What are you irritated most with life? What causes you the most anxiety? Your weakest trait?
Stupidity. Ignorance is fine if someone can adapt to the truth once given it, but people with their heads in the sand make me pretty irritated. Especially if it's about philosophy, religion, or science--plenty of people want to "talk the talk" on these topics but refuse to listen to intellectual debate on them at the same time. That is choosing ignorance to me. When I do have anxiety it's around non-nuclear family, little children under three years old, at doctor's appointments, being alone with someone in an atmosphere that socially demands interaction of a certain "type" i.e. going out to eat with a man, etc. Group situations are all right, the pressure is diffused. Large groups of people (concert-sized groups) can make me anxious if I'm not sober. My weakest trait is also probably my greatest gift--I'm a daydreamer; I theorize constantly, to the point it inhibits other aspects of my life. I read too much.
What quality do you admire in the opposite sex most?
Intelligence, masculinity, height, silence, observant, listening to understand and not just to reply, keen, dry wit, a man who truly enjoys solitude and is naturally a loner. A man in all respects. Someone who notices every single detail and remembers everything autobiographical with the same clarity I do. He has to be more intelligent than me--if someone's mind is Rubik's cube I can figure out within an hour of meeting them, I'm not interested. The love of my life I will never figure out completely. He is the embodiment of mysterious and enigmatic.
What quality are you most irritated with in the same sex (your competitors)?
I am never irritated by girls my age, they are not my competitors. I don't compete. They are human beings on their own path in life, and since I am heterosexual, I have no reason to even remotely think about judging them for their behavior.