small.wonder
So she did.
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Wow, this thread is so suprising to me. Some 4's may be wimps, but most 4's I believe are not.
I'm a 4w5 sx/sp, I am quite emotional but I choose how and when to express it externally. We are a reactive type because of our intense emotions-- emotional is not always a sappy thing. Also, does it not take courage to express one'self creatively and embrace vulnerability? Another reason I believe 4's are not wimps is because we accept our flaws readily-- we almost revel in them in a "beauty from ashes" type of way. Personally, that's why I feel fearless and tend to be assertive (what can harm me if my flaws are already exposed and known)?
Besides, I was recently awarded the supurlative: Most Likely To Be In Charge Of Power Tools (wimp? Ha.)
I should say though, I'm a pretty healthy 4w5 that integrates to 1 alot (when I took my test, 1 was my second highest score).
I'm a 4w5 sx/sp, I am quite emotional but I choose how and when to express it externally. We are a reactive type because of our intense emotions-- emotional is not always a sappy thing. Also, does it not take courage to express one'self creatively and embrace vulnerability? Another reason I believe 4's are not wimps is because we accept our flaws readily-- we almost revel in them in a "beauty from ashes" type of way. Personally, that's why I feel fearless and tend to be assertive (what can harm me if my flaws are already exposed and known)?
Besides, I was recently awarded the supurlative: Most Likely To Be In Charge Of Power Tools (wimp? Ha.)
I should say though, I'm a pretty healthy 4w5 that integrates to 1 alot (when I took my test, 1 was my second highest score).