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[Traditional Enneagram] Now I'm sure I'm actually a 6, not a 9

NatureChaser

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ISFJ
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6w7
After doing some more research now I'm 100% sure I'm actually a 6 without a doubt.
Why I'm a 6 :
- Type 8 and 1 are types least like me so if I'm a 9 I don't have wing
- I feel fear more often and easier than anger
- I'm indecisive and full of doubt, always second guess myself.
- I often think of worst case scenario
- When there's a problem I almost always try to find the solution and only withdraw from it if I don't know how to solve it
- If someone trust me to do something I always do my best and avoid making mistake because I'm afraid the person won't trust me to do it again if I make mistake. If it happens I can be hard on myself. I always think the person expect me to do it perfectly.
- How good I do something depends on people's opinion. If people think I did a good job it means I did a good job.
- I'm full of contradiction :
- Value commitment but want freedom.
- Fear of being too dependent but afraid if I don't have someone to depend on
- Don't like people who are slow at doing things but I'm also a slow person
- Have a dream of having more exciting adventures but I'm too afraid to start
- Love surprises but fear of the unknown and hate dealing with unpredictable situations
- Promise to be more assertive and 100% sure I can do it but when faced by something that requires me to be assertive I act passive again and end up resent myself and being critical of myself.

That's it. It's time to embrace my 6-ness :party:
 
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