[MENTION=22547]lulabelle[/MENTION] I'm as "balanced" as I've ever been, but I do agree with the above [MENTION=6561]OrangeAppled[/MENTION] in that I can totally fall off the teeter-totter if I'm not
maintaining my health. For me, that balance entails pursuing
action (which could also mean being in the body more as [MENTION=6275]the state i am in[/MENTION] mentioned) with my ideas and emotions-- not letting them tangle within me, suffocating both myself and those around me. Without action, I tend to start looking around, the shame and envy kick in and I bury myself in how miserable, frustrated and broken I am.
Yeah, action, organization, boundaries, focus on justice for others. Also knowing (and remembering) that good can come of my pain/brokeness by revealing it in order to relate to and encourage others. Beatrice Chestnut's book
The Complete Enneagram has some great practical "work" for each type to move towards balance.