[Tritype] Updated Enneagram Tritype Test.

[Lyra.I]

Enneagram takes a long time to learn too. And there’s many interpretations of all the 9 types which makes it more difficult. Lol but I think it’s more fulfilling than MBTI. MBTI may scratch the surface but it’s advice is certainly not practical. I find MBTI to be much more descriptive than explanatory.

c;

I saw some of the very many interpretations and i realized how many combinations there can be, part of the reason why i haven't delved into it yet. That's going to change sooner or later. Do you have any idea how i can confirm my tritype other than asking people to type me?

 

[Forever]

I saw some of the very many interpretations and i realized how many combinations there can be, part of the reason why i haven't delved into it yet. That's going to change sooner or later. Do you have any idea how i can confirm my tritype other than asking people to type me?

Just got to go through the old-fashion way of introspection. It could be useful if you can try to narrow it down and just keep participating on the forum. The more posts you have, I think the more we'll kind of get your vibe going

 

[Lyra.I]

Just got to go through the old-fashion way of introspection. It could be useful if you can try to narrow it down and just keep participating on the forum. The more posts you have, I think the more we'll kind of get your vibe going

I guess i'll keep reading and introspecting then. I'm almost positive the three types i relate to in each triad are 7, 4 and 8 (in that order i think). The wings are confusing because i read that you're supposed to look at the wing type in combination with your core type, not in isolation (for example, reading descriptions of 7w6 as opposed to type 6). When i read about 7w6 vs 7w8, i relate more to 7w6 but type 6 in itself is the one type i relate to the leasttt while i relate to type 8 a whole lot.

 

[Forever]

I guess i'll keep reading and introspecting then. I'm almost positive the three types i relate to in each triad are 7, 4 and 8 (in that order i think). The wings are confusing because i read that you're supposed to look at the wing type in combination with your core type, not in isolation (for example, reading descriptions of 7w6 as opposed to type 6). When i read about 7w6 vs 7w8, i relate more to 7w6 but type 6 in itself is the one type i relate to the leasttt while i relate to type 8 a whole lot.

It is ok

A good alternative is to see which core type share the highest on both sides as you might be that core. For example if you see 1 and 3 being the highest with the middle being 2. You could be a 2. If that makes sense. A wing is really what neighboring number you lean closer to. Sometimes there is no wing preference. Sometimes it can be that people just like an aesthetic appearance of having a wing haha. Many 9’s don’t have wings but if they do, they see it easier to lean towards 1 than 8. As 1 doesn’t really convey their anger as an 8 does.

But in fact wing or not, that core type to theory is supposed to both qualities of their neighboring numbers. It is more of the case you share the qualities of the neighboring numbers than the lack thereof. Because essentially we have all 9 types within us.

 

[Lyra.I]

A good alternative is to see which core type share the highest on both sides as you might be that core. For example if you see 1 and 3 being the highest with the middle being 2. You could be a 2. If that makes sense.

When people say that, it usually does make sense but i'm slightly lost here. I don't think there are any two types that i relate to which are at the gap of one type in between. I was looking at it the other way around, pinning down the one that does sound like me and then looking at the ones on either sides to figure out this wing business.

A wing is really what neighboring number you lean closer to.

Yeah but if i read the descriptions of type 6 and type 8, i relate way more to 8 and hardly at all to 6, but its the opposite when i read descriptions of 7w6 vs 7w8 TT.TT
Which one is it?

Many 9’s don’t have wings but if they do, they see it easier to lean towards 1 than 8. As 1 doesn’t really convey their anger as an 8 does.

So should i look at how either type expresses emotion? Also, my potential wing's types belong to different triads, gut and head which are related to different emotions.

But in fact wing or not, that core type to theory is supposed to both qualities of their neighboring numbers. It is more of the case you share the qualities of the neighboring numbers than the lack thereof.

I was noticing the pattern that the wings seem to be different in orientation (sometimes even opposite) to each other like with type 6 actively seeking authority and relying on it while type 8 has the need to be independent and doesnt rely on others. How would it be both at the same time? Or did you mean like having some characteristics of one type and some from the other one? Hmm probably.

Because essentially we have all 9 types within us.

Ohh yeah i did realize i relate to each to some degree.

 

[fallingforyou]

Type me Please

Enneagram Tritype Test.

Thoughts/opinions?

***Considering that the test gives a result in the form of the general archetype, if you would like to instead receive your result in the form of the specific tritype with wings included that your result correlates to, let me know and I will send you a copy of the test that you can fill out.***


***If you cannot access the test, for whatever reason, (There seem to be some glitches occurring) the contents of the test are listed below. Feel free to reply back to this with your answers bolded and I will inform you of your result. My apologies for the inconvenience.***

1.) Select all of your fears.
- The fear of deprivation and pain.
- The fear of lacking a unique, significant identity.
- The fear of being evil or corrupt.
- The fear of being harmed or controlled by others.
- The fear of being unloved or unwanted by others.
- The fear of loss and separation from others.
- The fear of being unaccomplished and worthless.
- The fear of being helpless and inadequate.
- The fear of being without support or guidance.

2) Choose your three worst tendencies.
- Becoming frustrated with others because of their faults.
- Conserving everything for yourself.
- Showcasing your successes and failing to admit you have faults.
- Becoming anxious about things that might happen.
- Never being satisfied, constantly wanting to experience more.
- Wanting to acquire what other people have.
- Thinking that others can't help themselves as much as you can.
- Constantly expressing anger.
- Not taking action.

3.) How do you express anger?
- Externalized anger: Openly displayed anger.
- Repressed anger: Avoidance of showing anger openly, but it sometimes manifests as passive-aggressiveness.
- Internalized anger: Harshly criticizing one's self. May also appear as judgmental tendencies.

4.) How do you express shame?
- Externalized shame: Openly displays shame. May manifest as constantly needing approval or positive feedback.
- Repressed shame: Avoidance of shame. May manifest as trying to prove yourself to avoid the shame that you feel.
- Internalized shame: Keeping shame to yourself. May manifest as failure to believe anyone can understand your pain.

5.) How do you express fear?
- Externalized fear: Expresses fear openly by displaying paranoia through hoarding, Information, possessions) as well as detachment.
- Repressed fear: Avoidance of showing fear. May manifest as surrounding yourself with safety/security and suspiciousness of the unknown.
- Internalized fear: Keeping fear to yourself. May manifest as engaging in fun activities to avoid facing the fear contained within.

6.) Select all sets of traits that are somewhat like you.
- Strong Willed, Decisive, Tough Minded, Domineering, Controlling, Aggressive.
- Analytical, Knowledgeable, Observant, Detached, Isolated, Nihilistic.
- Unique, Emotional, Creative, Self-Absorbed, Self-Deprecating, Self Conscious.
- Easygoing, Trusting, Conciliatory, Self-Effacing, Escapist, Passive Aggressive.
- Empathetic, Altruistic, Sentimental, People-Pleasing, Manipulative, Victimizing.
- Ambitious,Energetic, Self-Assured, Scheming, Narcissistic, Monomaniacal.
- Loyal, Practical, Trustworthy, Fearful, Distrustful, Defensive.
- Moralistic, Perfectionistic, Self-Disciplined, Self-Righteous, Critical, Obsessive.
- Future Oriented, Extroverted, Open Minded, Compulsive, Reluctant, Arrogant.

7.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Optimistic.
â—‹ Escapist.
â—‹ Adventurous.
â—‹ Extrospective.
â—‹ Compulsive.
â—‹ Hasty.
â—‹ Futuristic.
â—‹ Versatile.
â—‹ Exuberant.
â—‹ Curious.
â—‹ Experiential.
â—‹ Vivacious.
â—‹ Entertaining.
â—‹ Bold.
â—‹ Spontaneous.
â—‹ Enthusiastic.
â—‹ Excessive.
â—‹ Occupied.
â—‹ Materialistic.
â—‹ Pleasure-Seeking.

8.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Dominant.
â—‹ Conning.
â—‹ Autonomous.
â—‹ Self-Confident.
â—‹ Direct.
â—‹ Powerful.
â—‹ Willful.
â—‹ Charismatic.
â—‹ Dynamic.
â—‹ Destructive.
â—‹ Insensitive.
â—‹ Exhibitionistic.
â—‹ Assertive.
â—‹ Protective.
â—‹ Honest.
â—‹ Decisive.
â—‹ Confrontational.
â—‹ Strong.
â—‹ Demonstrative.
â—‹ Aggressive.

9.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Melancholic.
â—‹ Emotional.
â—‹ Sensitive.
â—‹ Refined.
â—‹ Individualistic.
â—‹ Introspective.
â—‹ Self-Absorbed.
â—‹ Temperamental.
â—‹ Pessimistic.
â—‹ Self-Centered.
â—‹ Socially Awkward.
â—‹ Romantic.
â—‹ Negative Self-Image.
â—‹ Low Self-Esteem.
â—‹ Shy.
â—‹ Idealistic.
â—‹ Complex.
â—‹ Self-Expressive.
â—‹ Self-Indulgent.
â—‹ Fantasizing.

10.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Expressive.
â—‹ Interpersonal.
â—‹ Empowering.
â—‹ Intrusive.
â—‹ Manipulative.
â—‹ Nurturing.
â—‹ Histrionic.
â—‹ Caring.
â—‹ Helpful.
â—‹ Supportive.
â—‹ Prideful.
â—‹ Demanding.
â—‹ Empathetic.
â—‹ Selfless.
â—‹ Entitled.
â—‹ Hysterical.
â—‹ Friendly.
â—‹ Approval-Seeking.
â—‹ Needy.
â—‹ Kindhearted.

11.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Over-Adaptive.
â—‹ Resigning.
â—‹ Paradoxical.
â—‹ Habit-Bound.
â—‹ Distractible.
â—‹ Easygoing.
â—‹ Self-Effacing.
â—‹ Receptive.
â—‹ Agreeable.
â—‹ Stable.
â—‹ Complacent.
â—‹ Indomitable.
â—‹ Conciliatory.
â—‹ Submissive.
â—‹ Passive-Aggressive.
â—‹ Stubborn.
â—‹ Self-Forgetful.
â—‹ Indecisive.
â—‹ Conflict-Avoidant.
â—‹ Unclear.

12.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Alert.
â—‹ Inventive.
â—‹ Isolated.
â—‹ Contemplative.
â—‹ Private.
â—‹ Fearfully-Uncertain.
â—‹ Independent.
â—‹ Self-Motivated.
â—‹ Withholding.
â—‹ Cold.
â—‹ Insightful.
â—‹ Detached.
â—‹ Observant.
â—‹ Eccentric.
â—‹ Cynical.
â—‹ Cerebral.
â—‹ Analytical.
â—‹ Self-Sufficient.
â—‹ Hypersensitive.
â—‹ Intuitive.

13.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Success-Oriented.
â—‹ Adaptable.
â—‹ Driven.
â—‹ Image-Conscious.
â—‹ Successful.
â—‹ Paragon.
â—‹ Attention-Seeking.
â—‹ Self-Deceptive.
â—‹ Vain.
â—‹ Deceitful.
â—‹ Superficial.
â—‹ Relentless.
â—‹ Insecure.
â—‹ Self-Promoting.
â—‹ Narcissistic.
â—‹ Competitive.
â—‹ Career-Focused.
â—‹ Ambitious.
â—‹ Opportunistic.
â—‹ Motivating.

14.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Self-Criticizing.
â—‹ Critical.
â—‹ Perfectionistic.
â—‹ Controlling.
â—‹ Self-Righteous.
â—‹ Principled.
â—‹ Obsessive.
â—‹ Purist.
â—‹ Realistic.
â—‹ Ethical.
â—‹ Punitive.
â—‹ Disciplined.
â—‹ Rational.
â—‹ Dogmatic.
â—‹ Responsible.
â—‹ Reformer.
â—‹ Fixated.
â—‹ Detail-Oriented.
â—‹ Anger-Rejecting.
â—‹ Serious.

15.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Security-Oriented.
â—‹ Cautious.
â—‹ Suspicious.
â—‹ Trustworthy.
â—‹ Evasive.
â—‹ Cooperative.
â—‹ Doubtful.
â—‹ Rigid.
â—‹ Dedicated.
â—‹ Mindful.
â—‹ Anxious.
â—‹ Reliable.
â—‹ Committed.
â—‹ Defensive.
â—‹ Loyal.
â—‹ Trusting.
â—‹ Ambivalent.
â—‹ Worrying.
â—‹ Perseverant.
â—‹ Concerned.

16.) I feel that my pain cannot be understood by anyone else.
- True.
- False.

17.) My sense of self is based on my attachment to
- My self image of a successful, valuable person.
- My association/loyalty to important people/groups.
- My idealized, internal harmonious view of the world.
- None of these.

18.) I am confrontational.
- True.
- False.

19.) I avoid suffering of any kind.
- True.
- False.

20.) My emotional guard is
- Down, so I can let others in.
- Up, but sometimes I let down my guard when I feel safe.
- Up, I don't want anyone to see my vulnerable side.

21.) I wish to be truly understood.
- True.
- False.

22.) I feel frustrated with
- Things that don't live up to my standards, because I care about making things better.
- That being different doesn't get me what I seek, because I will not change who I am to be better appreciated.
- The present, because the search for what I seek is more exciting than the experience.

23.) To further avoid rejection, I
- Try to love others so much that others won't reject me.
- Cut off my emotional needs, so that my lack of emotion will shield me from further rejection.
- Expect it and give off the impression that I can handle it.

24.) I often pretend that my fears don't exist.
- True.
- False.

25.) I will do anything to hear I'm valued.
- True.
- False.

26.) I openly express my anger.
- True.
- False.

27.) I have something missing that I must find.
- True.
- False.

28.) I don't enjoy introspection, because I don't like what I find.
- True.
- False.

29.) I get angry at and criticize myself.
- True.
- False.

30.) I can relate to, "I have value in the eyes of others".
- True.
- False.

31.) When confronted with a problem, I
- Put aside my wants/feelings to remain objective and may not take the feelings of others into account.
- Can easily set aside my own feelings and will cut corners to make things more efficent.
- Tend to withdraw, since I feel I can solve things on my own.
- None of these.

32.) I avoid my anger whenever I can.
- True.
- False.

33.) I enjoy being able to do whatever I want, whenever I want.
- True.
- False.

34.) I try to keep myself distracted.
- True.
- False.

35.) I have trouble acknowledging my anger.
- True.
- False.

36.) Others notice my anger before I do.
- True.
- False.

37.) I refer to my anger as resentment.
- True.
- False.

38.) I avoid any feelings that are sad and/or painful.
- True.
- False.

39.) I feel annoyed when others don't follow the rules.
- True.
- False.

40.) I try to never show my anger.
- True.
- False.

41.) I tend to hide the fact that I'm vulnerable behind anger.
- True.
- False.

42.) I can relate to, "Why not be angry? It's only an emotion".
- True.
- False.

43.) I have a tendency to make my problems someone else's problems.
- True.
- False.

44.) I need feedback from others to know I'm valued.
- True.
- False.

45.) I feel hurt if someone doesn't give me the validation I need.
- True.
- False.

46.) I avoid the shame I feel.
- True.
- False.

47.) I feel I need to be recognized as impressive by others.
- True.
- False.

48.) I have a tendency to be overly competitive.
- True.
- False.

49.) I feel I must put on an act to earn being valued by others.
- True.
- False.

50.) I feel that others like who I pretend to be more than who I really am.
- True.
- False.

51.) I feel deficient, since I'm not like everyone else.
- True.
- False.

52.) I have problems with melancholy, self-indulgence, and self-pity.
- True.
- False.

53.) I feel that the world is terrifying and I must prepare for it.
- True.
- False.

54.) I tend to be easily overwhelmed.
- True.
- False.

55.) I detach from my emotions.
- True.
- False.

56.) I'm more comfortable dealing with thought than emotions.
- True.
- False.

57.) Becoming more knowledgeable helps me feel less empty.
- True.
- False.

58.) Being in control of my environment helps me feel secure.
- True.
- False.

59.) My fear shows itself through worry/aggressive behavior.
- True.
- False.

60.) I am suspicious of the unknown.
- True.
- False.

61.) I feel that I cannot trust myself, nor the outside world.
- True.
- False.

62.) I choose to adapt in order to
- Be closer to the expectations/values of others, so I can receive validation.
- Be consistent with the beliefs of a figure or system, so I can gain security.
- Get along well with others, so I can attain harmony.
- None of these.

63.) My sense of self is based on my search for the ideal
- Autonomy; Perfection and self control.
- Attention; Someone who completely understands and appreciates me.
- Security and contentment; What awaits.
- None of these.

64.) My gift that I can offer to prevent rejection is
- My heart; I focus on the needs of others and help them however I can.
- My intelligence; I offer my expertise in hopes that it will be appreciated.
- My strength and will; I offer my power and know I can be depended on for leadership and strength.
- None of these.

65.) I get into conflicts by being
- Overly moody, temperamental and self-absorbed.
- Too pessimistic, suspicious and doubtful.
- Too willful, defiant and confrontational.
- None of these.

66.) I get into conflicts by being
- Too clingy, worried and self-important.
- Impatient, irresponsible and excessive.
- Too complacent, inattentive and stubborn.
- None of these.

67.) I get into conflicts by being
- Too impatient, rigid and critical.
- Too competitive, insincere and boastful.
- Too detached, isolated and provocative.
- None of these.

68.) In terms of needs, I tend to
- Reject my own in favor of the needs of others.
- Reject the needs of others in favor for my own.
- Try to balance the needs of others with my own.

69.) I am non-confrontational.
- True.
- False.

70.) I don't like to acknowledge that I get angry.
- True.
- False.

71.) I have a tendency to be passive-aggressive.
- True.
- False.

72.) I express my anger to get what I want.
- True.
- False.

What type am I?

 

[Hyperlallx]

1.) Select all of your fears.
- The fear of deprivation and pain.
- The fear of lacking a unique, significant identity.
- The fear of being evil or corrupt.
- The fear of being harmed or controlled by others.
- The fear of being unloved or unwanted by others.
- The fear of loss and separation from others.
- The fear of being unaccomplished and worthless.
- The fear of being helpless and inadequate.
- The fear of being without support or guidance.

2) Choose your three worst tendencies.
- Becoming frustrated with others because of their faults.
- Conserving everything for yourself.
- Showcasing your successes and failing to admit you have faults.
- Becoming anxious about things that might happen.
- Never being satisfied, constantly wanting to experience more.
- Wanting to acquire what other people have.
- Thinking that others can't help themselves as much as you can.
- Constantly expressing anger.
- Not taking action.

3.) How do you express anger?
- Externalized anger: Openly displayed anger.
- Repressed anger: Avoidance of showing anger openly, but it sometimes manifests as passive-aggressiveness.
- Internalized anger: Harshly criticizing one's self. May also appear as judgmental tendencies.

4.) How do you express shame?
- Externalized shame: Openly displays shame. May manifest as constantly needing approval or positive feedback.
- Repressed shame: Avoidance of shame. May manifest as trying to prove yourself to avoid the shame that you feel.
- Internalized shame: Keeping shame to yourself. May manifest as failure to believe anyone can understand your pain.

5.) How do you express fear?
- Externalized fear: Expresses fear openly by displaying paranoia through hoarding, information, possessions, as well as detachment.
- Repressed fear: Avoidance of showing fear. May manifest as surrounding yourself with safety/security and suspiciousness of the unknown.
- Internalized fear: Keeping fear to yourself. May manifest as engaging in fun activities to avoid facing the fear contained within.

6.) Select all sets of traits that are somewhat like you.
- Strong Willed, Decisive, Tough Minded, Domineering, Controlling, Aggressive.
- Analytical, Knowledgeable, Observant, Detached, Isolated, Nihilistic.
- Unique, Emotional, Creative, Self-Absorbed, Self-Deprecating, Self Conscious.
- Easygoing, Trusting, Conciliatory, Self-Effacing, Escapist, Passive Aggressive.
- Empathetic, Altruistic, Sentimental, People-Pleasing, Manipulative, Victimizing.
- Ambitious, Energetic, Self-Assured, Scheming, Narcissistic, Monomaniacal.
- Loyal, Practical, Trustworthy, Fearful, Distrustful, Defensive.
- Moralistic, Perfectionistic, Self-Disciplined, Self-Righteous, Critical, Obsessive.
- Future Oriented, Extraverted, Open Minded, Compulsive, Reluctant, Arrogant.

7.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Optimistic.
â—‹ Escapist.
â—‹ Adventurous.
â—‹ Extrospective.
â—‹ Compulsive.
â—‹ Hasty.
â—‹ Futuristic.
â—‹ Versatile.
â—‹ Exuberant.
â—‹ Curious.
â—‹ Experiential.
â—‹ Vivacious.
â—‹ Entertaining.
â—‹ Bold.
â—‹ Spontaneous.
â—‹ Enthusiastic.
â—‹ Excessive.
â—‹ Occupied.
â—‹ Materialistic.
â—‹ Pleasure-Seeking.

8.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Dominant.
â—‹ Conning.
â—‹ Autonomous.
â—‹ Self-Confident.
â—‹ Direct.
â—‹ Powerful.
â—‹ Willful.
â—‹ Charismatic.
â—‹ Dynamic.
â—‹ Destructive.
â—‹ Insensitive.
â—‹ Exhibitionistic.
â—‹ Assertive.
â—‹ Protective.
â—‹ Honest.
â—‹ Decisive.
â—‹ Confrontational.
â—‹ Strong.
â—‹ Demonstrative.
â—‹ Aggressive.

9.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Melancholic.
â—‹ Emotional.
â—‹ Sensitive.
â—‹ Refined.
â—‹ Individualistic.
â—‹ Introspective.
â—‹ Self-Absorbed.
â—‹ Temperamental.
â—‹ Pessimistic.
â—‹ Self-Centered.
â—‹ Socially Awkward.
â—‹ Romantic.
â—‹ Negative Self-Image.
â—‹ Low Self-Esteem.
â—‹ Shy.
â—‹ Idealistic.
â—‹ Complex.
â—‹ Self-Expressive.
â—‹ Self-Indulgent.
â—‹ Fantasizing.

10.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Expressive.
â—‹ Interpersonal.
â—‹ Empowering.
â—‹ Intrusive.
â—‹ Manipulative.
â—‹ Nurturing.
â—‹ Histrionic.
â—‹ Caring.
â—‹ Helpful.
â—‹ Supportive.
â—‹ Prideful.
â—‹ Demanding.
â—‹ Empathetic.
â—‹ Selfless.
â—‹ Entitled.
â—‹ Hysterical.
â—‹ Friendly.
â—‹ Approval-Seeking.
â—‹ Needy.
â—‹ Kindhearted.

11.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Over-Adaptive.
â—‹ Resigning.
â—‹ Paradoxical.
â—‹ Habit-Bound.
â—‹ Distractible.
â—‹ Easygoing.
â—‹ Self-Effacing.
â—‹ Receptive.
â—‹ Agreeable.
â—‹ Stable.
â—‹ Complacent.
â—‹ Indomitable.
â—‹ Conciliatory.
â—‹ Submissive.
â—‹ Passive-Aggressive.
â—‹ Stubborn.
â—‹ Self-Forgetful.
â—‹ Indecisive.
â—‹ Conflict-Avoidant.
â—‹ Unclear.

12.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Alert.
â—‹ Inventive.
â—‹ Isolated.
â—‹ Contemplative.
â—‹ Private.
â—‹ Fearfully-Uncertain.
â—‹ Independent.
â—‹ Self-Motivated.
â—‹ Withholding.
â—‹ Cold.
â—‹ Insightful.
â—‹ Detached.
â—‹ Observant.
â—‹ Eccentric.
â—‹ Cynical.
â—‹ Cerebral.
â—‹ Analytical.
â—‹ Self-Sufficient.
â—‹ Hypersensitive.
â—‹ Intuitive.

13.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Success-Oriented.
â—‹ Adaptable.
â—‹ Driven.
â—‹ Image-Conscious.
â—‹ Successful.
â—‹ Paragon.
â—‹ Attention-Seeking.
â—‹ Self-Deceptive.
â—‹ Vain.
â—‹ Deceitful.
â—‹ Superficial.
â—‹ Relentless.
â—‹ Insecure.
â—‹ Self-Promoting.
â—‹ Narcissistic.
â—‹ Competitive.
â—‹ Career-Focused.
â—‹ Ambitious.
â—‹ Opportunistic.
â—‹ Motivating.

14.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Self-Criticizing.
â—‹ Critical.
â—‹ Perfectionistic.
â—‹ Controlling.
â—‹ Self-Righteous.
â—‹ Principled.
â—‹ Obsessive.
â—‹ Purist.
â—‹ Realistic.
â—‹ Ethical.
â—‹ Punitive.
â—‹ Disciplined.
â—‹ Rational.
â—‹ Dogmatic.
â—‹ Responsible.
â—‹ Reformer.
â—‹ Fixated.
â—‹ Detail-Oriented.
â—‹ Anger-Rejecting.
â—‹ Serious.

15.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Security-Oriented.
â—‹ Cautious.
â—‹ Suspicious.
â—‹ Trustworthy.
â—‹ Evasive.
â—‹ Cooperative.
â—‹ Doubtful.
â—‹ Rigid.
â—‹ Dedicated.
â—‹ Mindful.
â—‹ Anxious.
â—‹ Reliable.
â—‹ Committed.
â—‹ Defensive.
â—‹ Loyal.
â—‹ Trusting.
â—‹ Ambivalent.
â—‹ Worrying.
â—‹ Perseverant.
â—‹ Concerned.

16.) I feel that my pain cannot be understood by anyone else.
- True.
- False.

17.) My sense of self is based on my attachment to
- My self image of a successful, valuable person.
- My association/loyalty to important people/groups.
- My idealized, internal harmonious view of the world.
- None of these.

18.) I am confrontational.
- True.
- False.

19.) I avoid suffering of any kind.
- True.
- False.

20.) My emotional guard is
- Down, so I can let others in.
- Up, but sometimes I let down my guard when I feel safe.
- Up, I don't want anyone to see my vulnerable side.

21.) I wish to be truly understood.
- True.
- False.

22.) I feel frustrated with
- Things that don't live up to my standards, because I care about making things better.
- That being different doesn't get me what I seek, because I will not change who I am to be better appreciated.
- The present, because the search for what I seek is more exciting than the experience.

23.) To further avoid rejection, I
- Try to love others so much that others won't reject me.
- Cut off my emotional needs, so that my lack of emotion will shield me from further rejection.
- Expect it and give off the impression that I can handle it.

24.) I often pretend that my fears don't exist.
- True.
- False.

25.) I will do anything to hear I'm valued.
- True.
- False.

26.) I openly express my anger.
- True.
- False.

27.) I have something missing that I must find.
- True.
- False.

28.) I don't enjoy introspection, because I don't like what I find.
- True.
- False.

29.) I get angry at and criticize myself.
- True.
- False.

30.) I can relate to, "I have value in the eyes of others".
- True.
- False.

31.) When confronted with a problem, I
- Put aside my wants/feelings to remain objective and may not take the feelings of others into account.
- Can easily set aside my own feelings and will cut corners to make things more efficent.
- Tend to withdraw, since I feel I can solve things on my own.
- None of these.

32.) I avoid my anger whenever I can.
- True.
- False.

33.) I enjoy being able to do whatever I want, whenever I want.
- True.
- False.

34.) I try to keep myself distracted.
- True.
- False.

35.) I have trouble acknowledging my anger.
- True.
- False.

36.) Others notice my anger before I do.
- True.
- False.

37.) I refer to my anger as resentment.
- True.
- False.

38.) I avoid any feelings that are sad and/or painful.
- True.
- False.

39.) I feel annoyed when others don't follow the rules.
- True.
- False.

40.) I try to never show my anger.
- True.
- False.

41.) I tend to hide the fact that I'm vulnerable behind anger.
- True.
- False.

42.) I can relate to, "Why not be angry? It's only an emotion".
- True.
- False.

43.) I have a tendency to make my problems someone else's problems.
- True.
- False.

44.) I need feedback from others to know I'm valued.
- True.
- False.

45.) I feel hurt if someone doesn't give me the validation I need.
- True.
- False.

46.) I avoid the shame I feel.
- True.
- False.

47.) I feel I need to be recognized as impressive by others.
- True.
- False.

48.) I have a tendency to be overly competitive.
- True.
- False.

49.) I feel I must put on an act to earn being valued by others.
- True.
- False.

50.) I feel that others like who I pretend to be more than who I really am.
- True.
- False.

51.) I feel deficient, since I'm not like everyone else.
- True.
- False.

52.) I have problems with melancholy, self-indulgence, and self-pity.
- True.
- False.

53.) I feel that the world is terrifying and I must prepare for it.
- True.
- False.

54.) I tend to be easily overwhelmed.
- True.
- False.

55.) I detach from my emotions.
- True.
- False.

56.) I'm more comfortable dealing with thought than emotions.
- True.
- False.

57.) Becoming more knowledgeable helps me feel less empty.
- True.
- False.

58.) Being in control of my environment helps me feel secure.
- True.
- False.

59.) My fear shows itself through worry/aggressive behavior.
- True.
- False.

60.) I am suspicious of the unknown.
- True.
- False.

61.) I feel that I cannot trust myself, nor the outside world.
- True.
- False.

62.) I choose to adapt in order to
- Be closer to the expectations/values of others, so I can receive validation.
- Be consistent with the beliefs of a figure or system, so I can gain security.
- Get along well with others, so I can attain harmony.
- None of these.

63.) My sense of self is based on my search for the ideal
- Autonomy; Perfection and self control.
- Attention; Someone who completely understands and appreciates me.
- Security and contentment; What awaits.
- None of these.

64.) My gift that I can offer to prevent rejection is
- My heart; I focus on the needs of others and help them however I can.
- My intelligence; I offer my expertise in hopes that it will be appreciated.
- My strength and will; I offer my power and know I can be depended on for leadership and strength.
- None of these.

65.) I get into conflicts by being
- Overly moody, temperamental and self-absorbed.
- Too pessimistic, suspicious and doubtful.
- Too willful, defiant and confrontational.
- None of these.

66.) I get into conflicts by being
- Too clingy, worried and self-important.
- Impatient, irresponsible and excessive.
- Too complacent, inattentive and stubborn.
- None of these.

67.) I get into conflicts by being
- Too impatient, rigid and critical.
- Too competitive, insincere and boastful.
- Too detached, isolated and provocative.
- None of these.

68.) In terms of needs, I tend to
- Reject my own in favor of the needs of others.
- Reject the needs of others in favor for my own.
- Try to balance the needs of others with my own.

69.) I am non-confrontational.
- True.
- False.

70.) I don't like to acknowledge that I get angry.
- True.
- False.

71.) I have a tendency to be passive-aggressive.
- True.
- False.

72.) I express my anger to get what I want.
- True.
- False.

May have read a bit between the lines, lol.

 

[Oifan379]

Enneagram Tritype Test. Thoughts/opinions? ***Considering that the test gives a result in the form of the general archetype, if you would like to instead receive your result in the form of the specific tritype with wings included that your result correlates to, let me know and I will send you a copy of the test that you can fill out.*** ***If you cannot access the test, for whatever reason, (There seem to be some glitches occurring) the contents of the test are listed below. Feel free to reply back to this with your answers bolded and I will inform you of your result. My apologies for the inconvenience.*** 1.) Select all of your fears. - The fear of deprivation and pain. - The fear of lacking a unique, significant identity. - The fear of being evil or corrupt. - The fear of being harmed or controlled by others. - The fear of being unloved or unwanted by others. - The fear of loss and separation from others. - The fear of being unaccomplished and worthless. - The fear of being helpless and inadequate. - The fear of being without support or guidance. 2) Choose your three worst tendencies. - Becoming frustrated with others because of their faults. - Conserving everything for yourself. - Showcasing your successes and failing to admit you have faults. - Becoming anxious about things that might happen. - Never being satisfied, constantly wanting to experience more. - Wanting to acquire what other people have. - Thinking that others can't help themselves as much as you can. - Constantly expressing anger. - Not taking action. 3.) How do you express anger? - Externalized anger: Openly displayed anger. - Repressed anger: Avoidance of showing anger openly, but it sometimes manifests as passive-aggressiveness. - Internalized anger: Harshly criticizing one's self. May also appear as judgmental tendencies. 4.) How do you express shame? - Externalized shame: Openly displays shame. May manifest as constantly needing approval or positive feedback. - Repressed shame: Avoidance of shame. May manifest as trying to prove yourself to avoid the shame that you feel. - Internalized shame: Keeping shame to yourself. May manifest as failure to believe anyone can understand your pain. 5.) How do you express fear? - Externalized fear: Expresses fear openly by displaying paranoia through hoarding, Information, possessions) as well as detachment. - Repressed fear: Avoidance of showing fear. May manifest as surrounding yourself with safety/security and suspiciousness of the unknown. - Internalized fear: Keeping fear to yourself. May manifest as engaging in fun activities to avoid facing the fear contained within. 6.) Select all sets of traits that are somewhat like you. - Strong Willed, Decisive, Tough Minded, Domineering, Controlling, Aggressive. - Analytical, Knowledgeable, Observant, Detached, Isolated, Nihilistic. - Unique, Emotional, Creative, Self-Absorbed, Self-Deprecating, Self Conscious. - Easygoing, Trusting, Conciliatory, Self-Effacing, Escapist, Passive Aggressive. - Empathetic, Altruistic, Sentimental, People-Pleasing, Manipulative, Victimizing. - Ambitious,Energetic, Self-Assured, Scheming, Narcissistic, Monomaniacal. - Loyal, Practical, Trustworthy, Fearful, Distrustful, Defensive. - Moralistic, Perfectionistic, Self-Disciplined, Self-Righteous, Critical, Obsessive. - Future Oriented, Extroverted, Open Minded, Compulsive, Reluctant, Arrogant. 7.) Select all traits that apply to who you are. â—‹ Optimistic. â—‹ Escapist. â—‹ Adventurous. â—‹ Extrospective. â—‹ Compulsive. â—‹ Hasty. â—‹ Futuristic. â—‹ Versatile. â—‹ Exuberant. â—‹ Curious. â—‹ Experiential. â—‹ Vivacious. â—‹ Entertaining. â—‹ Bold. â—‹ Spontaneous. â—‹ Enthusiastic. â—‹ Excessive. â—‹ Occupied. â—‹ Materialistic. â—‹ Pleasure-Seeking. 8.) Select all traits that apply to who you are. â—‹ Dominant. â—‹ Conning. â—‹ Autonomous. â—‹ Self-Confident. â—‹ Direct. â—‹ Powerful. â—‹ Willful. â—‹ Charismatic. â—‹ Dynamic. â—‹ Destructive. â—‹ Insensitive. â—‹ Exhibitionistic. â—‹ Assertive. â—‹ Protective. â—‹ Honest. â—‹ Decisive. â—‹ Confrontational. â—‹ Strong. â—‹ Demonstrative. â—‹ Aggressive. 9.) Select all traits that apply to who you are. â—‹ Melancholic. â—‹ Emotional. â—‹ Sensitive. â—‹ Refined. â—‹ Individualistic. â—‹ Introspective. â—‹ Self-Absorbed. â—‹ Temperamental. â—‹ Pessimistic. â—‹ Self-Centered. â—‹ Socially Awkward. â—‹ Romantic. â—‹ Negative Self-Image. â—‹ Low Self-Esteem. â—‹ Shy. â—‹ Idealistic. â—‹ Complex. â—‹ Self-Expressive. â—‹ Self-Indulgent. â—‹ Fantasizing. 10.) Select all traits that apply to who you are. â—‹ Expressive. â—‹ Interpersonal. â—‹ Empowering. â—‹ Intrusive. â—‹ Manipulative. â—‹ Nurturing. â—‹ Histrionic. â—‹ Caring. â—‹ Helpful. â—‹ Supportive. â—‹ Prideful. â—‹ Demanding. â—‹ Empathetic. â—‹ Selfless. â—‹ Entitled. â—‹ Hysterical. â—‹ Friendly. â—‹ Approval-Seeking. â—‹ Needy. â—‹ Kindhearted. 11.) Select all traits that apply to who you are. â—‹ Over-Adaptive. â—‹ Resigning. â—‹ Paradoxical. â—‹ Habit-Bound. â—‹ Distractible. â—‹ Easygoing. â—‹ Self-Effacing. â—‹ Receptive. â—‹ Agreeable. â—‹ Stable. â—‹ Complacent. â—‹ Indomitable. â—‹ Conciliatory. â—‹ Submissive. â—‹ Passive-Aggressive. â—‹ Stubborn. â—‹ Self-Forgetful. â—‹ Indecisive. â—‹ Conflict-Avoidant. â—‹ Unclear. 12.) Select all traits that apply to who you are. â—‹ Alert. â—‹ Inventive. â—‹ Isolated. â—‹ Contemplative. â—‹ Private. â—‹ Fearfully-Uncertain. â—‹ Independent. â—‹ Self-Motivated. â—‹ Withholding. â—‹ Cold. â—‹ Insightful. â—‹ Detached. â—‹ Observant. â—‹ Eccentric. â—‹ Cynical. â—‹ Cerebral. â—‹ Analytical. â—‹ Self-Sufficient. â—‹ Hypersensitive. â—‹ Intuitive. 13.) Select all traits that apply to who you are. â—‹ Success-Oriented. â—‹ Adaptable. â—‹ Driven. â—‹ Image-Conscious. â—‹ Successful. â—‹ Paragon. â—‹ Attention-Seeking. â—‹ Self-Deceptive. â—‹ Vain. â—‹ Deceitful. â—‹ Superficial. â—‹ Relentless. â—‹ Insecure. â—‹ Self-Promoting. â—‹ Narcissistic. â—‹ Competitive. â—‹ Career-Focused. â—‹ Ambitious. â—‹ Opportunistic. â—‹ Motivating. 14.) Select all traits that apply to who you are. â—‹ Self-Criticizing. â—‹ Critical. â—‹ Perfectionistic. â—‹ Controlling. â—‹ Self-Righteous. â—‹ Principled. â—‹ Obsessive. â—‹ Purist. â—‹ Realistic. â—‹ Ethical. â—‹ Punitive. â—‹ Disciplined. â—‹ Rational. â—‹ Dogmatic. â—‹ Responsible. â—‹ Reformer. â—‹ Fixated. â—‹ Detail-Oriented. â—‹ Anger-Rejecting. â—‹ Serious. 15.) Select all traits that apply to who you are. â—‹ Security-Oriented. â—‹ Cautious. â—‹ Suspicious. â—‹ Trustworthy. â—‹ Evasive. â—‹ Cooperative. â—‹ Doubtful. â—‹ Rigid. â—‹ Dedicated. â—‹ Mindful. â—‹ Anxious. â—‹ Reliable. â—‹ Committed. â—‹ Defensive. â—‹ Loyal. â—‹ Trusting. â—‹ Ambivalent. â—‹ Worrying. â—‹ Perseverant. â—‹ Concerned. 16.) I feel that my pain cannot be understood by anyone else. - True. - False. 17.) My sense of self is based on my attachment to - My self image of a successful, valuable person. - My association/loyalty to important people/groups. - My idealized, internal harmonious view of the world. - None of these. 18.) I am confrontational. - True. - False. 19.) I avoid suffering of any kind. - True. - False. 20.) My emotional guard is - Down, so I can let others in. - Up, but sometimes I let down my guard when I feel safe. - Up, I don't want anyone to see my vulnerable side. 21.) I wish to be truly understood. - True. - False. 22.) I feel frustrated with - Things that don't live up to my standards, because I care about making things better. - That being different doesn't get me what I seek, because I will not change who I am to be better appreciated. - The present, because the search for what I seek is more exciting than the experience. 23.) To further avoid rejection, I - Try to love others so much that others won't reject me. - Cut off my emotional needs, so that my lack of emotion will shield me from further rejection. - Expect it and give off the impression that I can handle it. 24.) I often pretend that my fears don't exist. - True. - False. 25.) I will do anything to hear I'm valued. - True. - False. 26.) I openly express my anger. - True. - False. 27.) I have something missing that I must find. - True. - False. 28.) I don't enjoy introspection, because I don't like what I find. - True. - False. 29.) I get angry at and criticize myself. - True. - False. 30.) I can relate to, "I have value in the eyes of others". - True. - False. 31.) When confronted with a problem, I - Put aside my wants/feelings to remain objective and may not take the feelings of others into account. - Can easily set aside my own feelings and will cut corners to make things more efficent. - Tend to withdraw, since I feel I can solve things on my own. - None of these. 32.) I avoid my anger whenever I can. - True. - False. 33.) I enjoy being able to do whatever I want, whenever I want. - True. - False. 34.) I try to keep myself distracted. - True. - False. 35.) I have trouble acknowledging my anger. - True. - False. 36.) Others notice my anger before I do. - True. - False. 37.) I refer to my anger as resentment. - True. - False. 38.) I avoid any feelings that are sad and/or painful. - True. - False. 39.) I feel annoyed when others don't follow the rules. - True. - False. 40.) I try to never show my anger. - True. - False. 41.) I tend to hide the fact that I'm vulnerable behind anger. - True. - False. 42.) I can relate to, "Why not be angry? It's only an emotion". - True. - False. 43.) I have a tendency to make my problems someone else's problems. - True. - False. 44.) I need feedback from others to know I'm valued. - True. - False. 45.) I feel hurt if someone doesn't give me the validation I need. - True. - False. 46.) I avoid the shame I feel. - True. - False. 47.) I feel I need to be recognized as impressive by others. - True. - False. 48.) I have a tendency to be overly competitive. - True. - False. 49.) I feel I must put on an act to earn being valued by others. - True. - False. 50.) I feel that others like who I pretend to be more than who I really am. - True. - False. 51.) I feel deficient, since I'm not like everyone else. - True. - False. 52.) I have problems with melancholy, self-indulgence, and self-pity. - True. - False. 53.) I feel that the world is terrifying and I must prepare for it. - True. - False. 54.) I tend to be easily overwhelmed. - True. - False. 55.) I detach from my emotions. - True. - False. 56.) I'm more comfortable dealing with thought than emotions. - True. - False. 57.) Becoming more knowledgeable helps me feel less empty. - True. - False. 58.) Being in control of my environment helps me feel secure. - True. - False. 59.) My fear shows itself through worry/aggressive behavior. - True. - False. 60.) I am suspicious of the unknown. - True. - False. 61.) I feel that I cannot trust myself, nor the outside world. - True. - False. 62.) I choose to adapt in order to - Be closer to the expectations/values of others, so I can receive validation. - Be consistent with the beliefs of a figure or system, so I can gain security. - Get along well with others, so I can attain harmony. - None of these. 63.) My sense of self is based on my search for the ideal - Autonomy; Perfection and self control. - Attention; Someone who completely understands and appreciates me. - Security and contentment; What awaits. - None of these. 64.) My gift that I can offer to prevent rejection is - My heart; I focus on the needs of others and help them however I can. - My intelligence; I offer my expertise in hopes that it will be appreciated. - My strength and will; I offer my power and know I can be depended on for leadership and strength. - None of these. 65.) I get into conflicts by being - Overly moody, temperamental and self-absorbed. - Too pessimistic, suspicious and doubtful. - Too willful, defiant and confrontational. - None of these. 66.) I get into conflicts by being - Too clingy, worried and self-important. - Impatient, irresponsible and excessive. - Too complacent, inattentive and stubborn. - None of these. 67.) I get into conflicts by being - Too impatient, rigid and critical. - Too competitive, insincere and boastful. - Too detached, isolated and provocative. - None of these. 68.) In terms of needs, I tend to - Reject my own in favor of the needs of others. - Reject the needs of others in favor for my own. - Try to balance the needs of others with my own. 69.) I am non-confrontational. - True. - False. 70.) I don't like to acknowledge that I get angry. - True. - False. 71.) I have a tendency to be passive-aggressive. - True. - False. 72.) I express my anger to get what I want. - True. - False.

I hope you try and fix the test....I've tried twice and either had to look up what something meant or the highlight feature wouldn't work. Truly awful experience

Enneagram Tritype Test. Thoughts/opinions? ***Considering that the test gives a result in the form of the general archetype, if you would like to instead receive your result in the form of the specific tritype with wings included that your result correlates to, let me know and I will send you a copy of the test that you can fill out.*** ***If you cannot access the test, for whatever reason, (There seem to be some glitches occurring) the contents of the test are listed below. Feel free to reply back to this with your answers bolded and I will inform you of your result. My apologies for the inconvenience.*** 1.) Select all of your fears. - The fear of deprivation and pain. - The fear of lacking a unique, significant identity. - The fear of being evil or corrupt. - The fear of being harmed or controlled by others. - The fear of being unloved or unwanted by others. - The fear of loss and separation from others. - The fear of being unaccomplished and worthless. - The fear of being helpless and inadequate. - The fear of being without support or guidance. 2) Choose your three worst tendencies. - Becoming frustrated with others because of their faults. - Conserving everything for yourself. - Showcasing your successes and failing to admit you have faults. - Becoming anxious about things that might happen. - Never being satisfied, constantly wanting to experience more. - Wanting to acquire what other people have. - Thinking that others can't help themselves as much as you can. - Constantly expressing anger. - Not taking action. 3.) How do you express anger? - Externalized anger: Openly displayed anger. - Repressed anger: Avoidance of showing anger openly, but it sometimes manifests as passive-aggressiveness. - Internalized anger: Harshly criticizing one's self. May also appear as judgmental tendencies. 4.) How do you express shame? - Externalized shame: Openly displays shame. May manifest as constantly needing approval or positive feedback. - Repressed shame: Avoidance of shame. May manifest as trying to prove yourself to avoid the shame that you feel. - Internalized shame: Keeping shame to yourself. May manifest as failure to believe anyone can understand your pain. 5.) How do you express fear? - Externalized fear: Expresses fear openly by displaying paranoia through hoarding, Information, possessions) as well as detachment. - Repressed fear: Avoidance of showing fear. May manifest as surrounding yourself with safety/security and suspiciousness of the unknown. - Internalized fear: Keeping fear to yourself. May manifest as engaging in fun activities to avoid facing the fear contained within. 6.) Select all sets of traits that are somewhat like you. - Strong Willed, Decisive, Tough Minded, Domineering, Controlling, Aggressive. - Analytical, Knowledgeable, Observant, Detached, Isolated, Nihilistic. - Unique, Emotional, Creative, Self-Absorbed, Self-Deprecating, Self Conscious. - Easygoing, Trusting, Conciliatory, Self-Effacing, Escapist, Passive Aggressive. - Empathetic, Altruistic, Sentimental, People-Pleasing, Manipulative, Victimizing. - Ambitious,Energetic, Self-Assured, Scheming, Narcissistic, Monomaniacal. - Loyal, Practical, Trustworthy, Fearful, Distrustful, Defensive. - Moralistic, Perfectionistic, Self-Disciplined, Self-Righteous, Critical, Obsessive. - Future Oriented, Extroverted, Open Minded, Compulsive, Reluctant, Arrogant. 7.) Select all traits that apply to who you are. â—‹ Optimistic. â—‹ Escapist. â—‹ Adventurous. â—‹ Extrospective. â—‹ Compulsive. â—‹ Hasty. â—‹ Futuristic. â—‹ Versatile. â—‹ Exuberant. â—‹ Curious. â—‹ Experiential. â—‹ Vivacious. â—‹ Entertaining. â—‹ Bold. â—‹ Spontaneous. â—‹ Enthusiastic. â—‹ Excessive. â—‹ Occupied. â—‹ Materialistic. â—‹ Pleasure-Seeking. 8.) Select all traits that apply to who you are. â—‹ Dominant. â—‹ Conning. â—‹ Autonomous. â—‹ Self-Confident. â—‹ Direct. â—‹ Powerful. â—‹ Willful. â—‹ Charismatic. â—‹ Dynamic. â—‹ Destructive. â—‹ Insensitive. â—‹ Exhibitionistic. â—‹ Assertive. â—‹ Protective. â—‹ Honest. â—‹ Decisive. â—‹ Confrontational. â—‹ Strong. â—‹ Demonstrative. â—‹ Aggressive. 9.) Select all traits that apply to who you are. â—‹ Melancholic. â—‹ Emotional. â—‹ Sensitive. â—‹ Refined. â—‹ Individualistic. â—‹ Introspective. â—‹ Self-Absorbed. â—‹ Temperamental. â—‹ Pessimistic. â—‹ Self-Centered. â—‹ Socially Awkward. â—‹ Romantic. â—‹ Negative Self-Image. â—‹ Low Self-Esteem. â—‹ Shy. â—‹ Idealistic. â—‹ Complex. â—‹ Self-Expressive. â—‹ Self-Indulgent. â—‹ Fantasizing. 10.) Select all traits that apply to who you are. â—‹ Expressive. â—‹ Interpersonal. â—‹ Empowering. â—‹ Intrusive. â—‹ Manipulative. â—‹ Nurturing. â—‹ Histrionic. â—‹ Caring. â—‹ Helpful. â—‹ Supportive. â—‹ Prideful. â—‹ Demanding. â—‹ Empathetic. â—‹ Selfless. â—‹ Entitled. â—‹ Hysterical. â—‹ Friendly. â—‹ Approval-Seeking. â—‹ Needy. â—‹ Kindhearted. 11.) Select all traits that apply to who you are. â—‹ Over-Adaptive. â—‹ Resigning. â—‹ Paradoxical. â—‹ Habit-Bound. â—‹ Distractible. â—‹ Easygoing. â—‹ Self-Effacing. â—‹ Receptive. â—‹ Agreeable. â—‹ Stable. â—‹ Complacent. â—‹ Indomitable. â—‹ Conciliatory. â—‹ Submissive. â—‹ Passive-Aggressive. â—‹ Stubborn. â—‹ Self-Forgetful. â—‹ Indecisive. â—‹ Conflict-Avoidant. â—‹ Unclear. 12.) Select all traits that apply to who you are. â—‹ Alert. â—‹ Inventive. â—‹ Isolated. â—‹ Contemplative. â—‹ Private. â—‹ Fearfully-Uncertain. â—‹ Independent. â—‹ Self-Motivated. â—‹ Withholding. â—‹ Cold. â—‹ Insightful. â—‹ Detached. â—‹ Observant. â—‹ Eccentric. â—‹ Cynical. â—‹ Cerebral. â—‹ Analytical. â—‹ Self-Sufficient. â—‹ Hypersensitive. â—‹ Intuitive. 13.) Select all traits that apply to who you are. â—‹ Success-Oriented. â—‹ Adaptable. â—‹ Driven. â—‹ Image-Conscious. â—‹ Successful. â—‹ Paragon. â—‹ Attention-Seeking. â—‹ Self-Deceptive. â—‹ Vain. â—‹ Deceitful. â—‹ Superficial. â—‹ Relentless. â—‹ Insecure. â—‹ Self-Promoting. â—‹ Narcissistic. â—‹ Competitive. â—‹ Career-Focused. â—‹ Ambitious. â—‹ Opportunistic. â—‹ Motivating. 14.) Select all traits that apply to who you are. â—‹ Self-Criticizing. â—‹ Critical. â—‹ Perfectionistic. â—‹ Controlling. â—‹ Self-Righteous. â—‹ Principled. â—‹ Obsessive. â—‹ Purist. â—‹ Realistic. â—‹ Ethical. â—‹ Punitive. â—‹ Disciplined. â—‹ Rational. â—‹ Dogmatic. â—‹ Responsible. â—‹ Reformer. â—‹ Fixated. â—‹ Detail-Oriented. â—‹ Anger-Rejecting. â—‹ Serious. 15.) Select all traits that apply to who you are. â—‹ Security-Oriented. â—‹ Cautious. â—‹ Suspicious. â—‹ Trustworthy. â—‹ Evasive. â—‹ Cooperative. â—‹ Doubtful. â—‹ Rigid. â—‹ Dedicated. â—‹ Mindful. â—‹ Anxious. â—‹ Reliable. â—‹ Committed. â—‹ Defensive. â—‹ Loyal. â—‹ Trusting. â—‹ Ambivalent. â—‹ Worrying. â—‹ Perseverant. â—‹ Concerned. 16.) I feel that my pain cannot be understood by anyone else. - True. - False. 17.) My sense of self is based on my attachment to - My self image of a successful, valuable person. - My association/loyalty to important people/groups. - My idealized, internal harmonious view of the world. - None of these. 18.) I am confrontational. - True. - False. 19.) I avoid suffering of any kind. - True. - False. 20.) My emotional guard is - Down, so I can let others in. - Up, but sometimes I let down my guard when I feel safe. - Up, I don't want anyone to see my vulnerable side. 21.) I wish to be truly understood. - True. - False. 22.) I feel frustrated with - Things that don't live up to my standards, because I care about making things better. - That being different doesn't get me what I seek, because I will not change who I am to be better appreciated. - The present, because the search for what I seek is more exciting than the experience. 23.) To further avoid rejection, I - Try to love others so much that others won't reject me. - Cut off my emotional needs, so that my lack of emotion will shield me from further rejection. - Expect it and give off the impression that I can handle it. 24.) I often pretend that my fears don't exist. - True. - False. 25.) I will do anything to hear I'm valued. - True. - False. 26.) I openly express my anger. - True. - False. 27.) I have something missing that I must find. - True. - False. 28.) I don't enjoy introspection, because I don't like what I find. - True. - False. 29.) I get angry at and criticize myself. - True. - False. 30.) I can relate to, "I have value in the eyes of others". - True. - False. 31.) When confronted with a problem, I - Put aside my wants/feelings to remain objective and may not take the feelings of others into account. - Can easily set aside my own feelings and will cut corners to make things more efficent. - Tend to withdraw, since I feel I can solve things on my own. - None of these. 32.) I avoid my anger whenever I can. - True. - False. 33.) I enjoy being able to do whatever I want, whenever I want. - True. - False. 34.) I try to keep myself distracted. - True. - False. 35.) I have trouble acknowledging my anger. - True. - False. 36.) Others notice my anger before I do. - True. - False. 37.) I refer to my anger as resentment. - True. - False. 38.) I avoid any feelings that are sad and/or painful. - True. - False. 39.) I feel annoyed when others don't follow the rules. - True. - False. 40.) I try to never show my anger. - True. - False. 41.) I tend to hide the fact that I'm vulnerable behind anger. - True. - False. 42.) I can relate to, "Why not be angry? It's only an emotion". - True. - False. 43.) I have a tendency to make my problems someone else's problems. - True. - False. 44.) I need feedback from others to know I'm valued. - True. - False. 45.) I feel hurt if someone doesn't give me the validation I need. - True. - False. 46.) I avoid the shame I feel. - True. - False. 47.) I feel I need to be recognized as impressive by others. - True. - False. 48.) I have a tendency to be overly competitive. - True. - False. 49.) I feel I must put on an act to earn being valued by others. - True. - False. 50.) I feel that others like who I pretend to be more than who I really am. - True. - False. 51.) I feel deficient, since I'm not like everyone else. - True. - False. 52.) I have problems with melancholy, self-indulgence, and self-pity. - True. - False. 53.) I feel that the world is terrifying and I must prepare for it. - True. - False. 54.) I tend to be easily overwhelmed. - True. - False. 55.) I detach from my emotions. - True. - False. 56.) I'm more comfortable dealing with thought than emotions. - True. - False. 57.) Becoming more knowledgeable helps me feel less empty. - True. - False. 58.) Being in control of my environment helps me feel secure. - True. - False. 59.) My fear shows itself through worry/aggressive behavior. - True. - False. 60.) I am suspicious of the unknown. - True. - False. 61.) I feel that I cannot trust myself, nor the outside world. - True. - False. 62.) I choose to adapt in order to - Be closer to the expectations/values of others, so I can receive validation. - Be consistent with the beliefs of a figure or system, so I can gain security. - Get along well with others, so I can attain harmony. - None of these. 63.) My sense of self is based on my search for the ideal - Autonomy; Perfection and self control. - Attention; Someone who completely understands and appreciates me. - Security and contentment; What awaits. - None of these. 64.) My gift that I can offer to prevent rejection is - My heart; I focus on the needs of others and help them however I can. - My intelligence; I offer my expertise in hopes that it will be appreciated. - My strength and will; I offer my power and know I can be depended on for leadership and strength. - None of these. 65.) I get into conflicts by being - Overly moody, temperamental and self-absorbed. - Too pessimistic, suspicious and doubtful. - Too willful, defiant and confrontational. - None of these. 66.) I get into conflicts by being - Too clingy, worried and self-important. - Impatient, irresponsible and excessive. - Too complacent, inattentive and stubborn. - None of these. 67.) I get into conflicts by being - Too impatient, rigid and critical. - Too competitive, insincere and boastful. - Too detached, isolated and provocative. - None of these. 68.) In terms of needs, I tend to - Reject my own in favor of the needs of others. - Reject the needs of others in favor for my own. - Try to balance the needs of others with my own. 69.) I am non-confrontational. - True. - False. 70.) I don't like to acknowledge that I get angry. - True. - False. 71.) I have a tendency to be passive-aggressive. - True. - False. 72.) I express my anger to get what I want. - True. - False.

 

[Morpeko]

The test is broken and I don't think the OP is here anymore, but I'm answering this anyway.

1.) Select all of your fears.
- The fear of deprivation and pain.
- The fear of lacking a unique, significant identity.
- The fear of being evil or corrupt.
- The fear of being harmed or controlled by others.
- The fear of being unloved or unwanted by others.
- The fear of loss and separation from others.
- The fear of being unaccomplished and worthless.
- The fear of being helpless and inadequate.
- The fear of being without support or guidance.

2) Choose your three worst tendencies.
- Becoming frustrated with others because of their faults.
- Conserving everything for yourself.
- Showcasing your successes and failing to admit you have faults.
- Becoming anxious about things that might happen.
- Never being satisfied, constantly wanting to experience more.
- Wanting to acquire what other people have.
- Thinking that others can't help themselves as much as you can.
- Constantly expressing anger.
- Not taking action.

3.) How do you express anger?
- Externalized anger: Openly displayed anger.
- Repressed anger: Avoidance of showing anger openly, but it sometimes manifests as passive-aggressiveness.
- Internalized anger: Harshly criticizing one's self. May also appear as judgmental tendencies.

4.) How do you express shame?
- Externalized shame: Openly displays shame. May manifest as constantly needing approval or positive feedback.
- Repressed shame: Avoidance of shame. May manifest as trying to prove yourself to avoid the shame that you feel.
- Internalized shame: Keeping shame to yourself. May manifest as failure to believe anyone can understand your pain.

5.) How do you express fear?
- Externalized fear: Expresses fear openly by displaying paranoia through hoarding, Information, possessions) as well as detachment.
- Repressed fear: Avoidance of showing fear. May manifest as surrounding yourself with safety/security and suspiciousness of the unknown.
- Internalized fear: Keeping fear to yourself. May manifest as engaging in fun activities to avoid facing the fear contained within.

(I don't relate to any of those fear descriptions, though...)

6.) Select all sets of traits that are somewhat like you.
- Strong Willed, Decisive, Tough Minded, Domineering, Controlling, Aggressive.
- Analytical, Knowledgeable, Observant, Detached, Isolated, Nihilistic.
- Unique, Emotional, Creative, Self-Absorbed, Self-Deprecating, Self Conscious.
- Easygoing, Trusting, Conciliatory, Self-Effacing, Escapist, Passive Aggressive.
- Empathetic, Altruistic, Sentimental, People-Pleasing, Manipulative, Victimizing.
- Ambitious,Energetic, Self-Assured, Scheming, Narcissistic, Monomaniacal.
- Loyal, Practical, Trustworthy, Fearful, Distrustful, Defensive.
- Moralistic, Perfectionistic, Self-Disciplined, Self-Righteous, Critical, Obsessive.
- Future Oriented, Extroverted, Open Minded, Compulsive, Reluctant, Arrogant.

7.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Optimistic.
â—‹ Escapist.
â—‹ Adventurous.
â—‹ Extrospective.
â—‹ Compulsive.
â—‹ Hasty.
â—‹ Futuristic.
â—‹ Versatile.
â—‹ Exuberant.
â—‹ Curious.
â—‹ Experiential.
â—‹ Vivacious.
â—‹ Entertaining.
â—‹ Bold.
â—‹ Spontaneous.
â—‹ Enthusiastic.
â—‹ Excessive.
â—‹ Occupied.
â—‹ Materialistic.
â—‹ Pleasure-Seeking.

8.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Dominant.
â—‹ Conning.
â—‹ Autonomous.
â—‹ Self-Confident.
â—‹ Direct.
â—‹ Powerful.
â—‹ Willful.
â—‹ Charismatic.
â—‹ Dynamic.
â—‹ Destructive.
â—‹ Insensitive.
â—‹ Exhibitionistic.
â—‹ Assertive.
â—‹ Protective.
â—‹ Honest.
â—‹ Decisive.
â—‹ Confrontational.
â—‹ Strong.
â—‹ Demonstrative.
â—‹ Aggressive.

9.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Melancholic.
â—‹ Emotional.
â—‹ Sensitive.
â—‹ Refined.
â—‹ Individualistic.
â—‹ Introspective.
â—‹ Self-Absorbed.
â—‹ Temperamental.
â—‹ Pessimistic.
â—‹ Self-Centered.
â—‹ Socially Awkward.
â—‹ Romantic.
â—‹ Negative Self-Image.
â—‹ Low Self-Esteem.
â—‹ Shy.
â—‹ Idealistic.
â—‹ Complex.
â—‹ Self-Expressive.
â—‹ Self-Indulgent.
â—‹ Fantasizing.

10.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Expressive.
â—‹ Interpersonal.
â—‹ Empowering.
â—‹ Intrusive.
â—‹ Manipulative.
â—‹ Nurturing.
â—‹ Histrionic.
â—‹ Caring.
â—‹ Helpful.
â—‹ Supportive.
â—‹ Prideful.
â—‹ Demanding.
â—‹ Empathetic.
â—‹ Selfless.
â—‹ Entitled.
â—‹ Hysterical.
â—‹ Friendly.
â—‹ Approval-Seeking.
â—‹ Needy.
â—‹ Kindhearted.

11.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Over-Adaptive.
â—‹ Resigning.
â—‹ Paradoxical.
â—‹ Habit-Bound.
â—‹ Distractible.
â—‹ Easygoing.
â—‹ Self-Effacing.
â—‹ Receptive.
â—‹ Agreeable.
â—‹ Stable.
â—‹ Complacent.
â—‹ Indomitable.
â—‹ Conciliatory.
â—‹ Submissive.
â—‹ Passive-Aggressive.
â—‹ Stubborn.
â—‹ Self-Forgetful.
â—‹ Indecisive.
â—‹ Conflict-Avoidant.
â—‹ Unclear.

12.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Alert.
â—‹ Inventive.
â—‹ Isolated.
â—‹ Contemplative.
â—‹ Private.
â—‹ Fearfully-Uncertain.
â—‹ Independent.
â—‹ Self-Motivated.
â—‹ Withholding.
â—‹ Cold.
â—‹ Insightful.
â—‹ Detached.
â—‹ Observant.
â—‹ Eccentric.
â—‹ Cynical.
â—‹ Cerebral.
â—‹ Analytical.
â—‹ Self-Sufficient.
â—‹ Hypersensitive.
â—‹ Intuitive.

13.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Success-Oriented.
â—‹ Adaptable.
â—‹ Driven.
â—‹ Image-Conscious.
â—‹ Successful.
â—‹ Paragon.
â—‹ Attention-Seeking.
â—‹ Self-Deceptive.
â—‹ Vain.
â—‹ Deceitful.
â—‹ Superficial.
â—‹ Relentless.
â—‹ Insecure.
â—‹ Self-Promoting.
â—‹ Narcissistic.
â—‹ Competitive.
â—‹ Career-Focused.
â—‹ Ambitious.
â—‹ Opportunistic.
â—‹ Motivating.

14.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Self-Criticizing.
â—‹ Critical.
â—‹ Perfectionistic.
â—‹ Controlling.
â—‹ Self-Righteous.
â—‹ Principled.
â—‹ Obsessive.
â—‹ Purist.
â—‹ Realistic.
â—‹ Ethical.
â—‹ Punitive.
â—‹ Disciplined.
â—‹ Rational.
â—‹ Dogmatic.
â—‹ Responsible.
â—‹ Reformer.
â—‹ Fixated.
â—‹ Detail-Oriented.
â—‹ Anger-Rejecting.
â—‹ Serious.

15.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Security-Oriented.
â—‹ Cautious.
â—‹ Suspicious.
â—‹ Trustworthy.
â—‹ Evasive.
â—‹ Cooperative.
â—‹ Doubtful.
â—‹ Rigid.
â—‹ Dedicated.
â—‹ Mindful.
â—‹ Anxious.
â—‹ Reliable.
â—‹ Committed.
â—‹ Defensive.
â—‹ Loyal.
â—‹ Trusting.
â—‹ Ambivalent.
â—‹ Worrying.
â—‹ Perseverant.
â—‹ Concerned.

Why the fuck is trusting an option here?

16.) I feel that my pain cannot be understood by anyone else.
- True.
- False.

17.) My sense of self is based on my attachment to
- My self image of a successful, valuable person.
- My association/loyalty to important people/groups.
- My idealized, internal harmonious view of the world.
- None of these.

18.) I am confrontational.
- True.
- False.

19.) I avoid suffering of any kind.
- True.
- False.

20.) My emotional guard is
- Down, so I can let others in.
- Up, but sometimes I let down my guard when I feel safe.
- Up, I don't want anyone to see my vulnerable side.

21.) I wish to be truly understood.
- True.
- False.

22.) I feel frustrated with
- Things that don't live up to my standards, because I care about making things better.
- That being different doesn't get me what I seek, because I will not change who I am to be better appreciated.
- The present, because the search for what I seek is more exciting than the experience.

23.) To further avoid rejection, I
- Try to love others so much that others won't reject me.
- Cut off my emotional needs, so that my lack of emotion will shield me from further rejection.
- Expect it and give off the impression that I can handle it.

24.) I often pretend that my fears don't exist.
- True.
- False.

25.) I will do anything to hear I'm valued.
- True.
- False.

26.) I openly express my anger.
- True.
- False.

27.) I have something missing that I must find.
- True.
- False.

28.) I don't enjoy introspection, because I don't like what I find.
- True.
- False.

29.) I get angry at and criticize myself.
- True.
- False.

30.) I can relate to, "I have value in the eyes of others".
- True.
- False.

31.) When confronted with a problem, I
- Put aside my wants/feelings to remain objective and may not take the feelings of others into account.
- Can easily set aside my own feelings and will cut corners to make things more efficent.
- Tend to withdraw, since I feel I can solve things on my own.
- None of these.

32.) I avoid my anger whenever I can.
- True.
- False.

33.) I enjoy being able to do whatever I want, whenever I want.
- True.
- False.

34.) I try to keep myself distracted.
- True.
- False.

35.) I have trouble acknowledging my anger.
- True.
- False.

36.) Others notice my anger before I do.
- True.
- False.

37.) I refer to my anger as resentment.
- True.
- False.

38.) I avoid any feelings that are sad and/or painful.
- True.
- False.

39.) I feel annoyed when others don't follow the rules.
- True.
- False.

40.) I try to never show my anger.
- True.
- False.

41.) I tend to hide the fact that I'm vulnerable behind anger.
- True.
- False.

42.) I can relate to, "Why not be angry? It's only an emotion".
- True.
- False.

43.) I have a tendency to make my problems someone else's problems.
- True.
- False.

44.) I need feedback from others to know I'm valued.
- True.
- False.

45.) I feel hurt if someone doesn't give me the validation I need.
- True.
- False.

46.) I avoid the shame I feel.
- True.
- False.

47.) I feel I need to be recognized as impressive by others.
- True.
- False.

48.) I have a tendency to be overly competitive.
- True.
- False.

49.) I feel I must put on an act to earn being valued by others.
- True.
- False.

50.) I feel that others like who I pretend to be more than who I really am.
- True.
- False.

51.) I feel deficient, since I'm not like everyone else.
- True.
- False.

52.) I have problems with melancholy, self-indulgence, and self-pity.
- True.
- False.

53.) I feel that the world is terrifying and I must prepare for it.
- True.
- False.

54.) I tend to be easily overwhelmed.
- True.
- False.

55.) I detach from my emotions.
- True.
- False.

56.) I'm more comfortable dealing with thought than emotions.
- True.
- False.

57.) Becoming more knowledgeable helps me feel less empty.
- True.
- False.

58.) Being in control of my environment helps me feel secure.
- True.
- False.

59.) My fear shows itself through worry/aggressive behavior.
- True.
- False.

60.) I am suspicious of the unknown.
- True.
- False.

61.) I feel that I cannot trust myself, nor the outside world.
- True.
- False.

62.) I choose to adapt in order to
- Be closer to the expectations/values of others, so I can receive validation.
- Be consistent with the beliefs of a figure or system, so I can gain security.
- Get along well with others, so I can attain harmony.
- None of these.

63.) My sense of self is based on my search for the ideal
- Autonomy; Perfection and self control.
- Attention; Someone who completely understands and appreciates me.
- Security and contentment; What awaits.
- None of these.

64.) My gift that I can offer to prevent rejection is
- My heart; I focus on the needs of others and help them however I can.
- My intelligence; I offer my expertise in hopes that it will be appreciated.
- My strength and will; I offer my power and know I can be depended on for leadership and strength.
- None of these.

65.) I get into conflicts by being
- Overly moody, temperamental and self-absorbed.
- Too pessimistic, suspicious and doubtful.
- Too willful, defiant and confrontational.
- None of these.

How about all...

66.) I get into conflicts by being
- Too clingy, worried and self-important.
- Impatient, irresponsible and excessive.
- Too complacent, inattentive and stubborn.
- None of these.

67.) I get into conflicts by being
- Too impatient, rigid and critical.
- Too competitive, insincere and boastful.
- Too detached, isolated and provocative.
- None of these.

68.) In terms of needs, I tend to
- Reject my own in favor of the needs of others.
- Reject the needs of others in favor for my own.
- Try to balance the needs of others with my own.

69.) I am non-confrontational.
- True.
- False.

70.) I don't like to acknowledge that I get angry.
- True.
- False.

71.) I have a tendency to be passive-aggressive.
- True.
- False.

72.) I express my anger to get what I want.
- True.
- False.

 

[Saturnal Snowqueen]

1.) Select all of your fears.
- The fear of deprivation and pain.
- The fear of lacking a unique, significant identity.
- The fear of being evil or corrupt.
- The fear of being harmed or controlled by others.
- The fear of being unloved or unwanted by others.
- The fear of loss and separation from others.
- The fear of being unaccomplished and worthless.
- The fear of being helpless and inadequate.
- The fear of being without support or guidance.


2) Choose your three worst tendencies.
- Becoming frustrated with others because of their faults.
- Conserving everything for yourself.
- Showcasing your successes and failing to admit you have faults.
- Becoming anxious about things that might happen.
- Never being satisfied, constantly wanting to experience more.
- Wanting to acquire what other people have.
- Thinking that others can't help themselves as much as you can.
- Constantly expressing anger.
- Not taking action.

3.) How do you express anger?
- Externalized anger: Openly displayed anger.
- Repressed anger: Avoidance of showing anger openly, but it sometimes manifests as passive-aggressiveness.
- Internalized anger: Harshly criticizing one's self. May also appear as judgmental tendencies.

4.) How do you express shame?
- Externalized shame: Openly displays shame. May manifest as constantly needing approval or positive feedback.
- Repressed shame: Avoidance of shame. May manifest as trying to prove yourself to avoid the shame that you feel.
- Internalized shame: Keeping shame to yourself. May manifest as failure to believe anyone can understand your pain.

5.) How do you express fear?
- Externalized fear: Expresses fear openly by displaying paranoia through hoarding, Information, possessions) as well as detachment.
- Repressed fear: Avoidance of showing fear. May manifest as surrounding yourself with safety/security and suspiciousness of the unknown.
- Internalized fear: Keeping fear to yourself. May manifest as engaging in fun activities to avoid facing the fear contained within.

6.) Select all sets of traits that are somewhat like you.
- Strong Willed, Decisive, Tough Minded, Domineering, Controlling, Aggressive.
- Analytical, Knowledgeable, Observant, Detached, Isolated, Nihilistic.
- Unique, Emotional, Creative, Self-Absorbed, Self-Deprecating, Self Conscious.
- Easygoing, Trusting, Conciliatory, Self-Effacing, Escapist, Passive Aggressive.
- Empathetic, Altruistic, Sentimental, People-Pleasing, Manipulative, Victimizing.
- Ambitious,Energetic, Self-Assured, Scheming, Narcissistic, Monomaniacal.
- Loyal, Practical, Trustworthy, Fearful, Distrustful, Defensive.
- Moralistic, Perfectionistic, Self-Disciplined, Self-Righteous, Critical, Obsessive.
- Future Oriented, Extroverted, Open Minded, Compulsive, Reluctant, Arrogant.(not really extroverted...but the other ones sure)

7.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Optimistic.
â—‹ Escapist.
â—‹ Adventurous.
â—‹ Extrospective.
â—‹ Compulsive.
â—‹ Hasty.
â—‹ Futuristic.
â—‹ Versatile.
â—‹ Exuberant.
â—‹ Curious.
â—‹ Experiential.
â—‹ Vivacious.
â—‹ Entertaining.
â—‹ Bold.
â—‹ Spontaneous.
â—‹ Enthusiastic.
â—‹ Excessive.
â—‹ Occupied.
â—‹ Materialistic.
â—‹ Pleasure-Seeking.

8.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Dominant.
â—‹ Conning.
â—‹ Autonomous.
â—‹ Self-Confident.
â—‹ Direct.
â—‹ Powerful.
â—‹ Willful.
â—‹ Charismatic.
â—‹ Dynamic.
â—‹ Destructive.
â—‹ Insensitive.
â—‹ Exhibitionistic.
â—‹ Assertive.
â—‹ Protective.
â—‹ Honest.
â—‹ Decisive.
â—‹ Confrontational.
â—‹ Strong.
â—‹ Demonstrative.
â—‹ Aggressive.

9.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Melancholic.
â—‹ Emotional.
â—‹ Sensitive.
â—‹ Refined.
â—‹ Individualistic.
â—‹ Introspective.
â—‹ Self-Absorbed.
â—‹ Temperamental.
â—‹ Pessimistic.
â—‹ Self-Centered.
â—‹ Socially Awkward.
â—‹ Romantic.
â—‹ Negative Self-Image.
â—‹ Low Self-Esteem.
â—‹ Shy.
â—‹ Idealistic.
â—‹ Complex.
â—‹ Self-Expressive.
â—‹ Self-Indulgent.
â—‹ Fantasizing.

All of em'

10.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Expressive.
â—‹ Interpersonal.
â—‹ Empowering.
â—‹ Intrusive.
â—‹ Manipulative.
â—‹ Nurturing.
â—‹ Histrionic.
â—‹ Caring.
â—‹ Helpful.
â—‹ Supportive.
â—‹ Prideful.
â—‹ Demanding.
â—‹ Empathetic.
â—‹ Selfless.
â—‹ Entitled.
â—‹ Hysterical.
â—‹ Friendly.
â—‹ Approval-Seeking.
â—‹ Needy.
â—‹ Kindhearted.

11.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Over-Adaptive.
â—‹ Resigning.
â—‹ Paradoxical.
â—‹ Habit-Bound.
â—‹ Distractible.
â—‹ Easygoing.
â—‹ Self-Effacing.
â—‹ Receptive.
â—‹ Agreeable.
â—‹ Stable.
â—‹ Complacent.
â—‹ Indomitable.
â—‹ Conciliatory.
â—‹ Submissive.
â—‹ Passive-Aggressive.
â—‹ Stubborn.
â—‹ Self-Forgetful.
â—‹ Indecisive.
â—‹ Conflict-Avoidant.
â—‹ Unclear.

12.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Alert.
â—‹ Inventive.
â—‹ Isolated.
â—‹ Contemplative.
â—‹ Private.
â—‹ Fearfully-Uncertain.
â—‹ Independent.
â—‹ Self-Motivated.
â—‹ Withholding.
â—‹ Cold.
â—‹ Insightful.
â—‹ Detached.
â—‹ Observant.
â—‹ Eccentric.
â—‹ Cynical.
â—‹ Cerebral.
â—‹ Analytical.
â—‹ Self-Sufficient.
â—‹ Hypersensitive.
â—‹ Intuitive.

13.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Success-Oriented.
â—‹ Adaptable.
â—‹ Driven.
â—‹ Image-Conscious.
â—‹ Successful.
â—‹ Paragon.
â—‹ Attention-Seeking.
â—‹ Self-Deceptive.
â—‹ Vain.
â—‹ Deceitful.
â—‹ Superficial.
â—‹ Relentless.
â—‹ Insecure.
â—‹ Self-Promoting.
â—‹ Narcissistic.
â—‹ Competitive.
â—‹ Career-Focused.
â—‹ Ambitious.
â—‹ Opportunistic.
â—‹ Motivating.

14.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Self-Criticizing.
â—‹ Critical.
â—‹ Perfectionistic.
â—‹ Controlling.
â—‹ Self-Righteous.
â—‹ Principled.
â—‹ Obsessive.
â—‹ Purist.
â—‹ Realistic.
â—‹ Ethical.
â—‹ Punitive.
â—‹ Disciplined.
â—‹ Rational.
â—‹ Dogmatic.
â—‹ Responsible.
â—‹ Reformer.
â—‹ Fixated.
â—‹ Detail-Oriented.
â—‹ Anger-Rejecting.
â—‹ Serious.

15.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Security-Oriented.
â—‹ Cautious.
â—‹ Suspicious.
â—‹ Trustworthy.
â—‹ Evasive.
â—‹ Cooperative.
â—‹ Doubtful.
â—‹ Rigid.
â—‹ Dedicated.
â—‹ Mindful.
â—‹ Anxious.
â—‹ Reliable.
â—‹ Committed.
â—‹ Defensive.
â—‹ Loyal.
â—‹ Trusting.
â—‹ Ambivalent.
â—‹ Worrying.
â—‹ Perseverant.
â—‹ Concerned.

16.) I feel that my pain cannot be understood by anyone else.
- True.
- False.

17.) My sense of self is based on my attachment to
- My self image of a successful, valuable person.
- My association/loyalty to important people/groups.
- My idealized, internal harmonious view of the world.
- None of these.

18.) I am confrontational.
- True.
- False.

19.) I avoid suffering of any kind.
- True.
- False.

20.) My emotional guard is
- Down, so I can let others in.
- Up, but sometimes I let down my guard when I feel safe.
- Up, I don't want anyone to see my vulnerable side.

21.) I wish to be truly understood.
- True.
- False.

(Well, mostly I do, but I like the mystery of being misunderstood too).

22.) I feel frustrated with
- Things that don't live up to my standards, because I care about making things better.
- That being different doesn't get me what I seek, because I will not change who I am to be better appreciated.
- The present, because the search for what I seek is more exciting than the experience.

23.) To further avoid rejection, I
- Try to love others so much that others won't reject me.
- Cut off my emotional needs, so that my lack of emotion will shield me from further rejection.
- Expect it and give off the impression that I can handle it.

24.) I often pretend that my fears don't exist.
- True.
- False.

25.) I will do anything to hear I'm valued.
- True.
- False.

26.) I openly express my anger.
- True.
- False.

27.) I have something missing that I must find.
- True.
- False.

28.) I don't enjoy introspection, because I don't like what I find.
- True.
- False.

29.) I get angry at and criticize myself.
- True.
- False.

30.) I can relate to, "I have value in the eyes of others".
- True.
- False.

31.) When confronted with a problem, I
- Put aside my wants/feelings to remain objective and may not take the feelings of others into account.
- Can easily set aside my own feelings and will cut corners to make things more efficent.
- Tend to withdraw, since I feel I can solve things on my own.
- None of these.

32.) I avoid my anger whenever I can.
- True.
- False.

33.) I enjoy being able to do whatever I want, whenever I want.
- True.
- False.

34.) I try to keep myself distracted.
- True.
- False.

35.) I have trouble acknowledging my anger.
- True.
- False.

(The anger is really circumstancial...it all depends on who it affects. If I'm telling a funny story about how I got angry at someone that's one thing but telling them that I'm angry at them is another.)

36.) Others notice my anger before I do.
- True.
- False.

37.) I refer to my anger as resentment.
- True.
- False.

38.) I avoid any feelings that are sad and/or painful.
- True.
- False.

39.) I feel annoyed when others don't follow the rules.
- True.
- False.

40.) I try to never show my anger.
- True.
- False.

41.) I tend to hide the fact that I'm vulnerable behind anger.
- True.
- False.

42.) I can relate to, "Why not be angry? It's only an emotion".
- True.
- False.

43.) I have a tendency to make my problems someone else's problems.
- True.
- False.

44.) I need feedback from others to know I'm valued.
- True.
- False.

45.) I feel hurt if someone doesn't give me the validation I need.
- True.
- False.

46.) I avoid the shame I feel.
- True.
- False.

47.) I feel I need to be recognized as impressive by others.
- True.
- False.

48.) I have a tendency to be overly competitive.
- True.
- False.

49.) I feel I must put on an act to earn being valued by others.
- True.
- False.

50.) I feel that others like who I pretend to be more than who I really am.
- True.
- False.

51.) I feel deficient, since I'm not like everyone else.
- True.
- False.

52.) I have problems with melancholy, self-indulgence, and self-pity.
- True.
- False.

53.) I feel that the world is terrifying and I must prepare for it.
- True.
- False.

54.) I tend to be easily overwhelmed
- True.
- False.

55.) I detach from my emotions.
- True.
- False.

56.) I'm more comfortable dealing with thought than emotions.
- True.
- False.

57.) Becoming more knowledgeable helps me feel less empty.
- True.
- False.

58.) Being in control of my environment helps me feel secure.
- True.
- False.

59.) My fear shows itself through worry/aggressive behavior.
- True.
- False.

60.) I am suspicious of the unknown.
- True.
- False.

61.) I feel that I cannot trust myself, nor the outside world.
- True.
- False.

62.) I choose to adapt in order to
- Be closer to the expectations/values of others, so I can receive validation.
- Be consistent with the beliefs of a figure or system, so I can gain security.
- Get along well with others, so I can attain harmony.
- None of these.

63.) My sense of self is based on my search for the ideal
- Autonomy; Perfection and self control.
- Attention; Someone who completely understands and appreciates me.
- Security and contentment; What awaits.
- None of these.

64.) My gift that I can offer to prevent rejection is
- My heart; I focus on the needs of others and help them however I can.
- My intelligence; I offer my expertise in hopes that it will be appreciated.
- My strength and will; I offer my power and know I can be depended on for leadership and strength.
- None of these.

65.) I get into conflicts by being
- Overly moody, temperamental and self-absorbed.
- Too pessimistic, suspicious and doubtful.
- Too willful, defiant and confrontational.
- None of these.

66.) I get into conflicts by being
- Too clingy, worried and self-important.
- Impatient, irresponsible and excessive.
- Too complacent, inattentive and stubborn.
- None of these.

67.) I get into conflicts by being
- Too impatient, rigid and critical.
- Too competitive, insincere and boastful.
- Too detached, isolated and provocative.
- None of these.

68.) In terms of needs, I tend to
- Reject my own in favor of the needs of others.
- Reject the needs of others in favor for my own.
- Try to balance the needs of others with my own.

69.) I am non-confrontational.
- True.
- False.

70.) I don't like to acknowledge that I get angry.
- True.
- False.

71.) I have a tendency to be passive-aggressive.
- True.
- False.

72.) I express my anger to get what I want.
- True.
- False.

 

[Burning Paradigm]

1.) Select all of your fears.
- The fear of deprivation and pain.
- The fear of lacking a unique, significant identity.
- The fear of being evil or corrupt.
- The fear of being harmed or controlled by others.
- The fear of being unloved or unwanted by others.
- The fear of loss and separation from others.
- The fear of being unaccomplished and worthless.
- The fear of being helpless and inadequate.
- The fear of being without support or guidance.

2) Choose your three worst tendencies.
- Becoming frustrated with others because of their faults.
- Conserving everything for yourself.
- Showcasing your successes and failing to admit you have faults.
- Becoming anxious about things that might happen.
- Never being satisfied, constantly wanting to experience more.
- Wanting to acquire what other people have.
- Thinking that others can't help themselves as much as you can.
- Constantly expressing anger.
- Not taking action.

3.) How do you express anger?
- Externalized anger: Openly displayed anger.
- Repressed anger: Avoidance of showing anger openly, but it sometimes manifests as passive-aggressiveness.
- Internalized anger: Harshly criticizing one's self. May also appear as judgmental tendencies.

4.) How do you express shame?
- Externalized shame: Openly displays shame. May manifest as constantly needing approval or positive feedback.
- Repressed shame: Avoidance of shame. May manifest as trying to prove yourself to avoid the shame that you feel.
- Internalized shame: Keeping shame to yourself. May manifest as failure to believe anyone can understand your pain.

5.) How do you express fear?
- Externalized fear: Expresses fear openly by displaying paranoia through hoarding, Information, possessions) as well as detachment.
- Repressed fear: Avoidance of showing fear. May manifest as surrounding yourself with safety/security and suspiciousness of the unknown.
- Internalized fear: Keeping fear to yourself. May manifest as engaging in fun activities to avoid facing the fear contained within.

6.) Select all sets of traits that are somewhat like you.
- Strong Willed, Decisive, Tough Minded, Domineering, Controlling, Aggressive.
- Analytical, Knowledgeable, Observant, Detached, Isolated, Nihilistic.
- Unique, Emotional, Creative, Self-Absorbed, Self-Deprecating, Self Conscious.
- Easygoing, Trusting, Conciliatory, Self-Effacing, Escapist, Passive Aggressive.
- Empathetic, Altruistic, Sentimental, People-Pleasing, Manipulative, Victimizing.
- Ambitious,Energetic, Self-Assured, Scheming, Narcissistic, Monomaniacal.
- Loyal, Practical, Trustworthy, Fearful, Distrustful, Defensive.
- Moralistic, Perfectionistic, Self-Disciplined, Self-Righteous, Critical, Obsessive.
- Future Oriented, Extroverted, Open Minded, Compulsive, Reluctant, Arrogant.

7.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Optimistic.
â—‹ Escapist.
â—‹ Adventurous.
â—‹ Extrospective.
â—‹ Compulsive.
â—‹ Hasty.
â—‹ Futuristic.
â—‹ Versatile.
â—‹ Exuberant.
â—‹ Curious.
â—‹ Experiential.
â—‹ Vivacious.
â—‹ Entertaining.
â—‹ Bold.
â—‹ Spontaneous.
â—‹ Enthusiastic.
â—‹ Excessive.
â—‹ Occupied.
â—‹ Materialistic.
â—‹ Pleasure-Seeking.

8.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Dominant.
â—‹ Conning.
â—‹ Autonomous.
â—‹ Self-Confident.
â—‹ Direct.
â—‹ Powerful.
â—‹ Willful.
â—‹ Charismatic.
â—‹ Dynamic.
â—‹ Destructive.
â—‹ Insensitive.
â—‹ Exhibitionistic.
â—‹ Assertive.
â—‹ Protective.
â—‹ Honest.
â—‹ Decisive.
â—‹ Confrontational.
â—‹ Strong.
â—‹ Demonstrative.
â—‹ Aggressive.

9.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Melancholic.
â—‹ Emotional.
â—‹ Sensitive.
â—‹ Refined.
â—‹ Individualistic.
â—‹ Introspective.
â—‹ Self-Absorbed.
â—‹ Temperamental.
â—‹ Pessimistic.
â—‹ Self-Centered.
â—‹ Socially Awkward.
â—‹ Romantic.
â—‹ Negative Self-Image.
â—‹ Low Self-Esteem.
â—‹ Shy.
â—‹ Idealistic.
â—‹ Complex.
â—‹ Self-Expressive.
â—‹ Self-Indulgent.
â—‹ Fantasizing.

10.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Expressive.
â—‹ Interpersonal.
â—‹ Empowering.
â—‹ Intrusive.
â—‹ Manipulative.
â—‹ Nurturing.
â—‹ Histrionic.
â—‹ Caring.
â—‹ Helpful.
â—‹ Supportive.
â—‹ Prideful.
â—‹ Demanding.
â—‹ Empathetic.
â—‹ Selfless.
â—‹ Entitled.
â—‹ Hysterical.
â—‹ Friendly.
â—‹ Approval-Seeking.
â—‹ Needy.
â—‹ Kindhearted.

11.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Over-Adaptive.
â—‹ Resigning.
â—‹ Paradoxical.
â—‹ Habit-Bound.
â—‹ Distractible.
â—‹ Easygoing.
â—‹ Self-Effacing.
â—‹ Receptive.
â—‹ Agreeable.
â—‹ Stable.
â—‹ Complacent.
â—‹ Indomitable.
â—‹ Conciliatory.
â—‹ Submissive.
â—‹ Passive-Aggressive.
â—‹ Stubborn.
â—‹ Self-Forgetful.
â—‹ Indecisive.
â—‹ Conflict-Avoidant.
â—‹ Unclear.

12.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Alert.
â—‹ Inventive.
â—‹ Isolated.
â—‹ Contemplative.
â—‹ Private.
â—‹ Fearfully-Uncertain.
â—‹ Independent.
â—‹ Self-Motivated.
â—‹ Withholding.
â—‹ Cold.
â—‹ Insightful.
â—‹ Detached.
â—‹ Observant.
â—‹ Eccentric.
â—‹ Cynical.
â—‹ Cerebral.
â—‹ Analytical.
â—‹ Self-Sufficient.
â—‹ Hypersensitive.
â—‹ Intuitive.

13.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Success-Oriented.
â—‹ Adaptable.
â—‹ Driven.
â—‹ Image-Conscious.
â—‹ Successful.
â—‹ Paragon.
â—‹ Attention-Seeking.
â—‹ Self-Deceptive.
â—‹ Vain.
â—‹ Deceitful.
â—‹ Superficial.
â—‹ Relentless.
â—‹ Insecure.
â—‹ Self-Promoting.
â—‹ Narcissistic.
â—‹ Competitive.
â—‹ Career-Focused.
â—‹ Ambitious.
â—‹ Opportunistic.
â—‹ Motivating.

14.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Self-Criticizing.
â—‹ Critical.
â—‹ Perfectionistic.
â—‹ Controlling.
â—‹ Self-Righteous.
â—‹ Principled.
â—‹ Obsessive.
â—‹ Purist.
â—‹ Realistic.
â—‹ Ethical.
â—‹ Punitive.
â—‹ Disciplined.
â—‹ Rational.
â—‹ Dogmatic.
â—‹ Responsible.
â—‹ Reformer.
â—‹ Fixated.
â—‹ Detail-Oriented.
â—‹ Anger-Rejecting.
â—‹ Serious.

15.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Security-Oriented.
â—‹ Cautious.
â—‹ Suspicious.
â—‹ Trustworthy.
â—‹ Evasive.
â—‹ Cooperative.
â—‹ Doubtful.
â—‹ Rigid.
â—‹ Dedicated.
â—‹ Mindful.
â—‹ Anxious.
â—‹ Reliable.
â—‹ Committed.
â—‹ Defensive.
â—‹ Loyal.
â—‹ Trusting.
â—‹ Ambivalent.
â—‹ Worrying.
â—‹ Perseverant.
â—‹ Concerned.

16.) I feel that my pain cannot be understood by anyone else.
- True.
- False.

17.) My sense of self is based on my attachment to
- My self image of a successful, valuable person.
- My association/loyalty to important people/groups.
- My idealized, internal harmonious view of the world.
- None of these.

18.) I am confrontational.
- True.
- False.

19.) I avoid suffering of any kind.
- True.
- False.

20.) My emotional guard is
- Down, so I can let others in.
- Up, but sometimes I let down my guard when I feel safe.
- Up, I don't want anyone to see my vulnerable side.

21.) I wish to be truly understood.
- True.
- False.

22.) I feel frustrated with
- Things that don't live up to my standards, because I care about making things better.
- That being different doesn't get me what I seek, because I will not change who I am to be better appreciated.
- The present, because the search for what I seek is more exciting than the experience.

23.) To further avoid rejection, I
- Try to love others so much that others won't reject me.
- Cut off my emotional needs, so that my lack of emotion will shield me from further rejection.
- Expect it and give off the impression that I can handle it.

24.) I often pretend that my fears don't exist.
- True.
- False.

25.) I will do anything to hear I'm valued.
- True.
- False.

26.) I openly express my anger.
- True.
- False.

27.) I have something missing that I must find.
- True.
- False.

28.) I don't enjoy introspection, because I don't like what I find.
- True.
- False.

29.) I get angry at and criticize myself.
- True.
- False.

30.) I can relate to, "I have value in the eyes of others".
- True.
- False.

31.) When confronted with a problem, I
- Put aside my wants/feelings to remain objective and may not take the feelings of others into account.
- Can easily set aside my own feelings and will cut corners to make things more efficent.
- Tend to withdraw, since I feel I can solve things on my own.
- None of these.

32.) I avoid my anger whenever I can.
- True.
- False.

33.) I enjoy being able to do whatever I want, whenever I want.
- True.
- False.

34.) I try to keep myself distracted.
- True.
- False.

35.) I have trouble acknowledging my anger.
- True.
- False.

36.) Others notice my anger before I do.
- True.
- False.

37.) I refer to my anger as resentment.
- True.
- False.

38.) I avoid any feelings that are sad and/or painful.
- True.
- False.

39.) I feel annoyed when others don't follow the rules.
- True.
- False.

40.) I try to never show my anger.
- True.
- False.

41.) I tend to hide the fact that I'm vulnerable behind anger.
- True.
- False.

42.) I can relate to, "Why not be angry? It's only an emotion".
- True.
- False.

43.) I have a tendency to make my problems someone else's problems.
- True.
- False.

44.) I need feedback from others to know I'm valued.
- True.
- False.

45.) I feel hurt if someone doesn't give me the validation I need.
- True.
- False.

46.) I avoid the shame I feel.
- True.
- False.

47.) I feel I need to be recognized as impressive by others.
- True.
- False.

48.) I have a tendency to be overly competitive.
- True.
- False.

49.) I feel I must put on an act to earn being valued by others.
- True.
- False.

50.) I feel that others like who I pretend to be more than who I really am.
- True.
- False.

51.) I feel deficient, since I'm not like everyone else.
- True.
- False.

52.) I have problems with melancholy, self-indulgence, and self-pity.
- True.
- False.

53.) I feel that the world is terrifying and I must prepare for it.
- True.
- False.

54.) I tend to be easily overwhelmed.
- True.
- False.

55.) I detach from my emotions.
- True.
- False.

56.) I'm more comfortable dealing with thought than emotions.
- True.
- False.

57.) Becoming more knowledgeable helps me feel less empty.
- True.
- False.

58.) Being in control of my environment helps me feel secure.
- True.
- False.

59.) My fear shows itself through worry/aggressive behavior.
- True.
- False.

60.) I am suspicious of the unknown.
- True.
- False.

61.) I feel that I cannot trust myself, nor the outside world.
- True.
- False.

62.) I choose to adapt in order to
- Be closer to the expectations/values of others, so I can receive validation.
- Be consistent with the beliefs of a figure or system, so I can gain security.
- Get along well with others, so I can attain harmony.
- None of these.

63.) My sense of self is based on my search for the ideal
- Autonomy; Perfection and self control.
- Attention; Someone who completely understands and appreciates me.
- Security and contentment; What awaits.
- None of these.

64.) My gift that I can offer to prevent rejection is
- My heart; I focus on the needs of others and help them however I can.
- My intelligence; I offer my expertise in hopes that it will be appreciated.
- My strength and will; I offer my power and know I can be depended on for leadership and strength.
- None of these.

65.) I get into conflicts by being
- Overly moody, temperamental and self-absorbed.
- Too pessimistic, suspicious and doubtful.
- Too willful, defiant and confrontational.
- None of these.

66.) I get into conflicts by being
- Too clingy, worried and self-important.
- Impatient, irresponsible and excessive.
- Too complacent, inattentive and stubborn.
- None of these.

67.) I get into conflicts by being
- Too impatient, rigid and critical.
- Too competitive, insincere and boastful.
- Too detached, isolated and provocative.
- None of these.

68.) In terms of needs, I tend to
- Reject my own in favor of the needs of others.
- Reject the needs of others in favor for my own.
- Try to balance the needs of others with my own.

69.) I am non-confrontational.
- True.
- False.

70.) I don't like to acknowledge that I get angry.
- True.
- False.

71.) I have a tendency to be passive-aggressive.
- True.
- False.

72.) I express my anger to get what I want.
- True.
- False.

 

[Opal Star]

1.) Select all of your fears.
- The fear of deprivation and pain.
- The fear of being evil or corrupt.
- The fear of being harmed or controlled by others.
- The fear of being unloved or unwanted by others.
- The fear of loss and separation from others.
- The fear of being unaccomplished and worthless.
- The fear of being helpless and inadequate.
- The fear of being without support or guidance.

2) Choose your three worst tendencies.
- Becoming frustrated with others because of their faults.
- Conserving everything for yourself.
- Showcasing your successes and failing to admit you have faults.
- Becoming anxious about things that might happen.
- Never being satisfied, constantly wanting to experience more.
- Wanting to acquire what other people have.
- Thinking that others can't help themselves as much as you can.
- Constantly expressing anger.
- Not taking action.

3.) How do you express anger?
- Externalized anger: Openly displayed anger.
- Repressed anger: Avoidance of showing anger openly, but it sometimes manifests as passive-aggressiveness.
- Internalized anger: Harshly criticizing one's self. May also appear as judgmental tendencies.

4.) How do you express shame?
- Externalized shame: Openly displays shame. May manifest as constantly needing approval or positive feedback.
- Repressed shame: Avoidance of shame. May manifest as trying to prove yourself to avoid the shame that you feel.
- Internalized shame: Keeping shame to yourself. May manifest as failure to believe anyone can understand your pain.

5.) How do you express fear?
- Externalized fear: Expresses fear openly by displaying paranoia through hoarding, Information, possessions) as well as detachment.
- Repressed fear: Avoidance of showing fear. May manifest as surrounding yourself with safety/security and suspiciousness of the unknown.
- Internalized fear: Keeping fear to yourself. May manifest as engaging in fun activities to avoid facing the fear contained within.

6.) Select all sets of traits that are somewhat like you.
- Strong Willed, Decisive, Tough Minded, Domineering, Controlling, Aggressive.
- Analytical, Knowledgeable, Observant, Detached, Isolated, Nihilistic.
- Unique, Emotional, Creative, Self-Absorbed, Self-Deprecating, Self Conscious.
- Easygoing, Trusting, Conciliatory, Self-Effacing, Escapist, Passive Aggressive.
- Empathetic, Altruistic, Sentimental, People-Pleasing, Manipulative, Victimizing.
- Ambitious,Energetic, Self-Assured, Scheming, Narcissistic, Monomaniacal.
- Loyal, Practical, Trustworthy, Fearful, Distrustful, Defensive.
- Moralistic, Perfectionistic, Self-Disciplined, Self-Righteous, Critical, Obsessive.
- Future Oriented, Extroverted, Open Minded, Compulsive, Reluctant, Arrogant.

7.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Optimistic.
â—‹ Escapist.
â—‹ Adventurous.
â—‹ Extrospective.
â—‹ Compulsive.
â—‹ Hasty.
â—‹ Futuristic.
â—‹ Versatile.
â—‹ Exuberant.
â—‹ Curious.
â—‹ Experiential.
â—‹ Vivacious.
â—‹ Entertaining.
â—‹ Bold.
â—‹ Spontaneous.
â—‹ Enthusiastic.
â—‹ Excessive.
â—‹ Occupied.
â—‹ Materialistic.
â—‹ Pleasure-Seeking.

8.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Dominant.
â—‹ Conning.
â—‹ Autonomous.
â—‹ Self-Confident.
â—‹ Direct.
â—‹ Powerful.
â—‹ Willful.
â—‹ Charismatic.
â—‹ Dynamic.
â—‹ Destructive.
â—‹ Insensitive.
â—‹ Exhibitionistic.
â—‹ Assertive.
â—‹ Protective.
â—‹ Honest.
â—‹ Decisive.
â—‹ Confrontational.
â—‹ Strong.
â—‹ Demonstrative.
â—‹ Aggressive.

9.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Melancholic.
â—‹ Emotional.
â—‹ Sensitive.
â—‹ Refined.
â—‹ Individualistic.
â—‹ Introspective.
â—‹ Self-Absorbed.
â—‹ Temperamental.
â—‹ Pessimistic.
â—‹ Self-Centered.
â—‹ Socially Awkward.
â—‹ Romantic.
â—‹ Negative Self-Image.
â—‹ Low Self-Esteem.
â—‹ Shy.
â—‹ Idealistic.
â—‹ Complex.
â—‹ Self-Expressive.
â—‹ Self-Indulgent.
â—‹ Fantasizing.

10.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Expressive.
â—‹ Interpersonal.
â—‹ Empowering.
â—‹ Intrusive.
â—‹ Manipulative.
â—‹ Nurturing.
â—‹ Histrionic.
â—‹ Caring.
â—‹ Helpful.
â—‹ Supportive.
â—‹ Prideful.
â—‹ Demanding.
â—‹ Empathetic.
â—‹ Selfless.
â—‹ Entitled.
â—‹ Hysterical.
â—‹ Friendly.
â—‹ Approval-Seeking.
â—‹ Needy.
â—‹ Kindhearted.

11.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Over-Adaptive.
â—‹ Resigning.
â—‹ Paradoxical.
â—‹ Habit-Bound.
â—‹ Distractible.
â—‹ Easygoing.
â—‹ Self-Effacing.
â—‹ Receptive.
â—‹ Agreeable.
â—‹ Stable.
â—‹ Complacent.
â—‹ Indomitable.
â—‹ Conciliatory.
â—‹ Submissive.
â—‹ Passive-Aggressive.
â—‹ Stubborn.
â—‹ Self-Forgetful.
â—‹ Indecisive.
â—‹ Conflict-Avoidant.
â—‹ Unclear.

12.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Alert.
â—‹ Inventive.
â—‹ Isolated.
â—‹ Contemplative.
â—‹ Private.
â—‹ Fearfully-Uncertain.
â—‹ Independent.
â—‹ Self-Motivated.
â—‹ Withholding.
â—‹ Cold.
â—‹ Insightful.
â—‹ Detached.
â—‹ Observant.
â—‹ Eccentric.
â—‹ Cynical.
â—‹ Cerebral.
â—‹ Analytical.
â—‹ Self-Sufficient.
â—‹ Hypersensitive.
â—‹ Intuitive.

13.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Success-Oriented.
â—‹ Adaptable.
â—‹ Driven.
â—‹ Image-Conscious.
â—‹ Successful.
â—‹ Paragon.
â—‹ Attention-Seeking.
â—‹ Self-Deceptive.
â—‹ Vain.
â—‹ Deceitful.
â—‹ Superficial.
â—‹ Relentless.
â—‹ Insecure.
â—‹ Self-Promoting.
â—‹ Narcissistic.
â—‹ Competitive.
â—‹ Career-Focused.
â—‹ Ambitious.
â—‹ Opportunistic.
â—‹ Motivating.

14.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Self-Criticizing.
â—‹ Critical.
â—‹ Perfectionistic.
â—‹ Controlling.
â—‹ Self-Righteous.
â—‹ Principled.
â—‹ Obsessive.
â—‹ Purist.
â—‹ Realistic.
â—‹ Ethical.
â—‹ Punitive.
â—‹ Disciplined.
â—‹ Rational.
â—‹ Dogmatic.
â—‹ Responsible.
â—‹ Reformer.
â—‹ Fixated.
â—‹ Detail-Oriented.
â—‹ Anger-Rejecting.
â—‹ Serious.

15.) Select all traits that apply to who you are.
â—‹ Security-Oriented.
â—‹ Cautious.
â—‹ Suspicious.
â—‹ Trustworthy.
â—‹ Evasive.
â—‹ Cooperative.
â—‹ Doubtful.
â—‹ Rigid.
â—‹ Dedicated.
â—‹ Mindful.
â—‹ Anxious.
â—‹ Reliable.
â—‹ Committed.
â—‹ Defensive.
â—‹ Loyal.
â—‹ Trusting.
â—‹ Ambivalent.
â—‹ Worrying.
â—‹ Perseverant.
â—‹ Concerned.

16.) I feel that my pain cannot be understood by anyone else.
- True.
- False.

17.) My sense of self is based on my attachment to
- My self image of a successful, valuable person.
- My association/loyalty to important people/groups.
- My idealized, internal harmonious view of the world.
- None of these.

18.) I am confrontational.
- True.
- False.

19.) I avoid suffering of any kind.
- True.
- False.

20.) My emotional guard is
- Down, so I can let others in.
- Up, but sometimes I let down my guard when I feel safe.
- Up, I don't want anyone to see my vulnerable side.

21.) I wish to be truly understood.
- True.
- False.

22.) I feel frustrated with
- Things that don't live up to my standards, because I care about making things better.
- That being different doesn't get me what I seek, because I will not change who I am to be better appreciated.
- The present, because the search for what I seek is more exciting than the experience.

23.) To further avoid rejection, I
- Try to love others so much that others won't reject me.
- Cut off my emotional needs, so that my lack of emotion will shield me from further rejection.
- Expect it and give off the impression that I can handle it.

24.) I often pretend that my fears don't exist.
- True.
- False.

25.) I will do anything to hear I'm valued.
- True.
- False.

26.) I openly express my anger.
- True.
- False.

27.) I have something missing that I must find.
- True.
- False.

28.) I don't enjoy introspection, because I don't like what I find.
- True.
- False.

29.) I get angry at and criticize myself.
- True.
- False.

30.) I can relate to, "I have value in the eyes of others".
- True.
- False.

31.) When confronted with a problem, I
- Put aside my wants/feelings to remain objective and may not take the feelings of others into account.
- Can easily set aside my own feelings and will cut corners to make things more efficent.
- Tend to withdraw, since I feel I can solve things on my own.
- None of these.

32.) I avoid my anger whenever I can.
- True.
- False.

33.) I enjoy being able to do whatever I want, whenever I want.
- True.
- False.

34.) I try to keep myself distracted.
- True.
- False.

35.) I have trouble acknowledging my anger.
- True.
- False.

36.) Others notice my anger before I do.
- True.
- False.

37.) I refer to my anger as resentment.
- True.
- False.

38.) I avoid any feelings that are sad and/or painful.
- True.
- False.

39.) I feel annoyed when others don't follow the rules.
- True.
- False.

40.) I try to never show my anger.
- True.
- False.

41.) I tend to hide the fact that I'm vulnerable behind anger.
- True.
- False.

42.) I can relate to, "Why not be angry? It's only an emotion".
- True.
- False.

43.) I have a tendency to make my problems someone else's problems.
- True.
- False.

44.) I need feedback from others to know I'm valued.
- True.
- False.

45.) I feel hurt if someone doesn't give me the validation I need.
- True.
- False.

46.) I avoid the shame I feel.
- True.
- False.

47.) I feel I need to be recognized as impressive by others.
- True.
- False.

48.) I have a tendency to be overly competitive.
- True.
- False.

49.) I feel I must put on an act to earn being valued by others.
- True.
- False.

50.) I feel that others like who I pretend to be more than who I really am.
- True.
- False.

51.) I feel deficient, since I'm not like everyone else.
- True.
- False.

52.) I have problems with melancholy, self-indulgence, and self-pity.
- True.
- False.

53.) I feel that the world is terrifying and I must prepare for it.
- True.
- False.

54.) I tend to be easily overwhelmed.
- True.
- False.

55.) I detach from my emotions.
- True.
- False.

56.) I'm more comfortable dealing with thought than emotions.
- True.
- False.

57.) Becoming more knowledgeable helps me feel less empty.
- True.
- False.

58.) Being in control of my environment helps me feel secure.
- True.
- False.

59.) My fear shows itself through worry/aggressive behavior.
- True.
- False.

60.) I am suspicious of the unknown.
- True.
- False.

61.) I feel that I cannot trust myself, nor the outside world.
- True.
- False.

62.) I choose to adapt in order to
- Be closer to the expectations/values of others, so I can receive validation.
- Be consistent with the beliefs of a figure or system, so I can gain security.
- Get along well with others, so I can attain harmony.
- None of these.

63.) My sense of self is based on my search for the ideal
- Autonomy; Perfection and self control.
- Attention; Someone who completely understands and appreciates me.
- Security and contentment; What awaits.
- None of these.

64.) My gift that I can offer to prevent rejection is
- My heart; I focus on the needs of others and help them however I can.
- My intelligence; I offer my expertise in hopes that it will be appreciated.
- My strength and will; I offer my power and know I can be depended on for leadership and strength.
- None of these.

65.) I get into conflicts by being
- Overly moody, temperamental and self-absorbed.
- Too pessimistic, suspicious and doubtful.
- Too willful, defiant and confrontational.
- None of these.

66.) I get into conflicts by being
- Too clingy, worried and self-important.
- Impatient, irresponsible and excessive.
- Too complacent, inattentive and stubborn.
- None of these.

67.) I get into conflicts by being
- Too impatient, rigid and critical.
- Too competitive, insincere and boastful.
- Too detached, isolated and provocative.
- None of these.

68.) In terms of needs, I tend to
- Reject my own in favor of the needs of others.
- Reject the needs of others in favor for my own.
- Try to balance the needs of others with my own.

69.) I am non-confrontational.
- True.
- False.

70.) I don't like to acknowledge that I get angry.
- True.
- False.

71.) I have a tendency to be passive-aggressive.
- True.
- False.

72.) I express my anger to get what I want.
- True.
- False.

I know that I am a 1w2, but I am not 100% sure about my other tritype fixes.