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    Quote Originally Posted by BlueGray View Post
    The sensation is similar to spending too much time with people in general but is slightly longer term. It's in terms of weeks rather than hours.
    Now that's an interesting and insightful perspective... like being worn out in an introvert way but for a longer period of time about being around individuals for too long?

    Like I said before... it's the other way around. I usually can't get enough of being around and interacting with individuals that I like. It's just being around actual people and socializing that drains me.
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    what are some stereotypes/experiences with sp/sx's (If you know INFP sp/sxs that would be great too. 4w5 as well). I really haven't read too much on sp/sx. I'm wondering how this instinctual variant generally gets on with others

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    Complaints of being very hot or very cold...being very intense and open followed by abrupt withdrawal and closed off.

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    What about So/Sp with Sp/So ?

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    I have many experiences here with SO/SP peoples. Especially complicated relationship with my mom ( She is ESE 1w2 So/Sp ).
    They're nice , warm , friendly , and easy going. But , i have hot and cold with them.

    I'm as SX/SP. I really seek long term relationship and i do something to myself & my closest person ( my friend ). But , when i'm single. I really want a boyfriend or partner to accepts me i am. But i want to alone tbh. *Oh , how indecisive i'm* , and i can't do relationship without commitment too tbh. Especially , i can trust people easily but i can't trust with people too.
    The good is , i can focus to one person tbh. But , i'm too withdraw into my world than outside. So , peoples mistype me as rude person. When , they don't approach me.

    Mom as SO/SP , she really enlarge her social connection and she tries to controls me to be like her tbh. Like , she said " You should be friendly to people and you can't survive without people. " And , she focuses to social network than intimacy. Although , she is more commit than me. But , the good is she has a lot of friends than me. It makes she is good business woman and dentist too.
    she complains me to being too intense like too hot but too cold , impulsive , and being loner wolf irl.
    *Especially , she has 3w2 fixes*

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    Quote Originally Posted by Virtual ghost View Post
    What about So/Sp with Sp/So ?
    Generally, I find it's a give or take there depending on the degree of sx blindness between each individual, the strength of the so/sp's sp, and the strength of the sp/so's so if we are going purely by instinctual comparability and not just human comparability in general.

    Generally speaking, I find that both types are likely to complain that the other is too closed off and that interaction can become difficult because of that. Nonetheless, sharing the two primary instincts, even if the order is reversed, typically suggests that areas of weakness/sore spots are in the same regime and, especially for those looking for someone to relate to or someone who understands their struggle, the two can get along pretty well. The expectation for increased intimacy isn't there, so the two generally enjoy casual and friendly relations based on fun, shared experience, and friendly interactions (at least until further bonding occurs).

    The biggest issue comes when the secondary instinct is super weak I suppose. Sp/so can have difficulty tolerating so/sp's focus on soc, seeing it as excessive or a subtle "fakeness," especially since sp themselves has no real drive to be incredibly included in networking or groups outside of spontaneously being absorbed into one or that soc activity specifically benefiting their sp. So/sp, especially when soc is weak in the sp/so, can find sp/so to be overtly dry and secluded, perhaps excessively aloof (unless the so/sp in particular is also aloof as well), too flowing and self absorbed to be attentive to the possibilities that the outside offers.
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    I make a lot of them uncomfortable because I have a propensity for inappropriateness. The 5s/Te types don't seem to be bothered by me and appear to enjoy my communication style.

    Sometimes So/Sp types try to briefly mimic/match my Sx in a bonding effort, and to me, it just comes across as awkward and ingenuine, albeit kinda cute in its efforts.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Peter Deadpan View Post
    I make a lot of them uncomfortable because I have a propensity for inappropriateness. The 5s/Te types don't seem to be bothered by me and appear to enjoy my communication style.

    Sometimes So/Sp types try to briefly mimic/match my Sx in a bonding effort, and to me, it just comes across as awkward and ingenuine, albeit kinda cute in its efforts.

    Some examples wouldn't hurt your case.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Virtual ghost View Post
    Some examples wouldn't hurt your case.
    I submit for your consideration, exhibits A through Z: My entire presence on this forum.
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    but to seem to, try to, or try to seem to."


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    So/sp + sx/so. It's entirely fine. There's usually a mutual understanding and help in eachother's blind spots. Also, both contraflow. They bring in intensity, we bring in the "WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING" part.
    So/sp+ sp/sx and sx/sp. I'm putting these ones together. It depends. At times, especially when paired with Te/Fi, I'm a bit put off, as they seem harsher an my social 6 scans for possible connections they don't seem to want to have. It's fine with some dialogue, I'd eventually find out that what I was mistaking for unfriendliness was just me being paranoid about nothing, since they can be more restrained in communication.
    I don't think that it's so personal
    Anymore
    I don't think that it's irreversible
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    Sometimes I feel like I'm a sentimental trooper.

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