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    Cool Type 1 and Type 3 ~ I wanna hear from you

    Hello 3 and 1 friends over here. I'm 5 but, as my curious nature (haha), I rarely any 3 or 1 posted here and I wanna learn more about you guys! If anyone's free and wanna share can you share anything or answer below questions? (as your wish, you can skip some if you don't feel like you want to)

    1. Can you share some of challenges in life? about work? relationship? or family?
    2. How did you succeed or fail to overcome those?
    3. What's your ideal partner type? physically, mentally, professionally?
    4. How did you realize you're 3 or 1? any specific situation?
    5. What kind of people you get into conflict with the most?
    6. What's your hobby? or interest?
    7. Anything else you wanna share

    Really hope to learn more about you guys
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    1. Can you share some of challenges in life? about work? relationship? or family?

    I have to get everyone together at work to get shit done, by being a bit bossy about it and delegating tasks. I have a very specific way of doing things, and if they do it my way, there won't be any problems. Some people (Usually ISTPs) love how I do things and we work well together. Then you got the SF's who are either really lazy or really helpful in all the bad ways. These are seriously the only types I have ever worked with in my job.

    The problem in relationships, is I do impose really high standards that would come off as "nagging" to many partners. Or they just start ignoring me, and I do it anyways. Which just makes me angry at them over time. I usually keep my perfectionism to myself, around other people outside of my relationship and work. As it is their house, their rules. Unless their house is filthy, then I will advise them on how to maintain it. Which they hate lol.

    2. How did you succeed or fail to overcome those?

    I am usually very persuasive, but its taken me years not to let it get to me. So I have learned to just let things go when it isn't working out. I sometimes just correct errors myself, or force myself to emotionally disengage from it being sloppy. Othertimes, people just get used to my system and everything runs very smoothly.

    3. What's your ideal partner type? physically, mentally, professionally?

    Probably an INTJ or INFJ. Physically, someone who can take care of themselves. Someone who is highly self reliant, reliable, and trustworthy. Knows how to handle finances. They have a consistent job.

    4. How did you realize you're 3 or 1? any specific situation?

    I have fluctuated between 5, 4, and 1 quite a bit, but I realized a lot of the motivations for my actions are very 1 like. I just integrate and disintegrate a lot (and am a lot more healthy than most 1s). I have also really liked the idea of being a 7, and had a lot of 4 traits. I think my 1 isn't that obvious, as I am also an sp. So I come off as more 5-ish and a lot of my 1 traits are not that observable online.

    5. What kind of people you get into conflict with the most?

    Generally feeling types, as I tend to disregard social conventions for a higher truth. Since I am an INTP, I am far less idealistic than other 1 types. I focus more on Ti-Si functions, and use Ne to see where things can go wrong as I perfect systems. Since I see things from a big picture perspective, feelings types get alienated that I don't look at the finer details like the value of being kind, or making everyone feel involved.

    6. What's your hobby? or interest?

    Writing, music, and anime, to be honest. Anime is one of the only things I like, as I don't have a lot of interests. (I am pretty weird, and I get overstimulated easy)

    7. Anything else you wanna share


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