. They'll probably realise that later....
So my question is : I have among them 2 intj (1 am not sure, 1 may be isfp 'cause he seems to have an artistic soul).
So I would need to understand stuffs about those young extraterrestres as I observe than even if they too seem more at ease,
I can feel the shyness and I would like to improve myself facing them.
Even if very young they have the will to understand different subjects. Sometimes I feel they know more than others, they can show themselves overly shy and reserved.
With one I feel okay. But the other feels anything from me like an intrusion.
So as a result, as I want him to feel confortable with me, I feel unconfortable myself. I take more time to explain a tiny problem.
And I know that is wrong as I must find the middle road.
Could some Intj help me by telling me what a good teacher is for them ? Or for a young intj ?
I think those pupils are more challenging, they are definitely more mature. I need a good deal of humility to say " I don't know", because in front of their many questions,
I sometimes hear myself saying so and I am okay with it, I often laugh at their perspicacity and at least I never feel bored with them !!
They in their own way are teaching me so many stuffs about myself.
Is it quite frequent for intjs/infps to be dyslexic more than others ?
If there is a study about mbti on this subject...