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Enneagram's Worst Type Preference

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ThatGirl

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I am an 8 and, I HATE Fe.

I am wondering if there is a pattern here between enneagram and worst function preference. So post your enneagram and the function you think is most annoying.
 

Elfboy

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I am also an 8 and hate Fe. it's so overly emotional and tries to control you via guilt trip, "community values" and schmoozing. FJs that aren't balanced are always talking in "should" "supposed to" and "unity". ugh it makes me sick. when you decide to do your own thing and not ask for their opinion, they call you "heartless" or "insecure" (where they come up with that one I'll never know). some FJs can be cool, but frankly most of them get on my friggin nerves
 

Jaguar

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I am an 8 and, I HATE Fe.

I am wondering if there is a pattern here between enneagram and worst function preference. So post your enneagram and the function you think is most annoying.

So you hate ENFPs, and now you hate Fe.
I just realized you also have a "I hate sensors" thread, too.

Hater! :nono:
 
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ThatGirl

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It manifests the same on the outside. ENFPs stroke my goat a little more than say an INFJ (love those guys).

By Fe I am not saying F extroverted, but extroverted F.....If that makes any sense?


Perhaps I should refer to it as Ef from now on.
 
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ThatGirl

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So you hate ENFPs, and now you hate Fe.
I just realized you also have a "I hate sensors" thread, too.

Hater! :nono:

It all seems to be coming back to the absence of reasoning.

Take in information. Processes it. Internalize it. Hypothetically apply it. Re-organize it. Look for anything missed. Account for the margin of error. Take a step back. Incorporate history. Look for solid possibilities. Act or speak once. Be valuable and accurate.


IS THAT TOO MUCH TO ASK?!?

Lol.



Edit: people seem to suck at the take in part. :(
 

lunalum

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I think I am a 7 now (still with some strong 5 tendencies), and I don't like any function when it tries to chain me down :solidarity: So maybe the Si/Te combo? Ni sometimes limiting my options? And that pesky Fe for making me care about connecting with people rather than just letting me go my own way :bananallama:
 

Elfboy

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I think I am a 7 now (still with some strong 5 tendencies), and I don't like any function when it tries to chain me down :solidarity: So maybe the Si/Te combo? Ni sometimes limiting my options? And that pesky Fe for making me care about connecting with people rather than just letting me go my own way :bananallama:

I find unhealthy Ni/Fe even more bothersome than Si/Te. Si/Te is more limited. "go to work and don't break the rules. outside of the rules though, do whatever you want" as opposed to Ni/Fe which is MUCH more intrusive. "believe what we believe. think what we think. do what we do. if you aren't exactly the way we want you to be, you're heartless and disruptive so we're just going to ruin your life." granted, I dislike both, but STJs are at least convinced by logic if you can prove to them that what they're doing and expecting is foolish. unhealthy NFJs do not care about this. they only care about feelings, duty and a warped sense of harmony and love. that is why unhealthy ENFJs are my least favorite of all the types.
 

Such Irony

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Type 5 and I find unhealthy Te or Fe the most annoying.
 
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A window to the soul

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I am also an 8 and hate Fe. it's so overly emotional and tries to control you via guilt trip, "community values" and schmoozing. FJs that aren't balanced are always talking in "should" "supposed to" and "unity". ugh it makes me sick. when you decide to do your own thing and not ask for their opinion, they call you "heartless" or "insecure" (where they come up with that one I'll never know). some FJs can be cool, but frankly most of them get on my friggin nerves

Well what the heck elfboy?? Thought we were cool.
 

Kasper

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I'm a 7.

I hate haters, and love lovers :yay:
 

Elfboy

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Well what the heck elfboy?? Thought we were cool.

no problem here. note the distinctions made between unhealthy and unhealthy Fe users. especially in the last sentence
 
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The one that manifests itself in an overly rigid mindset and an inability to cooperate. You know, that one.
 

raminda

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I'm apparently a 7 and I don't like Te that much, if I have to choose one.
 
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Glycerine

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I am type 5 and I find unbridled Fi annoying...... sometimes I really don't get a crap about your personal stance on what I am doing. FWIW, Fi can be GREAT at passive aggressive manipulation and can be in the same arena as Fe. I find Fe annoying too because it can be as suffocating as Fi. Overall, I like those functions.
 

King sns

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I am an 8 and, I HATE Fe.

I am wondering if there is a pattern here between enneagram and worst function preference. So post your enneagram and the function you think is most annoying.

A 7. Probably unhealthy Fe. They are day ruiners. Or anyone that overly abides to the rules. (I don't know if that's a function or not.) There's this one lady at my work who shows up to work 15 minutes early and stands by the time clock waiting for the time to turn to 2:45, (when we're supposed to punch in) and she just stares at the clock. She doesn't read a book or have a snack or anything. She literally just takes over the time clock area and stares at the wall clock. This really really bothers me more than it should. (I have a beef with some similar things that she does as well.) I hate showing up at 2:37 or 2:42 and having to push her out of the way. She always looks rather indignant when I do so. Anyone with these kinds of behaviors drive me nuts. Whatever function/ combination of functions that is.
 
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Glycerine

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I take back what I said, I kind of agree with Jock (even though he was probably joking). I find all the functions to be irritating as hell but very lovable.
 
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