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    Junior Member ~Alissia~'s Avatar
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    Default A really frustrated 7w8

    People effing suck...I am having a total come to Jesus year but this is my end message . I have sacrificed every gdamn single thing I have enjoyed, I have sacrificed for what I thought was important and people have all still crapped on me ! I highly recommend you don't get married, don't have kids and don't settle down, down divorce and re-mate up or even make strong friendships because it effing sucks... and it's all for effing nothing . Just being honest. Booo....booo...f****** boo. I want to join an effing circus, at least I could travel and have a good time . What's the friggen point of this all? What's the life goal of a 7w8 sx/so supposed to be? I can sure tell you what I am good at....I am good at going out as a stranger in a strange place...making friends & alliances and having a good time! What I am not good at...apparently keeping all the same pain in the a$$ people in my life happy . I hate everyone....except my cat...she's effing cute and awesome . Thanks for letting me ventn
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    Yeah, people suck. Ack, wish some would learn something called empathy. Oh isn't that so hard to learn?

    But, at least we have ourselves. There's going to be bratty people, and going to be great people. Both come and go, rather literally or personality-wise (Someone who I thought was an annoying know-it-all turned out to be one of my closest friends. Still an annoying know-it-all, but great to hang out with) You never know their view on what they're doing except for yourself. So make the most out of it. And I'm glad you're letting yourself vent. Just a suggestion: don't let your 4 inside of you question its purpose. Mine's manifested into a "You have no purpose so you don't deserve to live. Maybe you should-" (I'm stopping there. Don't have to get too dark...). Everyone has a purpose, but not every purpose has to be known.

    And hey, if people are using you that way, f*** them cause the only sacrifice needed is for the future of your own good. You got us and maybe other peeps and especially your cat. And I can guarantee that they unless they were as much of a jerk as those bastards, they won't leave.


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    While you're here reading this, yourself 50 years from now will regret it.
    Stop finding the light in this pitch black tunnel. It's probably heaven, hell, your problems stuffed into a vehicle about to ram you, or nothing but darkness. Try something else, like making your own light. You just need enough of the right resources and everything's clearer.
    Yes, you need rain to make a rainbow. But you also need light, and that's hard to forage when clouds fog the world above.
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    Hello, i'm a 9w8 but I can relate with your misanthropic thoughts. Its like when I put my defenses down, they think i'm easy meat. I can't imagine how hard it must be for a core 8 to deal with this since their worst nightmare is being taken advantage of.
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    Quote Originally Posted by misfortuneteller View Post
    Hello, i'm a 9w8 but I can relate with your misanthropic thoughts. Its like when I put my defenses down, they think i'm easy meat. I can't imagine how hard it must be for a core 8 to deal with this since their worst nightmare is being taken advantage of.
    You are not kidding! I feel my 8 wing pretty strong already...can't even imagine the 8 at the core! I think my dad was an unhealthy 8, it was hard to see him suffer so much!
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    Lmao, agreed. I will take your advice to heart- I really don't wanna settle, NOT YET!!!
    You say I have the wickest talk, that I'm full of attitude, and you don't like my friend because she's crude.

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    Seriously, what has happened to this forum? Are we allowing posts like these now in the unrelated subforums? I had left the forum before, because of the general decrease of quality of the posts, and I see that nothing's changed. This either belongs into the Graveyard, or as a post in a personal blog, or the Support and Advice subforum. I don't blame the member, who started this thread, I blame the mods who allow such posts where they clearly do not belong. Anyway...I think this forum needs some new approach to rules and guidance of new members, perhaps be more strict in the areas where it's needed, and less so in the areas where good members who post intelligent posts decide to rebel and leave the forum. @highlander

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fay View Post
    Seriously, what has happened to this forum? Are we allowing posts like these now in the unrelated subforums? I had left the forum before, because of the general decrease of quality of the posts, and I see that nothing's changed. This either belongs into the Graveyard, or as a post in a personal blog, or the Support and Advice subforum. I don't blame the member, who started this thread, I blame the mods who allow such posts where they clearly do not belong. Anyway...I think this forum needs some new approach to rules and guidance of new members, perhaps be more strict in the areas where it's needed, and less so in the areas where good members who post intelligent posts decide to rebel and leave the forum. @highlander
    Why does this not belong in here? Yes, this person is venting but their core question is this..

    What's the life goal of a 7w8 sx/so supposed to be?
    Why should that be in the GY?
    I like to rock n' roll all night and *part* of every day. I usually have errands... I can only rock from like 1-3.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ceecee View Post
    Why does this not belong in here? Yes, this person is venting but their core question is this..

    Why should that be in the GY?

    Well, Europe did go pretty OCD lately.

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    I don't blame people but I get the frustration of being trapped. I'm 33 and I think I've been already building up to my midlife crisis for the last 6 months.
    Perpetual mood


    “Sometimes I think I have felt everything I'm ever gonna feel.
    And from here on out, I'm not gonna feel anything new.
    Just lesser versions of what I've already felt.”


    - look it up yourself


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    Quote Originally Posted by Peter Deadpan View Post
    I don't blame people but I get the frustration of being trapped. I'm 33 and I think I've been already building up to my midlife crisis for the last 6 months.
    I'm 35, and I've already had 3.
    *Need enneagram questionnaire?
    http://www.typologycentral.com/forum...ml#post2218641
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