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[Type 7] Suitable Partners for 7w8

Good Matches for 7w8

  • 1w9

    Votes: 3 17.6%
  • 1w2

    Votes: 2 11.8%
  • 2w1

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 2w3

    Votes: 3 17.6%
  • 3w2

    Votes: 3 17.6%
  • 3w4

    Votes: 3 17.6%
  • 4w3

    Votes: 4 23.5%
  • 4w5

    Votes: 5 29.4%
  • 5w4

    Votes: 4 23.5%
  • 5w6

    Votes: 3 17.6%
  • 6w5

    Votes: 1 5.9%
  • 6w7

    Votes: 1 5.9%
  • 7w6

    Votes: 3 17.6%
  • 7w8

    Votes: 2 11.8%
  • 8w7

    Votes: 1 5.9%
  • 8w9

    Votes: 3 17.6%
  • 9w1

    Votes: 2 11.8%
  • 9w8

    Votes: 3 17.6%

  • Total voters
    17

Kierva

#KUWK
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Messages
2,469
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6w7
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sp/sx
what type do you think you'd work best with?

I am specifically attracted to ENFP 7w6 (phobic) sx-first because they are just so interesting! If I can find a cool SFP 4w3/4w5 then I'd like that too. I'm more attracted to the emotional side of the triad but I don't really fancy 2s. They're sweet but the whole aspect of love is cheapened by sharing it with others.

Sadly I've only met INTJ 4w5s and 2w1s so I don't know how a feeler 4 is like. Maybe more mercurial? I don't know?
 

Elfboy

Certified Sausage Smoker
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Messages
9,625
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ENFP
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5w4
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sx/sp
I am specifically attracted to ENFP 7w6 (phobic) sx-first because they are just so interesting! If I can find a cool SFP 4w3/4w5 then I'd like that too. I'm more attracted to the emotional side of the triad but I don't really fancy 2s. They're sweet but the whole aspect of love is cheapened by sharing it with others.

Sadly I've only met INTJ 4w5s and 2w1s so I don't know how a feeler 4 is like. Maybe more mercurial? I don't know?

your tastes are similar to mine :yes:
 

FDG

pathwise dependent
Joined
Aug 13, 2007
Messages
5,903
MBTI Type
ENTJ
Enneagram
7w8
I personally don't deal well with anyone from the aggressive triad, except my own type (so, 3-8). I quickly become competitive with them, unless we have completely diverging interests. Even with other 7s, if we share similar interests, sooner or later we're bound to have a bit of a conflict regarding who's the best at it.
 

Elfboy

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sx/sp
I personally don't deal well with anyone from the aggressive triad, except my own type (so, 3-8). I quickly become competitive with them, unless we have completely diverging interests. Even with other 7s, if we share similar interests, sooner or later we're bound to have a bit of a conflict regarding who's the best at it.

actually, most 7s aren't competitive at all. that's more of a 3/8 thing.
 

FDG

pathwise dependent
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5,903
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ENTJ
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7w8
actually, most 7s aren't competitive at all. that's more of a 3/8 thing.

MMm 7s are short-term competitive. When you're doing something / playing sports / etc, a 7 will be competitive in the moment. Yet he won't spend hours training or doing homework or working overtime.
 

Elfboy

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sx/sp
MMm 7s are short-term competitive. When you're doing something / playing sports / etc, a 7 will be competitive in the moment. Yet he won't spend hours training or doing homework or working overtime.

perhaps it also has to do with MBTI and instinct variants. almost none of the 7s I've met IRL were competitive at all
 

Kierva

#KUWK
Joined
Dec 8, 2010
Messages
2,469
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6w7
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sp/sx
your tastes are similar to mine :yes:

but generally I don't type people. If I like what I see then I'll make an assessment of the character. If I somehow still am drawn to the person then I'll make it work.

I seem to draw or be drawn to ENPs @_@; my closest friends are ENFP and ENTP.
 

Elfboy

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sx/sp
but generally I don't type people. If I like what I see then I'll make an assessment of the character. If I somehow still am drawn to the person then I'll make it work.

I seem to draw or be drawn to ENPs @_@; my closest friends are ENFP and ENTP.

I don't generally go for people based on type, but I do notice very strong correlations with type
 

Hyacinth

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Mar 27, 2012
Messages
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MBTI Type
intp
Enneagram
471
Instinctual Variant
sx/sp
8w9 is pretty snazzy ^_^
 

Elfboy

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8w9 is pretty snazzy ^_^

I can see how that could work well.
personally, I'd probably work best with a 6w7, 7w6 2w3, or 3w2 (or possibly a 9)
 

Speed Gavroche

Whisky Old & Women Young
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EsTP
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sx/sp
I checked 2w3, 3w2, 4w3, 6w7, 8w9 and 9w8.
 

Elfboy

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I checked 2w3, 3w2, 4w3, 6w7, 8w9 and 9w8.

I would go with this, though I'd add 7w6 too.
[MENTION=13377]pinkgraffiti[/MENTION]
interesting. I can't see a 7w8 x 4w5 couple working out so well. could you explain your reasoning?
 

Speed Gavroche

Whisky Old & Women Young
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sx/sp
I would go with this, though I'd add 7w6 too.

[MENTION=13377]pinkgraffiti[/MENTION]
interesting. I can't see a 7w8 x 4w5 couple working out so well. could you explain your reasoning?

Humm.... Just imagine if Jim Morrison (7w8 Sx/Sp) and Van Morrison (4w5 Sp/Sx) were gays and had an affair together. That could have worked very well!
 

pinkgraffiti

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sx/so
i'm dating one and i've never been better. the only problem is that its an sp-dom 4w5.
I would go with this, though I'd add 7w6 too.

[MENTION=13377]pinkgraffiti[/MENTION]
interesting. I can't see a 7w8 x 4w5 couple working out so well. could you explain your reasoning?
 

Eugene Watson VIII

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Jun 22, 2012
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xxxP
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?
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sp/sx
I agree with the idea of 9s for long-term relationships. 5s are nice, too. Though I'll have to say, for sheer outrageousness and general lavishness, you can't beat the 3w4. There's nothing more fabulous than the 3-7 pairing.

yeah that, maybe a sx 9. 5s maybe and 8s maybe not. I've seen a lot of unhealthy 8s and just clash with them
 

ilikeitlikethat

You're unbelievable ...
Joined
May 29, 2012
Messages
2,158
MBTI Type
xNTP
Enneagram
7w8
Instinctual Variant
sx/so
In order to vote, I would have to know what all these numbers mean.
 

You

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entp
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7w8
nah, just pick your favorite #. or close your eyes and point.
 

Elfboy

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5w4
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sx/sp
i'm dating one and i've never been better. the only problem is that its an sp-dom 4w5.
what's wrong with Sp doms? would you rather have someone who's irresponsible, bad with money and doesn't know how to survive? :laugh: (though I can't this applies much to 4s, 4s suck at surviving regardless of instinctual variant :laugh: )
 
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