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    Senior Member misfortuneteller's Avatar
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    Default Any tips on how to stop getting so angry? (8s or 8 wingers with a strong 8 wing)

    I'm a 9w8 that has been feeling way too much rage lately... I don't know how to not react to it on the spot. I'll try anything, if it sounds reasonable.

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    My go-to is knowing that acting on impulse in response to negative emotions frequently results in a poor outcome. Knowing that, I force myself to resist it. Step away, take a breather. Once I have calmed I reassess. It is mostly self control bolstered by experience and logic.
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    Woo, that was quick.

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    People just annoy me in general? I can't be able to avoid them.

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    Exercise. Run. Walk. Beat the shit out of deadfall trees in the woods while screaming like a barbarian (worked for me once just wear thick gloves and pick smaller trees and make sure it’s secluded so people don’t think you’re murdering someone or being murdered lol). Anything that burns off the angry energy. A vigorous hike over rough terrain is also good you might be a bit bruised after but it’s worth it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by misfortuneteller View Post
    Woo, that was quick.

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    People just annoy me in general? I can't be able to avoid them.
    You're asking me? Am I supposed to know the answer?
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    Anger is a sign that something needs to change. If all people annoy you though, then it's probably time for you to reevaluate yourself.
    I am currently looking for someone to give me an in depth typing. Willing to pay money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Merced View Post
    Anger is a sign that something needs to change. If all people annoy you though, then it's probably time for you to reevaluate yourself.
    Well this explains why 1w2's are called the reformers

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    Quote Originally Posted by Merced View Post
    If all people annoy you though, then it's probably time for you to reevaluate yourself.
    All people don't annoy me. I just don't like being mocked and once I feel slightly mocked then I become the Incredible Hulk.

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    Well this explains why 1w2's are called the reformers
    I was about to ask if he was actually a 1 but trying to type people here without their permission is frowned upon.

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    Quote Originally Posted by misfortuneteller View Post
    I was about to ask if he was actually a 1 but trying to type people here without their permission is frowned upon.
    I am probably one of the most "visible and obvious" 1's on the forums. If you don't believe me you're welcome to pick my brain, but trust I me I am 110% confident I am a 1.

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