[Other/Multiple Enneatypes] 794 with an unhealthy 9.

[VILLANELLE]

Usually when I'm upset about something, I mostly just want to be understood instead of people questioning my feelings or telling me what I should do. Hope it gets better for you.

Thanks. I hope things get better for you too.

 

[Virtual ghost]

I apologize for snapping at you, I do appreciate your responses; I know a solution won't appear out of thin air but I'm just tired of this why, why why from people. It's just difficult, that's why, like I said before. Money, insurance, etc. It's a lot.

Well, I don't know anything about you so the only thing I can do is start with a few "why" questions. Not to mention that unlike the most here I am not from English speaking country.

 

[VILLANELLE]

Well, I don't know anything about you so the only thing I can do is start with a few "why" questions. Not to mention that unlike the most here I am not from English speaking country.

My mistake. There's just a lot of stigma around mental health and my family isn't very supportive when I try and open up. They just ignore me. So I feel stuck.

 

[Virtual ghost]

My mistake. There's just a lot of stigma around mental health and my family isn't very supportive when I try and open up. They just ignore me. So I feel stuck.

Regarding professional diagnosis and similar stuff I can't help you. I can only only listen and give a few vague down to Earth advices.

 

[Smilephantomhive]

Some people said they doubted the 8 in my tritype, and now I'm beginning to see what they mean. I chose 8 for my gut fix because I expressed my anger , and felt as though the world was a man eats man world. But now I think 9 could potentially be my gut fix. I initially care and strive for a lot, but if things are dragging me down for too long, I turn become like an apathetic 9. Well I could have 1 fix, but I will try on 9 for now. I know 6s integrate into 9, but I also feel like my 9 tendencies are not healthy.

 

[hjgbujhghg]

Can you really just have one type in your enneagram unhealthy and all the other healthy? hmmmmmmmmm

 

[VILLANELLE]

Can you really just have one type in your enneagram unhealthy and all the other healthy? hmmmmmmmmm

IDK, I'm just guessing.

 

[hjgbujhghg]

IDK, I'm just guessing.

I think it doesn't really work that way. If you're unhealthy it's mostly your core type that influences you, so if you are a core 7 and unhealthy, you'd behave like an unhealthy 7 and all the other types in your tritype would sort of just screw up along the way.

 

[VILLANELLE]

I think it doesn't really work that way. If you're unhealthy it's mostly your core type that influences you, so if you are a core 7 and unhealthy, you'd behave like an unhealthy 7 and all the other types in your tritype would sort of just screw up along the way.

Ok well I said 'I think" in my post about my tritype, sooooo.

 

[hjgbujhghg]

Ok well I said 'I think" in my post about my tritype, sooooo.

You say you don't really care about anything, that's a sign of depression not e9. Depression can mean a lot of things but can also mask other mental health issues... I'd suggest goig deeper into why you feel so uninterested and apathetic, what caused you feeling like this and what can be done to change it. Maybe consider a therapy if it's really a long term issue.

 

[VILLANELLE]

You say you don't really care about anything, that's a sign of depression not e9. Depression can mean a lot of things but can also mask other mental health issues... I'd suggest goig deeper into why you feel so uninterested and apathetic, what caused you feeling like this and what can be done to change it. Maybe consider a therapy if it's really a long term issue.

I realize it's not just a thing of e9, I was just doing some thinking and I posted. Frankly I could have my tritype mixed up, I don't know. I'm just going thru life, man.

 

[Gone]

I realize it's not just a thing of e9, I was just doing some thinking and I posted. Frankly I could have my tritype mixed up, I don't know. I'm just going thru life, man.

Who doesn't.
Tell me something that excites you.

 

[VILLANELLE]

Who doesn't.
Tell me something that excites you.

Movies and things related to that excite me.