louiesgonnadie
undergoing self-analysis
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- Dec 23, 2012
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I'm pretty sure I'm SP-dom, but I can't figure out the other variant. I've tested recently as so/sp or sp/so, to give me an idea.
I can be pretty social, yet I suspect I suffer from social awkwardness and do have social anxiety, so that hinders my attempts at improving any skills. It also makes me think it disguises me as more introverted (or at times, super-reserved). But as an ideal, I would be more social; yet in the end it would come down to having just a few close relationships with people I admire. In other words, depth over breadth.
As far as intimate relationships go: I need physical and emotional attraction combined to engage in an intimate relationship, or to feel passionate enough to brew an intimate "oneness" with a love interest. I am very picky when it comes to women. In a way, I hold value to things that I am very physically attracted to, so it can be hard to detach myself from an infatuation; thus making me very vulnerable to suffer from oneitis (which I'm sure a few of you have heard of). For example, if I see a girl that is uniquely beautiful to me, my fascination will fuel infatuation, especially if I am emotionally attracted to her as well. However, I may feel awkward when I am trying to be romantic. I imagine I could pull it off after a while though.
I think I'm SP-dom though since I value competence over most and I lean towards being independent. I get excited over the idea of improving my well being (the funny thing is, I am usually lacking motivation to do so!)
I might add more later...
I can be pretty social, yet I suspect I suffer from social awkwardness and do have social anxiety, so that hinders my attempts at improving any skills. It also makes me think it disguises me as more introverted (or at times, super-reserved). But as an ideal, I would be more social; yet in the end it would come down to having just a few close relationships with people I admire. In other words, depth over breadth.
As far as intimate relationships go: I need physical and emotional attraction combined to engage in an intimate relationship, or to feel passionate enough to brew an intimate "oneness" with a love interest. I am very picky when it comes to women. In a way, I hold value to things that I am very physically attracted to, so it can be hard to detach myself from an infatuation; thus making me very vulnerable to suffer from oneitis (which I'm sure a few of you have heard of). For example, if I see a girl that is uniquely beautiful to me, my fascination will fuel infatuation, especially if I am emotionally attracted to her as well. However, I may feel awkward when I am trying to be romantic. I imagine I could pull it off after a while though.
I think I'm SP-dom though since I value competence over most and I lean towards being independent. I get excited over the idea of improving my well being (the funny thing is, I am usually lacking motivation to do so!)
I might add more later...