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[Type 4] Unrealistic connections

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I am
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MBTI Type
INFP
Enneagram
4w3
Instinctual Variant
sx/so
Do 4s often create unrealistic connections with people in their fantasies, while they are not able to create a real open intimate connection with friends/family? Can these connections in dreams with people that for some reason will never really come true be destructive? Can a 4 get so lost in these connections, the type can lost the real contact with people around? With which instinct is this correlated?
 
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Do 4s often create unrealistic connections with people in their fantasies, while they are not able to create a real open intimate connection with friends/family? Can these connections in dreams with people that for some reason will never really come true be destructive? Can a 4 get so lost in these connections, the type can lost the real contact with people around? With which instinct is this correlated?

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Amargith

Hotel California
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Nov 5, 2008
Messages
14,717
MBTI Type
ENFP
Enneagram
4dw
Instinctual Variant
sx/so
Yes. And the pain of reality can make it hard to focus on the actual good things in your life. It takes learning how and why connections work in the real world as well as grieving your fantasy to turn it just into a bittersweet memory you dont feel broken, incompetent or unloved over it.
 
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