Enneagram's Worst Type Preference

[Hopelandic]

6w7

I'll be honest... I have some Fe bias. Or should I say, bias against extraverted judging. Yes, it stems from my lackluster Je, but still. I really don't mind being bossed around, told what to do, criticised. I forgive and forget those things. But trying to -emotionally- control me (for my 'own good' or to to get something out of me) will be met by immense anger. Coercion and manipulation piss me the hell off.

 

[Hazashin]

To OP...

Probably ESFJ 1w2 so/sp.

 

[Elfboy]

To OP...

Probably ESFJ 1w2 so/sp.

as in that's the type you hate most? (if so, understandable hahaha)

 

[Hazashin]

as in that's the type you hate most? (if so, understandable hahaha)

Not "hate", but get frustrated most with, yeah.

 

[Elfboy]

Not "hate", but get frustrated most with, yeah.

same here, except So/Sx more. I just wanna be like "shut up! no one cares about your stupid friggin emotions"

 

[Hazashin]

same here, except So/Sx more. I just wanna be like "shut up! no one cares about your stupid friggin emotions"

Well, I have a bias for Sx, but I suppose what I'm thinking of is more So/Sx than So/Sp, huh?

 

[Hazard]

I'm an enneagram 9w8 and I can't stand Te. People ordering me around, especially ESTJs, piss me off.

 

[Hazashin]

I'm an enneagram 9w8 and I can't stand Te. People ordering me around, especially ESTJs, piss me off.

Oh, I know what you mean. I have two ESTJ teachers this semester, and I'm already frustrated with them after the first day. >_>

 

[Elfboy]

Oh, I know what you mean. I have two ESTJ teachers this semester, and I'm already frustrated with them after the first day. >_>

ESTJs are alright if they're balanced, in fact, a balanced ESTJ is one of the easiest people to work with of all the types. but when they're not, you sort of have to verbally bitch slap them a few times before they stop trying to subordinate you.

 

[SilkRoad]

I am a 6w5 (I think) and my least favourite is Fi, even though I've heard people say 6 is associated with Fi for some reason. Sorry Fi users, it's not personal, just going by the functions in isolation.

Ditto and probably ditto. I find that unhealthy Fi can in its own way be very intrusive.

It can translate as "I'm going to insist on inflicting my negative feelings on you, and on being self-centered, and using 'authenticity' and being 'true to myself' and 'not fake' as an excuse for my emo, selfish behaviour."