[Type 1] Sexual Ones

[Cloud of Thunder]

I'm curious about how this seemingly contradictory type manifests. Specifically, how is it different from Fours or Eights? And how do Sexual Ones channel their sexual urges and energy?

 

[Magic Poriferan]

What makes you see them as contradictory?

 

[Richardsen]

They are very intense.
I know some sexual 1s and they may appear 4 or 8 like.
They explode very often, the anger in this type is more evident than in the other subtypes.
Very contradictory and pasional in their attitude.
Beside of all this they are 1s and there is a self contained behavior and they are driven to do "the right thing"
Expect perfection from their intimates.

Well that depends a lot of the stacking. A sx/sp may appear more like I described above.
To picture a sx/so 1 look at Joan Of Arc.

 

[Speed Gavroche]

They are very intense.
I know some sexual 1s and they may appear 4 or 8 like.
They explode very often, the anger in this type is more evident than in the other subtypes.
Very contradictory and pasional in their attitude.
Beside of all this they are 1s and there is a self contained behavior and they are driven to do "the right thing"
Expect perfection from their intimates.

Well that depends a lot of the stacking. A sx/sp may appear more like I described above.
To picture a sx/so 1 look at Joan Of Arc.

Joan of Arc was a 6w7, not a 1.

 

[Richardsen]

Joan of Arc was a 6w7, not a 1.

She was a 1.
No anxiety in her. She wanted to see France free, she was very stoical in her attitude and ideals.
No way a 6

 

[Cloud of Thunder]

What makes you see them as contradictory?

All the messiness and fluidity inherent in the Sexual subtype juxtaposed with arguably the driest E-type? I think that's very contradictory.

 

[Magic Poriferan]

All the messiness and fluidity inherent in the Sexual subtype juxtaposed with arguably the driest E-type? I think that's very contradictory.

I don't see it that way. The ideals and passions that Ones have are conceptually difficult for me to imagine overlapping with those ideals and passions people have for their relationships. But maybe it's just easy for me because I am a Sexual One.

I wish I could transcribe from Helen Palmer's book here. She wrote some very good stuff on how One's handle relationships and how Sexual ones are.

 

[Speed Gavroche]

She was a 1.
No anxiety in her. She wanted to see France free, she was very stoical in her attitude and ideals.
No way a 6

Ah ok, you don't know what you're talking about. She was rebelious at times, devoted follower of rules others times, and paranoid, with antennas wich helped her to make the difference between the image people project and what they truly are. She was not especially concerned about rigid perfectionism of moral consistencies, but about loyalism, and "us-against-them" lust.

 

[Cloud of Thunder]

I don't see it that way. The ideals and passions that Ones have are conceptually difficult for me to imagine overlapping with those ideals and passions people have for their relationships. But maybe it's just easy for me because I am a Sexual One.

I wish I could transcribe from Helen Palmer's book here. She wrote some very good stuff on how One's handle relationships and how Sexual ones are.

Well, what's it like for you? I really want to get into the head of this type.

 

[Viridian]

I can kind of imagine how it manifests itself in 1w2s, but I'm at a loss when it comes to imagining a Sexual 1w9...

 

[Speed Gavroche]

I can kind of imagine how it manifests itself in 1w2s, but I'm at a loss when it comes to imagining a Sexual 1w9...

1w9 Sx/Sp
Gregory Peck http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wTOHrl8MNVI
Charlotte Rampling http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qe9niZPXgtQ
Diane Lane http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U4PnRrLxGdg
Carlo Maria Giulini http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MF41e9TGgAQ
Kelly LeBrock http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6HV9IEYTPKc
Alan Rickman http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RSb9_Za3hw8
Vanessa Redgrave http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4yKQSMIrGQk
Emily Deschanel http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9U69krL6NTc
Penny Rimbaud http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=WLirqfg36c8
Ted Hughes http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=18DdJO9Lg-s
Meryl Streep http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWOPY9_QTTU

Fictionals
Harry Potter http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_EC2tmFVNNE
Atticus Finch (To kill a mockingbird) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k8TgqenWW0I

1w9 Sx/So
Imam Khomeini http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0AgW_9bijzE
Katharine Hepburn http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=neduJ38MiDQ
Adrian Rogers http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b21ybbdsTbQ
George Szell http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vXCD5Cuum6c
Joan Sutherland http://www.charlierose.com/view/interview/5107
Daw Aung San Suu Kyi http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=e0UCtcXBHhA
Lady Michelle Renouf http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=J2Rwco78dFk
Pina Bausch http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gHwEa_QPia8
Gloria Steinem http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DbN5tyZ5IvE
Henri Nouwen http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SFWfYpd0F18

Fictional
Charles Xavier (X-Men) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=APOn-P_hmOM

 

[sleuthiness]

sx/sp e19 intj friend can be a thorn in my side when least needed. Whining, critical brat.

 

[Viridian]

1w9 Sx/Sp
Gregory Peck http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wTOHrl8MNVI
Charlotte Rampling http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qe9niZPXgtQ
Diane Lane http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U4PnRrLxGdg
Carlo Maria Giulini http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MF41e9TGgAQ
Kelly LeBrock http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6HV9IEYTPKc
Alan Rickman http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RSb9_Za3hw8
Vanessa Redgrave http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4yKQSMIrGQk
Emily Deschanel http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9U69krL6NTc
Penny Rimbaud http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=WLirqfg36c8
Ted Hughes http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=18DdJO9Lg-s
Meryl Streep http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EWOPY9_QTTU

Fictionals
Harry Potter http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_EC2tmFVNNE
Atticus Finch (To kill a mockingbird) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k8TgqenWW0I

1w9 Sx/So
Imam Khomeini http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0AgW_9bijzE
Katharine Hepburn http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=neduJ38MiDQ
Adrian Rogers http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b21ybbdsTbQ
George Szell http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vXCD5Cuum6c
Joan Sutherland http://www.charlierose.com/view/interview/5107
Daw Aung San Suu Kyi http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=e0UCtcXBHhA
Lady Michelle Renouf http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=J2Rwco78dFk
Pina Bausch http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gHwEa_QPia8
Gloria Steinem http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DbN5tyZ5IvE
Henri Nouwen http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SFWfYpd0F18

Fictional
Charles Xavier (X-Men) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=APOn-P_hmOM

Well, thank you! What I meant to say, though, is... What makes them distinct from other subtypes? Is their focus more on "perfecting people" one-on-one, like mentors or teachers?

 

[Mal12345]

I'm curious about how this seemingly contradictory type manifests. Specifically, how is it different from Fours or Eights? And how do Sexual Ones channel their sexual urges and energy?

By moving to Four.

 

[redacted]

I'm an sx 1w9 -- can someone explain to me why this typing seems contradictory? Or, just ask me questions if I really do have a curious personality.

 

[Mal12345]

I'm an sx 1w9 -- can someone explain to me why this typing seems contradictory? Or, just ask me questions if I really do have a curious personality.

A 1w9 is more detached due to the 9 wing, but Sx intensity does not like being kept bottled up like a Genie.

 

[redacted]

A 1w9 is more detached due to the 9 wing, but Sx intensity does not like being kept bottled up like a Genie.

I'm usually pretty detached, but if I get intrigued by someone and have a chance to talk to them, I become almost manically focused -- I can engage excitedly for hours and not get drained.

It doesn't come out that often, but when it rains it pours.

So yeah, I guess it is bottled up like a genie.

 

[Cloud of Thunder]

I'm usually pretty detached, but if I get intrigued by someone and have a chance to talk to them, I become almost manically focused -- I can engage excitedly for hours and not get drained.

It doesn't come out that often, but when it rains it pours.

So yeah, I guess it is bottled up like a genie.

I relate to that very much.

I have a question. When you get stressed out, what does it feel like? Do you struggle to contain your stress or anger, or do you express it outwardly?

 

[redacted]

I relate to that very much.

I have a question. When you get stressed out, what does it feel like? Do you struggle to contain your stress or anger, or do you express it outwardly?

I'm more of a struggling to contain type of guy. I very rarely express anger outwardly unless I feel really close to someone.

 

[Richardsen]

Ah ok, you don't know what you're talking about. She was rebelious at times, devoted follower of rules others times, and paranoid, with antennas wich helped her to make the difference between the image people project and what they truly are. She was not especially concerned about rigid perfectionism of moral consistencies, but about loyalism, and "us-against-them" lust.

Come on!!!
She was self assertive, and the fact that she was maybe schyzofrenic haves nothing to do with the type.-
She pursued an ideal, whe she was judged by the church she was extremely steady and honest.
The ones can be extremely passionate too. Not all the ones are concerned with a rigid structure. They can be the most revolutionary of all the E types.