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    Do 4s often create unrealistic connections with people in their fantasies, while they are not able to create a real open intimate connection with friends/family? Can these connections in dreams with people that for some reason will never really come true be destructive? Can a 4 get so lost in these connections, the type can lost the real contact with people around? With which instinct is this correlated?
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    Quote Originally Posted by SophiaDeep View Post
    Do 4s often create unrealistic connections with people in their fantasies, while they are not able to create a real open intimate connection with friends/family? Can these connections in dreams with people that for some reason will never really come true be destructive? Can a 4 get so lost in these connections, the type can lost the real contact with people around? With which instinct is this correlated?
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    Yes. And the pain of reality can make it hard to focus on the actual good things in your life. It takes learning how and why connections work in the real world as well as grieving your fantasy to turn it just into a bittersweet memory you dont feel broken, incompetent or unloved over it.

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