[Traditional Enneagram] 9w1s, Where are you?!

[RasberryCupcake]

Hi fellow 9s! Im a 9w1 here and would love to get your perspective on a 9w1, or a 9w1 female specifically. Also, would love to chat with you guys, so if youre a 9 or a 9w1 hit me up!💛

 

[misfortuneteller]

Have you looked into the harmonic triads?

[Reactive]
The other person denies that a problem exists or minimizes its importance. You feel that they don’t really understand the magnitude of the problem. The more I expressing my concerns (emotionally), the more they seem to ignore them. They may also change the subject or distract you away from the problem. “I’m ticked off, and you should be, too! Why does this not upset you?”

vs.

[Positive Outlook]
The other person just keeps repeating how bad the situation is. They are overly-pessimistic. It seems they won’t be happy until they’ve made me upset. “I don’t think this is such a big deal.” “Isn’t it a beautiful day outside?

Which seems more like you?

 

[RasberryCupcake]

Have you looked into the harmonic triads? [Reactive] The other person denies that a problem exists or minimizes its importance. You feel that they don't really understand the magnitude of the problem. The more I expressing my concerns (emotionally), the more they seem to ignore them. They may also change the subject or distract you away from the problem. "I'm ticked off, and you should be, too! Why does this not upset you?" vs. [Positive Outlook] The other person just keeps repeating how bad the situation is. They are overly-pessimistic. It seems they won't be happy until they've made me upset. "I don't think this is such a big deal." "Isn't it a beautiful day outside? Which seems more like you?

Im so confused by this lol, am i the other person or what? 😩

 

[misfortuneteller]

Im so confused by this lol, am i the other person or what? 😩

Which one seems more like you...

 

[RasberryCupcake]

Which one seems more like you...

The second one, positive outlook.

 

[misfortuneteller]

The second one, positive outlook.

Ok. I just wanted to make sure that you weren't a integrated 6.

 

[Luminous]

Ok. I just wanted to make sure that you weren't a integrated 6.

? What?

 

[Lady Lazarus]

Not here.

 

[misfortuneteller]

? What?

Learn enneagram and you may know what it means.

 

[Luminous]

Learn enneagram and you may know what it means.

No, I'm wondering why you felt the need to automatically question someone who is new to the forum in relation to their stated type. This wasn't a Help Type Me thread.

 

[misfortuneteller]

No, I'm wondering why you felt the need to automatically question someone who is new to the forum in relation to their stated type. This wasn't a Help Type Me thread.

She made a type me thread. I can feel the need to do anything I want to do, get over it.